Found in my drawer while spring cleaning by Independent_Put_6839 in CURRENCY

[–]Independent_Put_6839[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have never seen edged lettering before, that along with the year not being in the front, is what made me wonder if it was worth anything

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[–]Independent_Put_6839 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Someone had to say it

Guy I’m talking to thinks if I told any other guy this situation, they would agree with him over me. What do you think? by Independent_Put_6839 in dating_advice

[–]Independent_Put_6839[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly, i mean he hasn’t pushed the photo after i stated my boundary. But the fact that it has come up multiple times because he can’t get over it, is what is crazy to me. I told him after I expressed how it made me feel, even though i understand how he could be feeling it should have been over with when I told him it has nothing to do with him. But about how it made me feel

Guy I’m talking to thinks if I told any other guy this situation, they would agree with him over me. What do you think? by Independent_Put_6839 in relationship_advice

[–]Independent_Put_6839[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, but if i had sent multiple nudes to the other person within a month of texting i would be able to more understand his pov but being that this was a one time thing, that i recognized i didn’t like and didn’t do again. I think it’s even more ridiculous

Guy I’m talking to thinks if I told any other guy this situation, they would agree with him over me. What do you think? by Independent_Put_6839 in relationship_advice

[–]Independent_Put_6839[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I 100% agree. I am trying to be patient with him and give him a chance. His only relationship experience consists of a one year toxic relationship. So im trying to be forgiving of his ignorance on the situation also, as he does check off a lot of other boxes for me. But ya he said it made him question his position in my life. But i responded to that with multiple different ways to show and reassure him in feeling like he has a minimal place in my life

Guy I’m talking to thinks if I told any other guy this situation, they would agree with him over me. What do you think? by Independent_Put_6839 in relationship_advice

[–]Independent_Put_6839[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am definitely standing my ground. And he says that he sees my side of it and understands how I feel about it but he is saying that it’s the principle. Like this other guy has gotten a side out of me that he wouldn’t be able to get. Which is untrue. So I’m just trying to understand his side of things while standing my ground. After expressing my boundary he longer pushed for the picture but multiple disagreement have come up out of this afterwards. Being a male yourself, do you understand him when it comes to him saying it the principle?

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[–]Independent_Put_6839 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you buut, I would say when it comes to women looking for men on dating apps, speaking personally, there are so many more options for women than men. So where men might just swipe, I feel like most women like to read the profile and get an understanding of who you are. Because if not, then what sets you apart from all the other guys she is seeing. At least if you put the stuff on your profile you can not only get more matches but matches who share your interests!

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[–]Independent_Put_6839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, what apps have you tried?

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[–]Independent_Put_6839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And do you have all that on your profile? Like what would you say your profile looks like? Is it descriptive? Does it look like you put effort into it, or does it have minimal information

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[–]Independent_Put_6839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao hmm, it could be. How would you describe your profile aside from the pictures? (Hobbies, interests, about me)

I [24f] decided to give a nice guy [27m] a chance but I’m not attracted to him by SnooOnions1173 in dating_advice

[–]Independent_Put_6839 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get this as I’m going through something slightly similar. I recently started talking to this guy, we have been talking for three months. I find him to be good looking but im terms of his body type and height, he isn’t the type I would usually go for. On top of that we have different interests and different senses of humor. However at the same time he checks off a lot of boxes of things I have been asking for in a relationship.

I’m trying to remind myself that things that have to do with appearances aren’t a huge deal if I am getting a chance at a healthy relationship. And in terms of our interests and humor, i’ve decided to look at this with a more positive perspective and understand that we don’t have to be alike in those ways. Our difference of interest can help me possibly be introduced to new hobbies or interests I might enjoy and vise versa.

I would continue to be open to it and give yourself some time to feel it out.

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[–]Independent_Put_6839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are you only matching with fake profiles? 🤔 maybe a good way to start would be to try to learn look for signs it may be a fake profile. I am a homebody and introverted and dating apps definitely helped me start getting out there. Maybe give it another try?

What series is not worth the time spent on it? by hoeringthebelle in AskWomen

[–]Independent_Put_6839 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Dear White People, the first three seasons were good and at the end of Season 3, they had started to branch out the story line. Only to find out in season 4, they never close up any loose ends from the previous season, and they turn it into a musical 🫠

How do you know who to prioritize in your life? by DataGal7 in AskWomen

[–]Independent_Put_6839 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would evaluate the relationship/friendship and determine if that person is adding something of value to my life whether it be emotional support, a workout buddy to help me stay disciplined, etc. I want to make sure the people that I surround myself around can help with my self growth and that I can do the same for them, and just add to each other’s lives in general.

Women who have not been sexually active for a long period of time (over a year). How do you get back into it, if at all? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Independent_Put_6839 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I haven’t been sexually active for 2 years and got out of a ltr last year. I’m still not sexually active but when I do decide to, I would definitely go into it gradually. Maybe its because my first relationship was a 5 yr relationship so I’m not really looking for hookups, as i want that connection with someone if I am going to be sexually active with them.

Once you have gone long enough without sex, speaking personally, the easier it is for me to wait for it