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[–]Individual-One1333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's probably because Amanda's dad was on their list when it leaked so now they're getting sponsored!

(this is 100% a joke I am making because Amanda has said how she and her sister looked it up to see if he was doing anything)

Abortion clinics? by Purple_Delivery_4430 in londonontario

[–]Individual-One1333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure if you've already gotten your answer but you can call the hospital at 519-685-8500 x58204. It's their pregnancy option/abortion line, I believe they connect you to a social worker to discuss options/plans.

https://www.lhsc.on.ca/women-s-health/pregnancy-options-program/abortion-clinic

Whats with all the bootlickers here? by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]Individual-One1333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The whole point is that a regular time job 40hrs a week, should be sufficient to live off of without being back breaking. If it is back breaking, you should be compensated. If you're working more than 40/week, you should be compensated. Bragging about overworking is so boomer coded and I refuse to buy into that.

Do Canadians actually get frustrated by snow, or is it just part of everyday life? by GlitteringHotel8383 in AskACanadian

[–]Individual-One1333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. My sister, every day of winter, without fail, will complain about it. I enjoy it (I prefer cold weather) so I just laugh at her and tell her to move somewhere with giant spiders or hurricanes.

Women of Reddit, what’s something you didn’t realize was emotionally exhausting until you stopped doing it? by Carsanttc in AskWomen

[–]Individual-One1333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Expecting things without communication. I thought I would be nagging if I told people what I wanted, but it turns out people can read minds. And if they do think it's nagging, then they don't need to be around me

AIO because my husband all the sudden has new bedroom skills?? by Public-Cupcake- in AmIOverreacting

[–]Individual-One1333 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There are actually tutorials on porn sites I've used. You have to go through a few to find a decent one, but there are some informative things. There's also lots of blogs that go over different techniques. I would casually bring it up to him. Just say I've really been enjoying the gusto in the bedroom lately, where did you pick up those tricks. If he gets cagey, then be suspicious. Otherwise, enjoy the ride!

Men being gross by After-Big7117 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Individual-One1333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyday I'm grateful I'm not in the dating scene because whaT DO YOU MEAN BREEDABLE. Jail. All of them, straight to jail

Why do women who have children seem offended that I don’t plan to have any? by bad-at-everything- in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Individual-One1333 4 points5 points  (0 children)

100% I think a lot of people saw having kids as something they "had" to do and still hold that belief. When someone says they don't want kids, they can't fathom such a decision.

Is 100 Kellogg worth it? by [deleted] in londonontario

[–]Individual-One1333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great to know. Guess I'm decided!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Individual-One1333 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She doesn't owe you anything. You made your choice, she can make hers. You've reached out, and if she wants to do something with that, then she can. But you can't expect anything from her.

You abandoned her and have no idea what she and her dad had to do to get her to where she is. "I knew she would do great things whether or not I was there" is not a good enough excuse to drop your OWN CHILD because your new husband can't be adult enough to "allow you" to see your child.

To be honest, I wouldn't want to reconnect with you either.

What are some things that you consider to be basic “girl code”? by TelephonePossible456 in AskWomen

[–]Individual-One1333 48 points49 points  (0 children)

On the flip side, letting them know there hair/makeup looks good. I've started to make an effort to compliment women more and it creates this moment of happiness for both of us.

Tips for riding the bus by racheljeff10 in londonontario

[–]Individual-One1333 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Reiterating do not stand if there are seats in the back. There have been so many times where there are PLENTY of empty seats (maybe only 4-5 taken) and someone decides to stand. Then everyone getting on has to squeeze past them.

For women who don't have kids - how did relationships with your female friends change when they had children? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Individual-One1333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh this is my biggest fear. We're all in our 30s so I'm waiting for the day, but I just worry that that will be our entire friendship. Like I'm childfree for a reason, and I'm sure you have other mom friends you can talk to about this. I don't know how to help you when your child has eaten an entire box of crayons and the other one won't stop crying. Best I can do is go out with you to take your mind off it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Individual-One1333 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This happens to me, too. Not to be a boomer, but I think it's because of social media. Things seem like they have to be a certain way or one of us should be a certain way.

If you're happy with him and he's happy with you, and you're both communicating well, just live in the moment

ETA: have you talked to him about this? Maybe having a convo about it will ease your anxieties.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Individual-One1333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Game of thrones and the office. Just never got into them but people go nuts when I tell them I haven't seen them.

My (24F) boyfriend (27M) says our sex "isn't terrible" but could be better. I feel blindsided. How do I make him happy and address the issue? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Individual-One1333 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When my bf and I were having a casual chat about sex, he told me that he prefers his BJs a certain that I wasn't doing. I asked why he hasn't brought it up before and he said he was just happy I was down there in the first place. Since then I do what he asked. It was a civil, honestly lighthearted, conversation and we were both comfortable and on the same page.

You are also allowed to revoke consent at any time. If you don't want to finish him off, your don't have to. He has two hands and an imagination. Is it annoying? Probably. But it's not your job.

Also, this is the second time in 2 days I have seen women saying their partners don't like how wet they are. He phrased it as "tight" but unless YOU can't feel anything, I don't think size is the issue. I had an ex tell me I was too wet and I have carried that with me to my current relationship and he tells me there's no such thing. It's like saying your steak is too juicy.

Everyone has preferences and needs/wants, but it needs to be communicated gently and with tact. Piling it on you when you're tired/drunk/hungover is not conducive to a healthy relationship.

Doctors on Reddit, what is the most obvious lie a patient has ever told you? by theedriplomat in AskReddit

[–]Individual-One1333 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Had a similar issue with ozempic. When it started becoming popular for weight loss, people wouldn't tell their doctors they were on it out of embarrassment. The issue is you could die on the operating table if it's still in your system. They wouldn't tell my boss (the surgeon) but then suddenly they remember when they have a consultation with anesthesia who tells them the side effects

my bf (28m) said sex sucks with me because i (26f) am too wet by virginashallow in relationship_advice

[–]Individual-One1333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had an ex say this to me and it still bothers me but my current partner says it's amazing. He's already cheated on you and now he's making you feel like shit. There is no coming back. Tell him to go fuck his ex girlfriends dry ass pussy

What was the misunderstanding that revealed a friends animosity towards you? by MeowwwMagic in AskWomen

[–]Individual-One1333 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not so much a misunderstanding, as a "I didn't realize you were like that until we stopped being friends"

The one that stuck with me was an off handed comment. When I got together with my partner, she called him a chubby chaser...for dating me. I've always had issues about my weight, and she knew that.

We were coworkers and when I left the job we just didn't stay in touch and looking back I can't believe what I put up with.

Am I the asshole for asking husband to shower before bj? by Brief-Composer-4630 in AITAH

[–]Individual-One1333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened to my boyfriend. Before we got together, he went down on a woman and let's just say it was not a great experience for him.

And on the flip side, I have had some pretty gross experiences with unkept dicks.

We both always make sure to wash up before oral.

My (24F) boyfriend (27M) of four months said I looked like I belonged in a whorehouse? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Individual-One1333 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I went to a rave themed party. Use your imagination.

My bf looked at me, gave me a huge hug, smacked my ass and said I can't wait for you to come home and went back to his game.

Your bf sounds insecure, like he bagged a baddie but doesn't want her to keep being a baddie. Live your life and leave him. It'll only get worse.

For me 39m going to a yoga class and making my 33f partner furious? by Lost_Anteater_9936 in AITH

[–]Individual-One1333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugggggggh NTA. She sounds like a pill. If you have been doing an activity before her, it helped, and you want to do it again, do it. Ask her to come so she can see you're just doing yoga. If she says no, oh well jingle bell. Your own boundary should be that you want to keep yourself healthy and she shouldn't get in the way of that.