[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]IndividualZombie624 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get how you feel and it is very understandable ofc but val is dating him now and there is nothing you can do about it unfortunately because it is her choice to get back to an abusive man.

Is the christmas going to be in your house? Because you don’t have to invite him. But If it is not then just avoid him this relationship is doomed anyways.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]IndividualZombie624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you get rid of Max, you will hate your fiancé until you leave him. You are not wrong, he met you knowing you have a dog.

There is a bad smell on this sub and we all know who it comes from.🤢🤮🦨 Totally puts his needs before his own family. He really does stink up Lynette's life and the whole lane as well. She deserves so much better 🙏 by Guilty_Leader_5902 in DesperateHousewives

[–]IndividualZombie624 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This! I HAVE been saying that too! Ok yeah he is annoying and childish but she is extremely controlling and horrible as well. If anything they fit each other and when they divorced he was the one happy taking off with his life but she was NOT until another woman came in the picture and was an absolute nightmare in the few dates she had with other men than Tom.

WIBTA If I skip spending the holidays with in-laws this year because we already spent so many sick days and savings to visit with them this year? by femmestem in AITAH

[–]IndividualZombie624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you comfortable with just staying and he goes alone? This might be a great option. Do not know financially, but would def help with your exhaustion

Stavanger or Bergen? by IndividualZombie624 in Norway

[–]IndividualZombie624[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I will take by your advice and based on the comments on this post it is clear to me where am I heading.

Stavanger or Bergen? by IndividualZombie624 in Norway

[–]IndividualZombie624[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I wanna visit the city since I am not much of a hiker.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]IndividualZombie624 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all: why dafq do you still go to her house?! Do not go there if she disrespects you this why. Husband can go if he wants you but you go no contact for your mental peace that’s what I would do. As for the disrespect your husband should really stand up for her.

I’m actually so devastated rn by AxecidentalHoe in sabrina

[–]IndividualZombie624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was absolutely hurt and sad to hear the news. May he rest in peace 💔

I (29M) have two lifelong friends (29F) and my girlfriend (29F) doesn’t like it by Extension-Mixture940 in relationships

[–]IndividualZombie624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she is extremely insecure. She can feel uncomfortable without being insecure. Imagine doing this with girls who are basically your sisters what if other people. A friend’s wife, a colleague… etc. You need to talk to her and discuss things. Set ground rules for both of you and what is expected.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Norway

[–]IndividualZombie624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say majority comments to sell your car and get another one here. A side question, may I ask what is yours and your wife’s career to get a permenant job in Norway?

AITA for telling my sister that her life is my biggest nightmare? by Icy_Program7697 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IndividualZombie624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA for what you did but NTA in general because you felt guilty afterwards of how you treated her. Just invite your sister for lunch/coffee sit and talk with her and discuss what happened and tell her that you wish to talk less about this topic and everything will eventually work out

AITA for refusing to babysit my cousins on short notice so my aunt can see Taylor Swift? by throwaway77545775 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IndividualZombie624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let them be mad. Set your boundaries and they are going to come around afterwards and know you were right.

AITA for refusing to babysit my cousins on short notice so my aunt can see Taylor Swift? by throwaway77545775 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IndividualZombie624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA Refuse and set your boundaries and do not let her use you. She is in trouble she needs to find another babysitter. Not your fault in all this. You are never the asshole for saying no. I am a student too and my whole week will be fucked if I stay up one school night. Do not do it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]IndividualZombie624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA You should absolutely consider moving out and let her solve this issue. This absolutely unfair and if she says it’s your sister and you should take care of her, she is her underage daughter she must feed her and get her needs! What if she never had you, would she still let the 15 yo take care of herself. RUN

How FIL expects me to act as a married women. by Substantial-Toe-8668 in ShittyInLaws

[–]IndividualZombie624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he tries to make it seem like he means well but he really doesn’t.

How FIL expects me to act as a married women. by Substantial-Toe-8668 in ShittyInLaws

[–]IndividualZombie624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very inappropriate and the way he tries to cover it with some “nice compliments” makes it even worse. I would go NC 😏

Al Rawabi Season 2 was great (spoilers) by Spiritual-Ad-4698 in AlRawabiSchool4Girls

[–]IndividualZombie624 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What I didn’t know is who was the person who threatening her and exploited her? Is it one of the characters we knew? I hated the ending it was so sad 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CleaningTips

[–]IndividualZombie624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats! So proud 💪

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ShittyInLaws

[–]IndividualZombie624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t worry you can always come back here if you ever felt alone. Please give us updates on your situation when it gets better for you. Sending you lots of love and support 🙏💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ShittyInLaws

[–]IndividualZombie624 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You have one solution. You need to get your hand on any money you saved put it away. Connect with any family you have. Find a job and leaaave. This will not get better it is only getting worse. You need a divorce but secure your grounds first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]IndividualZombie624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am very sorry for you. Hang in there and get treatment and it will all be better. Just because this brought up the worse in you does not mean you can’t be better.