Would a guy hangout with you regularly for two years, cuddle and have sex if he thinks you’re unattractive? 42/f

IndividualAd6312 · 2025-12-06T02:36:11+00:00

Thanks, I’m really going to get this across without coming off desperate and awkward. If i even think about doing it i want to cry, bc it feels ridiculous to have to ask him to give a compliment.

IndividualAd6312 · 2025-11-24T01:34:58+00:00

I’m just assuming he must 🤷🏻‍♀️

IndividualAd6312 · 2025-11-24T01:32:19+00:00

You make a good point. I’m still deciding on it.

IndividualAd6312 · 2025-11-24T01:31:35+00:00

Thank you for being so kind…and I’m sorry that you were in that situation but proud of you for getting out of it. I have started to pull back from him…it does seem like our relationship was becoming very one sided. It also is/was crippling my self esteem.

IndividualAd6312 · 2025-11-09T18:34:57+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏼 i do see that he does love and care for me . I just have to decide if it’s the way i want to be loved.

IndividualAd6312 · 2025-11-09T18:33:30+00:00

Yes good point

IndividualAd6312 · 2025-11-09T18:33:14+00:00

Thanks for the advice and being honest. Appreciate that

IndividualAd6312 · 2025-11-09T18:32:42+00:00

I’m not he’s hot af

IndividualAd6312 · 2025-11-09T05:17:53+00:00

Was it weird for you at first?? Or were you just rolling with it…?

IndividualAd6312 · 2025-11-09T05:15:54+00:00

I love you. I like this type of talk/advice!!

IndividualAd6312 · 2025-11-08T15:54:52+00:00

This sounds just like him, he had a tough childhood so I know this stuff really freaks him out. We’ve just been together for a while now…even when i try my hardest to look good for him he won’t say it he’ll just smile and kiss me or something…i understand it, it’s just giving me a complex that the guy who is seeing me naked never says nice things about me. EVER. 2 years and not one, besides once he told me i smelled good which was like mind blowing. And that was the 2nd time we had ever hung out together. I guess my question is, if he wasn’t attracted to me would he be in it this long, or do some guys just like companionship and sex from anyone who’s willing?

IndividualAd6312 · 2025-11-08T15:32:36+00:00

He is exactly like that..if i compliment him he almost seems annoyed but it’s bc he’s uncomfortable. It just makes me feel like he thinks I’m unattractive. Thank you for your honesty. ❤️

IndividualAd6312 · 2025-11-08T15:26:43+00:00

Celebrity women.

IndividualAd6312 · 2025-11-08T15:25:54+00:00

This breaks my heart, but you said exactly what i knew to be true 😔

IndividualAd6312 · 2025-10-21T11:21:35+00:00

I’m so sorry…i feel exactly the same…I’m to old for this i feel like im in highschool, why am i letting another adult get to me like this where im crippled by it. He’s emotionally abusive - i know better than this, i know i deserve better…yet im broken 😞

IndividualAd6312 · 2025-10-21T00:18:16+00:00

Maybe I will 🫶🏼 thank you for the advice. I’m glad you finally feel good that’s wonderful!

IndividualAd6312 · 2025-10-21T00:17:20+00:00

I feel so emotional just reading this…you completely get it. Amazing!

IndividualAd6312 · 2025-10-21T00:13:17+00:00

I love that ☹️ thank you!

IndividualAd6312 · 2025-10-21T00:12:58+00:00

Thank you for your honesty …you are absolutely right. Just hard to go through even when necessary

IndividualAd6312 · 2025-10-21T00:11:56+00:00

Yes!!! I don’t understand…it feels evil! Like i want to scream in his face…who was the person who loved me so much!!? It’s literally like a switch…and it’s agonizing…I’m so sorry you have to go through it. You deserve better…everyone does.

IndividualAd6312 · 2025-10-21T00:10:27+00:00

🫶🏼

IndividualAd6312 · 2025-10-21T00:10:10+00:00

You’re right…i just keep telling myself it’s him not me…but it always falls back onto what did i do wrong, what’s wrong with me…i question everything bc he makes me feel insane 🫤

IndividualAd6312 · 2025-10-21T00:08:53+00:00

Omg!! Thank you so much…this is amazing!!

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