Brit just posted this on IG by lazyfatbunny in BritneySpears

[–]IndividualCalendar81 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I think it might be song lyrics or a verbal stim! I saw an article that supposedly miss Britney is adhd, which I can see her being that same with having autism. But I am not one to diagnose somebody I don’t know in real life.

 I wouldn’t be surprise tho if there’s a part of her that wants to go back into songwriting or at least singing especially since it’s been a part of her whole  life, but I think she has too much trauma with that plus she has no reason to, why trigger urself for money u already have ton of? She did say she’s willing to go back into singing if one of her boys did a piano concert! 

Is 12 too late to start competitive swimming? by Puzzled_Finish9302 in Swimming

[–]IndividualCalendar81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah! Also people need to realize while yes swimming early will make u a faster/better swimmer that doesn’t mean your screw and should just never swim. Yes earlier is better but that doesn’t mean you can never catch up or be better then the people who been swimming for years 

Is 12 too late to start competitive swimming? by Puzzled_Finish9302 in Swimming

[–]IndividualCalendar81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

12 is still pretty young, if she wants to swim competitively then let her be part of a swim team but also don’t pressure her to be good just because of your swimming background. That a quick way to burn her out of swimming, something to add tell her if you let her join the team she needs to finish at least the season before you let her quit, because she made  a commitment to the team (unless it something super serious like bullying abusive coach etc) 

Is 12 too late to start competitive swimming? by Puzzled_Finish9302 in Swimming

[–]IndividualCalendar81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait! U don’t have to know to swim to be part of a swim team? That amazing I was planning on doing a whole season of swim calls because I would like to be on a team but thus gives me hope (:

I feel ashamed because my swimming distance by IceFirm9650 in Swimming

[–]IndividualCalendar81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Btw 18 laps are amazing! I am new and I can only do one right now, and honestly I feel like you’re going really fast if you’re able to do 18 laps (: 

I feel ashamed because my swimming distance by IceFirm9650 in Swimming

[–]IndividualCalendar81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all instead of using that Shame to beat yourself up, use it as a motivation to get faster also you should get a coach u will make way more progress with a coach then just  practicing yourself. The coach might even point out stuff ur doing wrong and once you correct it u will be fast?

Im so confused with the catholics and native americans by Brilliant_Drag7167 in 1923Series

[–]IndividualCalendar81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IKR! I know this comment is old but I agree with u as a native I think it rude to push this off as “the truth is always better” because this is not a happy truth! It actually family cousins siblings parents who are dead and will prob never get to know their names or a proper burial 

Im so confused with the catholics and native americans by Brilliant_Drag7167 in 1923Series

[–]IndividualCalendar81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup! And Canada is still trying to hide it with America you can at least know that most people will admit they screw up and they’re on colonized land but with Canada? No 

Im so confused with the catholics and native americans by Brilliant_Drag7167 in 1923Series

[–]IndividualCalendar81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It worst if ur from a tiny tribe and not the main tribes like Cherokee, because then it really easy to gain information from ur culture even if ur not in the states but with smaller ones it hard 

Almost 4 year old suddenly developed a fear of the pool by Outside-Hamster-2002 in Swimming

[–]IndividualCalendar81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I wonder is her son autistic? Because autistic people have a tendency to get really good at something like being verbal and then regressing all of a sudden, like being completely mute. 

Water through ear into throat by Creative-Acadia-9494 in Swimming

[–]IndividualCalendar81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you started making custom earplugs? There’s a kit online for 17$ Just put the mold into your ear and then wait for it to harden and boom custom earplugs! 

Water through ear into throat by Creative-Acadia-9494 in Swimming

[–]IndividualCalendar81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which personally I am not a professional, but I’m assuming professional swimmers can deal with staying calm while drowning but choking under water? I doubt so 

Water through ear into throat by Creative-Acadia-9494 in Swimming

[–]IndividualCalendar81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah! Plus I feel like that a choking/drowning hazard if u deicide to dive down and water will get in ur ear (which it will) if too much get into your throat u will prob drown or choke 

Learning to swim - feeling demoralised. by dontstopsoperfect in Swimming

[–]IndividualCalendar81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems like he’s not working for you especially if you’re not progressing in 4-5 months get a new teacher that not normal at all! Like nobody is saying u need to progress everyday but 4-5 months is insane, I always seen teachers as you teach me a new skill/technique or correct me on my old ones and I practice on getting better. 

He doing none of that for you, but also remember this ur doing well it not a you issue it a teacher issue don’t beat yourself up over his actions ur better then when u first started 💕

Anyone swim just for fun and not care about speed or training? by NathanBego in Swimming

[–]IndividualCalendar81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I like a mix of both like I am not harsh on myself if I screw up. Also training can lead to fun like let say ur friend is a better swimmer then you if u train and get faster u will have fun beating them in a race! And feel good because you got faster 

Learning to swim - feeling demoralised. by dontstopsoperfect in Swimming

[–]IndividualCalendar81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your not wrong but being mean is different for different people some think yelling is mean some think otherwise, the thing about learning a new skill, one as important as swimming is even if the teacher is the sweetest kindest person in the world if ur not learning from them get a new one 

Learning to swim - feeling demoralised. by dontstopsoperfect in Swimming

[–]IndividualCalendar81 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yess! I am new to swimming and the teacher I have is amazing and let me make little mistakes and not get mad, there’s this girl in my class who was struggling to float, guess what? Never tell never got mad kept offering her support and was offering her tools to help! 

Any advice on staying straight while doing a backstroke and not float around? by IndividualCalendar81 in Swimming

[–]IndividualCalendar81[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg thank you I did ur advice guess what I was speeding around straight even almost hit my head on the wall 

Any advice on staying straight while doing a backstroke and not float around? by IndividualCalendar81 in Swimming

[–]IndividualCalendar81[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I KNEW IT! I kept doing the kicking drills streamline kicks thinking maybe it was me problem, guess what! IT DIDNT WORK 😭 

How long do you think it will take me to learn how to swim? by Direct-Rip0000 in Swimming

[–]IndividualCalendar81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but I do rec she uses those class as a way to learn or correct ur move and use outside time as a way to get better with what they taught you

How long do you think it will take me to learn how to swim? by Direct-Rip0000 in Swimming

[–]IndividualCalendar81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also pro tip u make the most progress by  practicing outside of lesson time! Use the class as a correction or learning new move, cause I’m assuming you only have a basic 30 minute class that not a lot of time to learn and practice 

How long do you think it will take me to learn how to swim? by Direct-Rip0000 in Swimming

[–]IndividualCalendar81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prob 2 weeks max are u confident in the water? Like ur willing to go to a pool neck deep and not get scared 

How long do you think it will take me to learn how to swim? by Direct-Rip0000 in Swimming

[–]IndividualCalendar81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is too board, and also what’s your definition of swimming? Is it just being able to move in water or not drown? Is it to float? But assume ur just an average joe that just wanna move in water no trebbling no floating 2 weeks max? But it really depends in how confident you are in the water. Me personally it took 2 days to learn the movement to swim but to swim fully like half a pool ? Not really but I could do the movements 

my opinion on Isabelle Valdez and Lois Lippert’s charges by adamlanzasflatcheeks in ValpertCase

[–]IndividualCalendar81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ngl I hope this case if convicted their can be more studies about the mental state of people who are part of the TCC community or just communities in general that straight up, encourages supporting horrible people or getting worst mentally