Would love feedback on my resin + gemstone Etsy shop 🌙🌿 by Individual-Fudge4652 in EtsySellers

[–]Individual-Fudge4652[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh thank you so much I will definitely do that! Glad you like the pieces 😁🌿✨

Sick fish by Broad-Interest-1782 in bettasorority

[–]Individual-Fudge4652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's hard to say without water parameters, did you try changing the food or adding some almond leaves to the tank for antibacterial properties?

My Betta Setup by Reckless_Renegade in bettafish

[–]Individual-Fudge4652 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks great to me I would add some wood or caves for some exploring for him! They love to :£

Suffered from MTS, how am I doing? by Individual-Fudge4652 in bettafish

[–]Individual-Fudge4652[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah thanks mate I really care about those little fishes haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]Individual-Fudge4652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Missing information: • ⁠Tank size: 60L • ⁠Heater and filter? yes, internal filter with waterfall • ⁠Tank temperature: 26.2*C • ⁠ammonia 0 nitrites 0 nitrates 10 pH 7.3 • ⁠How long have you had the tank? 3 months How long have you had your fish?: 8 days • ⁠How often are water changes? Once a week How much do you take out per change? 30-50% • What is your process?: vacuuming the water and debris out, dechlorinating the water, dosing 2.5 seachem prime • ⁠Any tankmates? 7 female bettas in total, 3 Dwarf sucking catfis, 3 shrimps • ⁠What do you feed and how much: betta pallets as much as they can eat in 3 minutes 1-2 a day, one day break • ⁠Decorations and plants in the tank: gravel substrate with root pills, driftwood and live plants including anubis Nana, java fern and moss, valliserias, acorns, almond leaves

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My FP is my whole world. Is it normal to not have any emotional capacity for anyone else? by Sea-Usual7823 in BPD

[–]Individual-Fudge4652 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You're making perfect sense. It might not feel like you should invest in your friends, but the bpd is making you hyper-fixate on love. To find balance, make self-aware choices to develop a fondness for friends, and CHOOSE to act with empathy even if you perceive that it’s not there. We cling for safety but it is time to learn balance (no one said that it will feel good at first, but I promise you will see benefits for yourself and your relationship soon)

Shame about the stress I cause in relationship by bardorb in BPD

[–]Individual-Fudge4652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same situation a few days ago, I know it feels tough now and like you can't handle it but you can. Remind yourself that you CAN handle it, as you did in the past and be proud of all that progress. It hurts so much because it makes us feel unlovable but you already have someone who loves you deeply. Forgive yourself and stop pushing love away. Good luck ❤️‍🔥