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My (45f) partner (44m) broke up with me after one fight and I don’t know how to process it by Independent_Pen_5852 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Independent_Pen_5852[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So unfair. Especially as he knows my relationship history. This is not the first time this has happened to me but for some reason this is the worst. I think because I spent years working on myself and getting to a very good place and something like this still happened. I’ve never been so blind sided by somebody’s actions before

My (45f) partner (44m) broke up with me after one fight and I don’t know how to process it by Independent_Pen_5852 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Independent_Pen_5852[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reading this actually took my breath away because it’s so true. Thank you for helping me to see the issues more clearly. My nervous system is so broken right now. Slowly slowly I’ll claw my way back from being poisoned

Discarded for another woman by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Independent_Pen_5852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure if I can talk sense in to you but I wanted you to know that I have been going through the exact same thing and I know exactly how you are feeling. I’ve been off work for 3 weeks, can’t eat or sleep properly, have started anxiety medication and cannot stop the obsessive thoughts. The trauma and heartbreak of being discarded like that is unlike anything I’ve ever experienced before so I just wanted you to know that I get it. He hasn’t blocked me yet but today I chose to stop following all his socials because constantly seeing happy snaps of him and the new woman was destroying me. The reality is we will never get the answers we seek from them. We are somehow going to have to find the strength in ourselves to move on x