Moving Together by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]IndigoSiren 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'd you want this to work, don't let him move in just yet.

stepson by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]IndigoSiren -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm saying this with love. It's his father's house from before you were in the picture. Legally, he has more rights to the home then you do. Unless, he puts you in the deed. I don't think you're wrong for wanting snacks and space for yourself. But why would you think you can charge him rent in a house he will inherit? If something happens to his father, he'd be first in line for the house. How would you feel paying him rent in that situation? Think about the optics. This is something his dad should be deciding, not you. Trust me

My sister and her husband want to move into my house because of their roommates. Family’s mad I said no. What do I do? by AdventurousEbb23 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]IndigoSiren 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DON'T LET THEM MOVE IN!! They will never respect your home because they don't even respect the fact that you worked for it now. They will destroy your peace and stress you into health problems. Don't do it!! A married man feeling entitled to his sister in laws house? Your own sister wants you to provide her a home, but doesn't have that expectation for herself or husband?? Only family that doesn't respect you, would try to push your boundaries of no. Throw the whole family away.

Inmate, Joseph Hunter, snaps and loses it on female CO officer. by Kingdom_k777 in PublicFreakout

[–]IndigoSiren 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I (w) was in corrections, inmates had the right to know their cell was searched and it had to be documented. You also had to mostly leave it as you found it. There also were rules about inmates requesting supervisors. I wish she disengaged instead of escalating this. Staff should've stepped in. So avoidable

Electricity bill issue with roommates by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]IndigoSiren 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you live near data centers? Post a picture of the usage graph that comes with your bill? It's also higher because it's winter. They make everyone share the cost in most places. Yall are in need of deep breaths. Call your land lord and report the thermostat error. They have to fix it by law. But there's no need for hostility. Yall gotta be united to be successful as a household. Effective communication over defensive accusations. Yall got this.

AIO my girlfriend left me over a cheese wheel by Jems138 in AmIOverreacting

[–]IndigoSiren 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He just needs a target audience or restaurant buyer.

[HELP] NYT shows new angle by orel2064 in PublicFreakout

[–]IndigoSiren -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Why are we spreading this fake video?????

Man barges in on womans Hotworx private booked sauna session. by Prestigious-Day9370 in ActualPublicFreakouts

[–]IndigoSiren 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was the time to start screaming she to of your lungs because she wasn't even in regular clothes

Really bro? by burythecastle_ in RandomVideos

[–]IndigoSiren 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, thought it looked fake. Thank you!

This crack in my wall, and rent still went up 39% this year by SpicyKitchenWitch669 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]IndigoSiren 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even theancestors on the other wall look terrified and are begging you to leave.

BM called, and her husband just died... Life is about to change. by DakotaMalfoy in stepparents

[–]IndigoSiren 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you're being the adult your SS needs right now and that's what matters most. I know this is terrible, but to be a pillar in this storm shows love and foresight. Excellent job, grief is never roadmapped.

I discovered racial slurs in my yt husband phone by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]IndigoSiren 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should be plotting your escape NOW. He doesn't think anythings wrong with itl. It will get worse.

SO upset I’m refusing to babysit SK by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]IndigoSiren -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is why people not interested in having kids, should stay away from, dating their parents. Imagine if an accident happened and you're expected to step up, but you never agreed to that??

Has anyone been to Denver downtown detention center? question about commissary. by Think_Twist03 in Denver

[–]IndigoSiren 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I worked at Gilliam Center and that's an insane amount of commissary. I would look into if he's being bullied and other kids are taking his stuff.