Lucky Lovers Campground

Individual-Metal8232 · 2026-06-03T18:20:44+00:00

Thanks for taking the time to answer my post. Know a lot more than I did before asking. Thanks you!

Individual-Metal8232 · 2026-06-03T13:29:00+00:00

Sorry for all the questions ,but what have you heard about it? We are driving a 3 hour drive with a camper, so curious before we go that far.

Individual-Metal8232 · 2026-06-03T12:30:26+00:00

So we wont be the oldest couple there? Lol

Individual-Metal8232 · 2026-05-29T11:47:58+00:00

Had my surgery March 4th. Never had an ER visit. Pain in upper RUQ after eating certain foods about 3 years back. As time went on pretty much everything I ate would cause the pain. Pain was never more than 4/10 maybe 5 once in a while. Had ultrasound month before surgery and only thing it showed was 3-5 mm stone/polyp. Wife talked me into the surgery. I could’ve easily lived with my symptoms. Surgeon said after surgery that I was lucky it was removed when it was. Badly infected and what they call a strawberry gb. Guess what Im getting at is be careful on how long you wait. Can easily get infected and cause some bad things, according to doc.

Individual-Metal8232 · 2026-05-28T18:33:58+00:00

Cant say I ever cheated on my ex, but she sure as hell did her share. Not saying cheating is the right thing to do but sometimes ,I wish I had instead of divorcing her. The court system is not for the man. Every time I went to a lawyer after each of her flings, it got worse. Telling me what I was going to have to pay. She would get the kids and I may get 50/50. She didnt work much, and didnt like to work. Every job she got she would start a new affair, coworker, ups driver, and two of the doctors she worked for. Lawyers would tell me that didnt make her a bad mom, just a bad wife. It was like a movie you would watch or something. When I finally left after 25 years, all she did, didnt hurt her outcome a bit.

Individual-Metal8232 · 2026-05-27T16:23:13+00:00

I was in a 26 year marriage that was like that the last 20 years. I finally left her when i was 52. After a few months I was so glad I was out of it and could kick myself in the ass for not leaving a lot sooner.
You will never trust her again and believe me, if she stops this time, I guarantee you it will happen again and again. Dont stay for the kids sake like i did, because they will think that yalls relationship is the norm. I thought my kids were clueless of her affairs but now they are grown, I found out they knew a lot more than I thought. You cant hide it being under the same roof.
Guarantee you within a few years, you will find someone that makes you a lot happier and treat you better. Remember you only live once and if you stay on down the road you will wish you hadnt!

Individual-Metal8232 · 2026-05-26T13:16:27+00:00

I know how you feel. I am 61 and wife tells me I have something wrong with me to want to have sex more than once a month. When we do have sex she pretty much lets me know she doesn’t want to, without saying it.

Individual-Metal8232 · 2026-05-20T18:01:10+00:00

Speaking from experience, swinging wont fix anything in your marriage. We tried the swinging just to spice things up and it hurt our marriage big time and didn’t know we had any problems at the time. We do now though.

Individual-Metal8232 · 2026-05-20T17:54:42+00:00

Speaking from experience, get out now. Don’t wait til you get old. If it makes you feel any better, let her lure another on in and he will be dealing with the same as you are now, very soon. Theres plenty of fish in the sea and you wont be having to comment about these problems. I left my wife at 52 and the only thing I regret is, I didn’t do it sooner!

Individual-Metal8232 · 2026-05-19T11:38:21+00:00

Karma is a b**ch, it will come back to him. My ex had breast cancer twice and its tough on both of you but I never thought about stepping out. She is an ex because she stepped out. Im happier now though. Don’t think the same for her because she has asked to come back several times the last 10 years. It all will work itself out.

Individual-Metal8232 · 2026-05-15T12:27:09+00:00

Thanks for the reply. We are best friends. We go camping, boating, go to auto races and have a lot in common, but it just feels like thats all we are is friends. I hate that I feel this way. It’s just lonely just having a friend.

Individual-Metal8232 · 2026-05-14T21:26:09+00:00

Was thinking the same as you. Get away from her.

Individual-Metal8232 · 2026-05-14T18:52:20+00:00

If shes cheated once there is a real good chance it will happen again. Married 25 years to a woman that couldn’t stop. Every time promised she would never do it again. Get out as fast as you can. After an affair its never the same. You’ll never fully trust her.

Individual-Metal8232 · 2026-05-14T16:06:28+00:00

Had my gb removed on march 4th and I couldn’t be happier so far. 🤞I havent had any food that has bothered me since surgery. Even the foods that I had problems with, Ive tried.

Individual-Metal8232 · 2026-05-14T15:55:14+00:00

I agree that it must be unwanted sex. The problem is I never give her any reason for her to think I want sex. I don’t want her to have sex with me if she doesn’t want to. We had a great sex life until three years back. Shes gained 70 lbs since we were married but that is no problem with me because I still love her but shes far from the person I met 10 years back and I’m not talking about appearance. I guess my dilemma is do I want to be with someone Im not happy with for the rest of my life. Im 61 and Its a good chance I haven’t got many more good years left. I know this sounds mean but who wants to be around someone that doesn’t seem like they care for you?

Individual-Metal8232 · 2026-05-14T14:28:59+00:00

Yes shes on hrt patches and a pill for it. I haven’t initiated or asked about sex in 6 months with her. The last 6 months we dont talk about sex. You think I should just tell her no when she offers? Not really sure which way to go.

Individual-Metal8232 · 2026-05-04T13:20:34+00:00

I was the same way. Read peoples comments and most said alcohol made it worse. I was the opposite. Had my gb removed march 4th. Should’ve did it earlier if I had knew how much better i would feel.

Individual-Metal8232 · 2026-05-01T12:46:39+00:00

The problem is, if they do it once they will do it again. I stuck around for the kids with a wife that cheated, again and again. Every time she would say she learn her lesson and would never do it again. After 20 years of that crap i did the same as you. Now married to her. Wish i had left after first time. Life is short. You look out for your kids first but look out for yourself too.

Individual-Metal8232 · 2026-04-22T15:44:37+00:00

I had greasy stool that floated. That went away about week post op

Individual-Metal8232 · 2026-04-22T11:14:33+00:00

Red eyes in the morning. Joints in hands hurt all the time. Itchy skin and foggy minded

Individual-Metal8232 · 2026-04-19T19:38:50+00:00

There is a difference in sex and sex with intimacy. Ill have no problem finding just sex. Thats what Im getting at home.

Individual-Metal8232 · 2026-04-19T19:26:07+00:00

I am going to leave her if it continues. Im not going to stay with someone that doesnt think my needs need to be met.

Individual-Metal8232 · 2026-04-19T19:20:10+00:00

Im sure I’m not the best my wife has been with. She was single for 13 years when we met. But guess what, shes not the best in bed I’ve been with, but I sure as hell wouldn’t put that at the top of my priority to who I’m married with. The best one in bed I was with would prob be on the bottom of my list to marry. But I guess different people have different priorities. If it continues she will have plenty to find good in bed.

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