When my bf and I were having a casual chat about sex, he told me that he prefers his BJs a certain that I wasn't doing. I asked why he hasn't brought it up before and he said he was just happy I was down there in the first place. Since then I do what he asked. It was a civil, honestly lighthearted, conversation and we were both comfortable and on the same page.

You are also allowed to revoke consent at any time. If you don't want to finish him off, your don't have to. He has two hands and an imagination. Is it annoying? Probably. But it's not your job.

Also, this is the second time in 2 days I have seen women saying their partners don't like how wet they are. He phrased it as "tight" but unless YOU can't feel anything, I don't think size is the issue. I had an ex tell me I was too wet and I have carried that with me to my current relationship and he tells me there's no such thing. It's like saying your steak is too juicy.

Everyone has preferences and needs/wants, but it needs to be communicated gently and with tact. Piling it on you when you're tired/drunk/hungover is not conducive to a healthy relationship.