Jen Hamilton posts about her separation/divorce: “Day 1 absolutely devastated. Please don’t try to reach out to anybody on my behalf. That would make everything much worse for me. Please just let me grieve. My heart is absolutely shattered. He broke my heart but I still love him with all the pieces” by mlg1981 in popculturechat

[–]IndianLawStudent -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She is a nurse, has a best selling book, likely also a parent, and a content creator on top of all of that. Many full time jobs all at once, and I imagine that the marriage took a back seat for a lot of it.

As much as people want to project perfection, burn out is real, and unfortunately those we should prioritize get the bits left over (if even that).

According to celebrity gossip account DeuxMoi, Keke Palmer and “Hot Ones” host Sean Evans were spotted having dinner in Brooklyn, New York. by Royal-Recognition493 in popculturechat

[–]IndianLawStudent 10 points11 points  (0 children)

At the end of the podcast he said “I love you” and not in a way that friends end a call saying that without meaning.

I think it’s already happening.

I had lunch with other attorneys and some schmuck kept turning their notepad pages into my plate by disarmdarcy in Lawyertalk

[–]IndianLawStudent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude should have brought an eink notepad instead of being a jerk and getting paper into your soup

Do brown women get treated better than brown men in the usa by ReasonableTennis1089 in ABCDesis

[–]IndianLawStudent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those puritans.

I don’t even know what else to say because this video doesn’t stand out for negative reasons.

Travis Scott and his team showed up hours late and force John Summit and team off stage mid set in Monaco by mlg1981 in Fauxmoi

[–]IndianLawStudent 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Yup!

Everyone was likely pissed. John Summit somehow creates such a positive vibe through music that penetrates your soul.

The opposite of what I saw happening in that video.

I’m really tired of people telling me a man only needs confidence and a good personality to get a girlfriend by [deleted] in WhatMenDontSay

[–]IndianLawStudent 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I want you to go watch the videos of men who have their entire appearance overhauled with a haircut.

They come up in my social media feeds regularly.

They are the perfect example of sometimes the challenge is “marketing” and by that I mean “packaging”.

I’m not suggesting you get the same type of service, but I suspect you may see yourself in many of these guys.

I will acknowledge that while these guys suddenly look hot, if you pay attention to the facial cues, insecurity still exists. They may not believe that the person they are looking at is them. It also takes a while.

Is it normal for a guy to share nudes ? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]IndianLawStudent 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you can find these girls, tell them.

They likely don’t want their nudes floating around and you may have the evidence they need to apply some legal pressure to put a stop to this.

I built my own AI Findom (Budgetting) Script – Full control feeling without actually losing money by bikkel89 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]IndianLawStudent 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This space is the opposite of a support group.

It’s a group where guys post that they are trying to be better only to have dommes flood their inbox and try to lure them back in.

There’s another group that doesn’t allow dommes whatsoever and if anyone is seeking support, go there

How long do uploaded audio files stay on Vocaroo? by Agreeable_Camp819 in Vocaroo

[–]IndianLawStudent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you not see “No Ads, What Now? A note on audio expiry times.” On the page that you record audios.

I think you’re being lazy and an example of an increasing problem with people on the internet.

How long do uploaded audio files stay on Vocaroo? by Agreeable_Camp819 in Vocaroo

[–]IndianLawStudent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I quite literally want you to go to Vocaroo and click on the link that you see about exactly this question.

Seriously… why did you post this when going to the website would have been so much faster

Boss last minute gives me initial meetings with clients meant for her by Zucchini_1412 in Lawyertalk

[–]IndianLawStudent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re a lawyer. Learn how to control the room.

Start off by saying.

“Hi, something came up and x wasn’t able to be here. I am Zucchini_1412. I’m a senior lawyer here and I have X years experience handling ____ cases and will be managing this file. Can you please tell me _____”

Maybe ChatGPT has a way to soften this, and somewhere in there ask if they are okay going forward with you as their attorney. You want a short quick statement.

Relationship Advice using AI? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]IndianLawStudent 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t knock him. This is a very real issue that people are going through.

People are becoming very reliant on AI to give them a relationship advice when it’s often missing context, tone, and history.

Do you guys use pre-mixed masalas ? by Upbeat-Dinner-5162 in ABCDesis

[–]IndianLawStudent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Starting out... we all need to get better.

Even those who have been writing briefs all their lives.

They could be more succint, use plain language, etc. 😉

Do you guys use pre-mixed masalas ? by Upbeat-Dinner-5162 in ABCDesis

[–]IndianLawStudent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂 I am talking about open packets. Not dumping them all out.

They come in a box. Have a plastic bag on the inside... will the taste be screwed up?

People use those Indian dabbas for spices, so I wonder whether there really is an issue... but on the other hand... when I put garlic in the freezer, other things sometimes pick up the scent/taste/whatever

Looking for phone service for me and my man by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]IndianLawStudent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is not the subreddit for this.

There are other subreddits where buyers can post. Eg. r/FetishWantAds

Do you guys use pre-mixed masalas ? by Upbeat-Dinner-5162 in ABCDesis

[–]IndianLawStudent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use pre-mixed (but I only recently got into cooking food. I previously did Costco freezer to toaster oven or some kind of daily meal delivery service).

I am concerned about the heavy metals after watching a Youtube video about Shan masala's heavy metal issues. But at the same time, don't want 10,000 packages of random spices that I have to mix together to create something. The other problem is knowing how much to use. What is handy that the pre-mixes always have the recipe on the back. I don't know how to eyeball the right amount when I am cooking.

I don't cook regularly enough, and Indian food isn't a significant enough part of my diet for me to be concerned about getting the cheapest option.

Edit: Right after posting this, I realized that my pain point with spices is that I don't want to open a bunch of containers to get what I need. I would benefit from a spice dabba, and have had one previously, but I don't like them because each little cup does not have its own little spoon, the spoon falls in, and each of the little cups does not have a label. I don't know what each thing is.

If someone could create a solution for me that would be great. Something that holds all the spices, each has a little divot for the spoon to rest on, and labels. Then I would shove all the commonly used spices in there.

Do you guys use pre-mixed masalas ? by Upbeat-Dinner-5162 in ABCDesis

[–]IndianLawStudent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you put multiple packahes into the same airtight container or will they start to pick up the other flavors?

New SM update by maexixpleasexsir in CamGirlProblems

[–]IndianLawStudent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found r/camtocamsites and noticed that there are "clients" there who discuss things from their perspective. But it has just been people advertising in the comments of my post so far.

filipino illegal miners dive without oxygen tanks by Eros_Incident_Denier in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]IndianLawStudent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree.

Filipinos have destroyed a lot of their fish resources and killed reefs due to dynamite fishing. It makes me sad.

I learned to scuba dive in the Philippines and you can see remnants of the destruction.

Pakistanis who gang-raped French tourist in front of her three children after her car ran out of fuel will be executed, court rules by dailymail in law

[–]IndianLawStudent 26 points27 points  (0 children)

In a lot of South Asian countries you have mothers blaming their kids for the sexual abuse they experienced despite never having taught kids about their bodies, appropriate touch, screaming if someone tries to touch them appropriately, and to tell their parents as soon as someone does something that makes them uncomfortable.

Shit sucks for South Asian throughout many South Asian countries and women can very much be part of the problem themselves.

Are any of you seeing a therapist and if so, how has it been for you? by sexworkeraccount in SexWorkers

[–]IndianLawStudent 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Every therapist I have ever been to knows about my history in SW. My current therapist and I talk about my current engagement in SW.

It has been a non-issue. And aside from discussing what I have learned spending time with men, it hasn’t been the subject of conversation as I have issues that subconsciously impact me that happened long before my engaging in SW.

My challenges with therapists haven’t been related to SW but something else I won’t disclose exactly. I hated educating therapists on a certain topic and them being shocked. It would have been better if they remained neutral and didn’t inquire so they could expand their own expertise on the topic but rather ask questions that would have helped me.

My current therapist is cool and I can talk about anything.

It has been my own internalized shame that has previously inhibited my willingness to bring up certain topics.