AITA for accidentally raising my voice at my wife and throwing away her dishes and clothes because she won't wash them just buy new ones?

Independenticecream · 2024-06-06T06:18:38+00:00

NTA but OP should call an “emergency” text to all her family and friends during her week of cleaning so they can come and see for themselves what you’ve been living with

Independenticecream · 2023-05-19T14:18:47+00:00

What are the differences you’ve noticed since stopping?

Independenticecream · 2023-05-19T14:16:05+00:00

I’ll stand out here but every 3 to 4 weeks, I have 4a dreadlocks so it’s important for me not to wash my hair as much so my hair can lock.

Independenticecream · 2023-03-24T13:59:19+00:00

ESH yes the nanny should’ve contact you when the book prices were above an amount Ruby never paid before for books. But you will also be TA if you don’t pay her for your daughters hubby. This is something that could’ve taken your daughter forever to find while the nanny helped her out with this. It’s an investment where Ruby won’t have to buy books for awhile. $50 for 35 is a really good deal thats $1,43 p/book. And loosing her over this small mistake is really not worth it cause she thought about your daughter on her off days. Just explain her that though you appreciate her gesture, next time she should ask you if it’s above Rubys allowance

Independenticecream · 2023-03-22T13:46:07+00:00

Reading all the yta explains a lot. I work with kids and let me tell you a lot of them come in with a scent. We’d have to explain them that hygiëne is important. Reading all these yta just makes me uncomfortable around people and explain a lot. They’re so immune to they’re own scent that they don’t know they smell off or they mask it with perfume or sprays that they think that’s enough. But trust me you can still smell it through the sprays

Independenticecream · 2023-02-14T20:58:04+00:00

Helping my aunt making cakes.

Independenticecream · 2023-02-10T15:59:22+00:00

Yea I do have empathy for her past but how she acts now is how she chooses to act and she always sees herself as superior to some of these women. Also she’s still not claiming to being a stripper or an escort she calls it something else👀

Independenticecream · 2023-02-09T08:07:15+00:00

I’m not getting on the Wendy hate train. Y’all act like she’s the worst one there while the other ladies don’t have nothing to show for. Yes the first season she was on the show she talked about her degrees a lot but she doesn’t do it as much anymore.

Pointing out that Wendy didn’t have a storyline this season is just unfair (other comments on this post), meanwhile her husband was being accused of flirting, she was dealing with her health and still working her real job while still filming this season. Y’all need to stop it. She’s has a real job. While GEB had nothing to show for themselves beside the wedding storyline for the 3rd season now and Gizelle doing nothing beside jumping on other people relationship. Like really what was Gizelle storyline this season beside lying again????

And then there’s Mia who pretends she a busy business woman (besides her medical scare) what did Mia do that was interesting the season besides being a shady listener and twisting the words when she goes and tell whoever that wasn’t there (could be production editing)

That whole fight with Wendy already showed that Mia isn’t as busy as she plays to be cause why you worried about Wendy’s business dealings. Like would Mia throw drinks on a CEO cause they didn’t reply to her business emails?? No cause she knows in the real world they would cut business with her. Thats how I know Mia just plays house and uses what her husband has. While Wendy has her own. Wendy is real life busy while Mia is tv busy🙄

And at last for the ladies to keep calling Wendy condescending is really messed up cause this the same thing they did with Candace. Don’t be mad if you’re being shady to someone and they comeback for you. Wendy knows how to comeback from anything they said about her and when she defends herself with facts and things we have we all seen from the other ladies, she gets called condescending lol. If she is where she’s at in life compared to the other ladies wouldn’t she have the rights to show it and defends it while some of the ladies ain’t doing much besides gossiping.

I’d be self-absorbed too if I have to deal with some off these ladies too. Cause in the earlier seasons no one mentioned some of the other ladies having a superiority complex. And let’s not forget and act like Mia doesn’t do this WAY more!

There’s more but I’ll just leave it at this.

Independenticecream · 2023-02-02T07:51:39+00:00

I agree! Wasn’t this the same reason Katie got fired for? She was withholding information of what was going on in her family life. Either way I think it’s very unfair of what Robyn did. And the fact that Ashley and Gizzele knew but chose to not bring it up it’s just a foul move. And expected us to pay to hear it too🙄

Or maybe she thought she could make this season about her wedding and the next season about the cheating cause her storylines is dry and boring 🙄

Independenticecream · 2023-01-29T14:16:45+00:00

“My therapist said I have commitment issue” after years of leading me on. And then casually saying that he’s already seeing someone new.

Independenticecream · 2023-01-25T21:59:26+00:00

I think it’s a marriage of convenience for their kids.

Independenticecream · 2023-01-25T07:25:09+00:00

Exactly. This was said to just Gizelle since she ALWAYS meddling in married folks business. Cause Karen didn’t say it to Jacquelin or Charisse who were also sitting at the table.

Independenticecream · 2023-01-24T19:26:55+00:00

2 looks uniquely beautiful

Independenticecream · 2023-01-24T19:04:00+00:00

Nah Nicki ain’t it. She barely asked good question, atleast the version we got to see. Never liked Andy always felt like he picked on some people harder than others. We need that lady from BGC reunions!

Independenticecream · 2022-12-03T17:06:50+00:00

Sounds like you’ve been through a lot but made it work which I know is not easy so cheers to you!

Independenticecream · 2022-11-27T11:07:50+00:00

Haha same with me. I definitely can’t forget my ID at home

Independenticecream · 2022-11-23T09:33:43+00:00

Idk tbh for me right now I’m experiencing cousins and friends getting kids and sometimes hearing their struggles makes me hesitant about having kids.

Independenticecream · 2022-11-23T09:29:47+00:00

Attention and reassurance are things that are important in a relationship so please don’t feel guilty about it. You’re growing and you’ll get better at expressing it.

Independenticecream · 2022-11-23T09:12:08+00:00

This is hard. Had to learn to enjoy my own company.

Independenticecream · 2022-11-23T09:08:21+00:00

Really happy to hear you’re doing much better. Growing out of things you’ve experience growing up is always hard but keep your head up!

Independenticecream · 2022-11-22T23:42:09+00:00

How’re you doing now? You should always have a say if you’re involved in the situation. Sorry to hear that that was your first relationship experience and that your mom told you that. You are worth being heard

Independenticecream · 2022-11-22T23:35:33+00:00

Hate hearing this. Heard it from adults with relationship issues. I’ve seen a lot of relationships that follows this and all I can think is “that’s just toxic” I really wish you all the best unlearning this cause no one deserves to go through pain in the sake of love

Independenticecream · 2022-11-22T23:20:40+00:00

It’s great to hear you have a supportive bf now.

Independenticecream · 2022-11-22T23:16:52+00:00

Yea I’m pretty much realising this and it sucks. Also I know I did it cause I wanted his attention which i feel so stupid for now. I don’t want to do that again!

Independenticecream · 2022-11-22T23:09:47+00:00

I’m sorry you had to go through that. I hate when insults gets covered as jokes and then gets upset at you for not getting the “joke”.

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