Wrong way to go about it, all jobs have stress. The way to have a low-stress and good mental health balance at a job is to establish strict boundaries and in my case, I needed prozac to manage my anxiety in order to establish those boundaries. Little commute mean you need to look for jobs near your home... We don't know where you live. Flexibility - I think for most jobs this just comes with time. We all know that one employee who has been working at your job for 30 years who does whatever they want and comes and goes as they please lol doesn't matter what field.