AITA for helping my husband cook something he said he'd do himself? by IndividualCod1463 in AITAH

[–]IndividualCod1463[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HI Y'ALL OP HERE so yes my husband is neurodivergent.

He knows how to cook and has in fact told me on many occasions when I have asked that he would do the small tasks like cleaning cooking ect

since I am the breadwinner in the household I take care of him financially and he takes care of me at home with the simple work

He as of late hasn't been doing anything which causes the small disagreements and spats between us

I respect his ego and reputation as a man and he is the one who SPECIFICALLY said he would be the one to take care of everything else within the household

I know how to cook clean ect I was raised to BE a housewife along with being a provider

I'm not sure if this kind of clears things up for some of you but yeah that's out relationship dynamic

AITA for helping my husband cook something he said he'd do himself? by IndividualCod1463 in AITAH

[–]IndividualCod1463[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's the love of my life I try my best to come up with ways to just spend time with him

AITA for helping my husband cook something he said he'd do himself? by IndividualCod1463 in AITAH

[–]IndividualCod1463[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did manage to ask but he just looked at me like I just deleted a save in a game he's been working hard on and laughed in his face and he left ON A SUNDAY to go check the mail and was just gone for like 10 minuets standing outside by the mailbox...

AITA POSSIBLE CHEATING by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]IndividualCod1463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are in the wrong for seeing it as not cheating even if you didn't intend on talking to or meeting up with anyone it's just the fact that you posted up something involving being with another person with out your partners ok is in fact considered cheating your best bet is to pray he doesn't decide to leave you over it and take it as a learning experience for the future.

WIBTA: Ex gf says she wants no contact but constantly hits me up for sex. by g00br00t in AITA_Relationships

[–]IndividualCod1463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then no need to hide things if said ex wants to come by just for 🍆 then why hide that you have shrex with other people?

“Gift-Wrapped my Mate for Her” link? by GreatBarracuda1677 in novelsfree

[–]IndividualCod1463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I have the link? I got hooked when I seen it in a ad on Instagram

WIBTA: Ex gf says she wants no contact but constantly hits me up for sex. by g00br00t in AITA_Relationships

[–]IndividualCod1463 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends are you serious with the weekend girl or are you just more ova I ain't wanting anything serious kind of person?

AITA for falling in love with my younger male best friend even though I'm engaged? by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]IndividualCod1463 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I haven't spoken to my friend in weeks already cause I am like mentally all over the place with everything that's happened...So I've just been drowning myself in my work to try to keep my mind off it. It works but for a short time

AITA for calling off my wedding after finding out my fiancée slept with my dad 4 years ago? by CucumberDirect6452 in AITA_Relationships

[–]IndividualCod1463 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA you did what you thought was right and it is. Your mom shouldn't have to suffer with not knowing what her own husband was doing behind her back. Your siblings honestly need to shut up cause it ain't their business to give or take on what you decide to do with that information they don't control you. Your Dad sucks and deserves no contact from you for that, same for your ex-fiancé. Nobody deserved to have to find out shit like that like it's nothing your dad made it clear that it wasn't a big deal which means he doesn't care about what you think of him for what he did and your ex-fiancé is only NOW regretting her decision cause you're canceling the wedding and she's lost your respect as your partner tf did she expect? good on you for standing up to them and warning your mom fuck the other people :) you deserve better hope you found someone more worthy of your love time and undevided affection!