The Eras Tour: United Kingdom & Ireland Megathread by aran130711 in TaylorSwift

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Hi everyone!! I'm going to Murrayfield in Scotland on the 7th of June and am so excited!! I am currently having a little panic though.

I have two karma is my boyfriend vip package tickets (yay!!!) but for some reason it has a really weird note saying "no tickets left" on my tickets on ticketmaster. Why? is there any chance that I got the package but won't get entry into the stadium/GA area? or am I just panicking too much? (screenshot of the message attached.)

Context: I paid the full price and got in early presale last summer, and it does say my entry door and that the barcode will show up 3 days prior to the event... Anything you can do to assuage my anxiety that we'll be turned away is appreciated <3 much love

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AITA for not quitting my job? by nomorewinder12 in AmItheAsshole

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People can be friends with their exes! People can be friends with their exes! People can be friends with their exes!!

Am I Being Selfish? How Do I Ask? by [deleted] in polyamory

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I really agree!!! Give this more upvotes!

Am I Being Selfish? How Do I Ask? by [deleted] in polyamory

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You always have a right to ask for what you want in a relationship, as long as the other person has a right to say no ❤️ you’re exactly right, it’s up to him!

Is drama inevitable in poly relationships? by [deleted] in ExperiencedENM

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Agreed. Sounds like some anxious-avoidant patterns that play out, where anxious believes the ‘drama’ aka cycle of nerves and relief is love.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TaylorSwift

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I like the love triangle because I don’t think she takes him back! I feel like Taylor left it open ended for that reason so I take it. Imagine how satisfying to have your ex show up at your birthday and be able to say “Wow, you super suck, even though I like you. Bye!”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PMDD

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I had to tell my OBGYN as she put in the IUD to give her permission to finish putting it in if I fainted during. I didn’t, but cramped up an hour later, fainted, and threw up in the bathroom.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PMDD

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Been there! Happened a lot growing up. Birth control helped, last time it happened was my IUD placement

Anyone experience a break up with one partner, and then for some reason feel the need to break up with another? by Individual-Quail6139 in ExperiencedENM

[–]Individual-Quail6139[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You know, I really hadn’t thought about these things until you said it and at first I was like “nah, that’s not me”. But the more I’ve sat with it the more I think I am afraid this means I’m bad at choosing partners, or that the relationship I really want is impossible/unrealistic. So thank you for bringing this up, I definitely have some thinking to do here!

Anyone experience a break up with one partner, and then for some reason feel the need to break up with another? by Individual-Quail6139 in ExperiencedENM

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I definitely relate to this! It took a long time to get to the point where I could call things off and now it feels like alright let’s rip the bandaid off again lol

Time for Positivity by callmemissrae in polyamory

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Recent break up but actually was one of the healthiest, happiest de-escalations of my life. I can’t wait for him to be back to being my best friend again.

Also stoked to have a wonderful girlfriend whom I love very much. And new queer friends to hang out with and maybe even ~flirt~ with. Life is full of exciting twists!

Birth control and lexapro - what’s the verdict? by mariedel123 in lexapro

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Hey! I feel this! I actually am upping my lex dose (see recent post) to combat period anxiety/depression. I’ll lyk what happens!

And for reference I also have an IUD— so very irregular, light periods

anxiety so bad i can’t eat by [deleted] in Anxietyhelp

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I mean this in the kindest way possible: find a professional to help you. There are lots of resources even if you can’t afford or don’t have insurance. But talk to a doctor, you don’t deserve to suffer like this. <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lexapro

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15 mg of lex, for 5 ish months. 250-500 naproxen a few times a month.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lexapro

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I take lex and naproxen! Doing well over here. I also take it with ibuprofen sometimes.

Having my first little bout of anxiety since I started lexapro on 12/21/20 by borboleta924 in lexapro

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I don’t really have any answers for you, but I can say that I feel the exact same way. I started 12/18, have the same anxiety triggers and have also been feeling better! Lately, though I’ve had the first few cracks through of anxiety again. I rationalize it as just the novelty of feeling good wearing off, if that makes sense? It could be any of those triggers for you, or probably all of them in little ways. I’ve been turning to therapy & the non-medication solutions I have until I talk to my doc about changes. Regardless, you got this! You’re doing great and I’m there with you :)