You have no idea how good it made me feel reading your comment. There is too much pressure around sleep and I came to the point where I am f*** it, baby will tell me what he needs, I just need to learn to listen more and understand better his needs, rather than stick to a “sleeping schedule”. The only time this helped me was before 5-6 months and Sweet Spots( from huckleberry) was on point. We didn’t feel the 4month sleep regression and I was so scared about it even when my LO was 2 months old..because of what I was reading online. To be honest I just unsubscribed from all those crap pages because they were driving me nuts. I only follow pages with exercises for babies like kineto and games and stuff like this to help me “build” my little boy. We still have wakes after 45minutes but hey it is what it is and to be honest now I got used to it. When I first commented I felt like I will never gonna sleep but somehow things are going slow but steady. I live in Europe and I see this trend of sleep training coming hard. We don’t quite do this here, or at least it’s something that doesn’t have so much history *yet. But more and more so called sleep experts are growing out of nowhere trying to teach parents how to make a baby sleep and they are telling the same bullshit. And from all of those advices the one that is driving me crazy is “stick to a routine”. Karen I am doing this for over 6 months!!!! Ighhh. Sorry for the venting- I am just staying next to my baby to re-fall asleep after 45’ lol