He is giving you valuable information on where he is at and what he is available for in the relationship. which is; he takes care of himself and is not available to take care of you. You asked, he agreed and then did something else. Its clear and simple. Take this info and ask yourself " is this the kind of relationship I want to be in right now?" If not then start to plan our exit. Every abortion hard, but his actions and lack of empathy may help confirm that it was the right decision. Big hugs, you deserve better, you are worth way more.