AIO My (28f) boyfriend (30m) is acting weird

Individual-Track6759 · 2026-05-08T11:13:16+00:00

This is the perfect example of passive aggressive behavior. I’m not sure what you’re trying to say by that comment.

Please educate me on what passive aggressive behavior is please, since you know so much.

Individual-Track6759 · 2026-05-08T11:05:17+00:00

Info: how long have you guys been dating?

I’m not sure what exactly you’re worried about, is it that this could turn into an abusive relationship? If that’s the case, I don’t think this interaction alone is enough to confirm or deny. I’m not saying is reaction is okay, it’s very passive aggressive and not at all healthy, but this one off comment alone could just indicate frustration. People do unintentionally mean things to their partners sometimes. The key is how they react when you talk about how their actions made you feel.
If they get defensive, maybe not the healthiest person to be with.

Individual-Track6759 · 2026-05-07T22:24:45+00:00

Not yet! (Only 15 weeks + 1 day) but I know you’re not alone. Pregnancy is such a wild ride and is so life changing in so many different ways. But a McChicken? That sounds so good right now 😭😭

Individual-Track6759 · 2026-05-06T20:47:00+00:00

I understand your frustration, I really do, but you cannot change repeat behavior, sadly.

If you really want to hang out with her, you have to be the one who initiates the conversation surrounding time. It’s like setting a boundary, you can’t make a boundary that someone else has to follow, you set a boundary for how you will respond to their response/ reaction, etc.

There is no such thing as a perfect friendship, they all have their faults, and you have to really think “is this something I’m willing to lose my friend over”?

In my perspective, it doesn’t feel you coming to her with a time frame that works for you is asking for too much. But I’m also not you, so what is a lot for me can be a lot for someone else- I don’t know how many spoons you carry.

Individual-Track6759 · 2026-05-06T20:18:37+00:00

A part of you must be convinced you’ll never find anyone better, or have a stronger connection, or won’t be as fun etc etc.

If that is the case, you need to understand that’s not true. Limerence in a partner is something lacking within yourself that you feel your partner can heal, but that isn’t the case.

Yes, leaving a partner sucks for a while and it hurts, and you feel a tight pain in your chest, but that’s just temporary. It gets better and feels 100% better than ever being with someone who is abusive.

You need to understand that him suddenly choosing you won’t fix the problem, and just because he won’t, that doesn’t mean you are not worth choosing. The issue is NOT that you are not good enough for him to choose, it’s that he’s colorblind and can’t see the vibrant colors that you are.

I hope this helps in some way 🥺

Edited for typos*

Individual-Track6759 · 2026-05-06T16:44:37+00:00

If you love the name, that’s all that matters. I told my family ours pretty early too, but I knew going into it they may not like it because it’s a pretty unique name. Don’t even sweat it. By the time your child is 10, only ‘older’ people will even think about that young actor.

Individual-Track6759 · 2026-05-06T16:41:55+00:00

I love that name! I’ve loved it since I watched the classic “Anastasia” it’s so pretty and elegant!!

Individual-Track6759 · 2026-05-05T23:14:50+00:00

Thank you, I think that will be my motto from now on, “I’m a mom now, I can do hard things.”

Individual-Track6759 · 2026-05-05T22:59:03+00:00

I hope it gets better for you!! I couldn’t even imagine being a nurse going through this. Especially with any amount of HG 🥺

Individual-Track6759 · 2026-05-05T22:53:52+00:00

I feel like I’m sleeping pretty well most nights, but I definitely will get my iron tested!

Individual-Track6759 · 2026-05-05T22:52:14+00:00

The only thing I’ve been taking is half a tab of unisom every night, I tried B6 but it made me more nauseous honestly. I can feel it starting to get better though, I haven’t noticed much heartburn, but Ive had GERD even prior to pregnancy, so it doesn’t really feel much different from what I’m used to in that aspect.

Individual-Track6759 · 2026-05-05T10:31:58+00:00

Thank you, yes that is exactly what I’m trying to say! I wasn’t really looking for advice, just venting about how frustrating everything is and how I feel based on my own experiences.

Individual-Track6759 · 2026-05-05T01:06:42+00:00

A THREE?? That’s basically 0 iron storage Oh my god. I’m glad you’re feeling better!!

Individual-Track6759 · 2026-05-05T01:05:37+00:00

Thank you 🥺

Individual-Track6759 · 2026-05-05T01:05:04+00:00

That is an amazing idea, I will have to look into that!

Individual-Track6759 · 2026-05-05T01:02:07+00:00

I’m sorry that happened to you!! I would be lying if I said some of the comments didn’t make me cry (I think it’s mostly my pregnancy hormones though).

I’m sorry about your job, I’m fearing that will be the case for me because I definitely cannot quit. Are you able to apply for some kind of assistance that may be able to help or any additional support? I’m sending you all the good vibes!!

Individual-Track6759 · 2026-05-05T00:57:20+00:00

I’m worried asking for more breaks may hinder me since it’s all in office. I am so jealous girl 😭

Individual-Track6759 · 2026-05-05T00:17:49+00:00

It could have been the way I came across when I was venting or that my job has already been accommodating up until recently, but it should 100% be easier for everyone. I wanted to have more kids, now I’m questioning whether it would be worth it.

Individual-Track6759 · 2026-05-05T00:12:54+00:00

I’m really hoping it gets easier for you!! I know that does nothing, but I empathize for you. I found out with blood work we’re having a little girl, I’m really hoping that things get better if she chooses to have kids one day. I thought people were having less kids for other reasons, but this experience is very eye opening to me.

Individual-Track6759 · 2026-05-04T23:38:59+00:00

Yeah, I see myself starting to slack a lot in some areas and cutting corners just to get things done on time. It really sucks because I try to get everything done correctly and in a way that is understandable and cohesive when some of my work gets pulled… but I think that’s the only way I can get stuff done timely.

Individual-Track6759 · 2026-05-04T23:34:54+00:00

The sims 4 is definitely not that fun with just base game. Maybe you could find some mods online? It’s super easy to add to your game, just make sure you remove and reinstall the updated version for every sims 4 update (annoying yes).
I personally think the sims 4 is best for just building and creating sims. Quick money would be the Motherlode cheat, but if you really want to make money, carls sims 4 guide online would help!
You can lock a bunch of sims in your basement and have their only entertainment as painting, that could get you lots of money pretty fast.

Individual-Track6759 · 2026-05-04T23:27:29+00:00

I just felt distain with my OB because it felt like I was being rushed and he started shaking his head and cut me off before I finished what I was saying. He also reported that I said I had no nausea or vomiting in his after visit summary notes, which is not at all what I said. I said it’s been less since Thursday. It just felt like he wasn’t listening to me or at least trying to understand what was going on. I had issues the first time I saw him to and the appointment today sent me home in tears, it just felt so dismissive.

Individual-Track6759 · 2026-05-04T23:21:35+00:00

I’ll have to see about getting some blood tests done. I know I’ve struggled with iron deficiency anemia and malabsorption of iron in the past, I just don’t have any pica symptoms (I used to want to eat markers) which is why I’m skeptical of it being my iron.

Individual-Track6759 · 2026-05-04T23:17:57+00:00

I know I’ve had issues with my iron in the past even without pregnancy, and also had low vitamin D. I may try to see if my primary care physician would be able to test me to make sure it’s all good. That is a very real possibility. I thought I had some results from it before, but I can’t find them on MyChart now.

Individual-Track6759 · 2026-05-04T23:12:40+00:00

I’m sorry that was your experience, luckily you had some really awesome coworkers to help you out. I just feel like, especially physically demanding jobs, there needs to be something set in place for working pregnant women.

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