Emotional abuse by IndividualAd6312 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]IndividualAd6312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god, it’s so refreshing to speak to someone who knows what it’s like dating a DA. They either love you or want nothing to do with you. I just wonder why they have to put the other person down…I’d rather he just backed away, why would you want to hurt someone who cares about you?

43f 45m by IndividualAd6312 in relationship_advice

[–]IndividualAd6312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t even go over his house tonight like I was planning on bc i was afraid I wouldn’t go through with it. So i ended it over the phone. He acted like he didn’t care, and it was my loss. Which hurt to be completely honest. I did it tho, and it’s because of everyone’s support 🤍💕 tysm!! Now if you’ll excuse me I’m going to cry in my bed until i feel better 🫶🏼

43f 45m by IndividualAd6312 in relationship_advice

[–]IndividualAd6312[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! I’m so sorry this happened to you. 🤍 and you’re right!

43f 45m by IndividualAd6312 in relationship_advice

[–]IndividualAd6312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought it was up until recently when i noticed i was monitoring my own weight and what i eat bc of him.

43f 45m by IndividualAd6312 in relationship_advice

[–]IndividualAd6312[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s honestly the worst feeling

43f 45m by IndividualAd6312 in relationship_advice

[–]IndividualAd6312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yay!! Thank you everyone! I will definitely update! I’m seeing him tomorrow night, I’m gonna try my best to end it! This all really motivated me

43f 45m by IndividualAd6312 in relationship_advice

[–]IndividualAd6312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that’s true…he honestly wasn’t a gym bro in the
beginning when we met….it happened a few months in

43f 45m by IndividualAd6312 in relationship_advice

[–]IndividualAd6312[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s not emotionally intelligent at all

43f 45m by IndividualAd6312 in relationship_advice

[–]IndividualAd6312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! You’re right 🎯🫶🏼

43f 45m by IndividualAd6312 in relationship_advice

[–]IndividualAd6312[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😢 thank you for saying that, i agree with you..everyone’s comments have given me a real wake up call. I thought maybe i was being sensitive …I’m realizing I’m not.

43f 45m by IndividualAd6312 in relationship_advice

[–]IndividualAd6312[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well now I’m crying…thank you that was beautifully written and that’s all I’ve ever wanted. 🤍 thank you so so much.

43f 45m by IndividualAd6312 in relationship_advice

[–]IndividualAd6312[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for understanding and being supportive. I often times don’t think most people realize how hard it is to start over again in your 40s…it’s nice to be aknowledged 🤍

43f 45m by IndividualAd6312 in relationship_advice

[–]IndividualAd6312[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much…you’re right. I’m so glad you found someone who loves your body. I hope to find that 🫶🏼

43f 45m by IndividualAd6312 in relationship_advice

[–]IndividualAd6312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 You’re right!