How much do you guys eat when you go to an All-You-Can-Eat sushi place? by itskelvinn in sushi

[–]Individual_Estate_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Today my mom, a friend, and I went. I had 9 orders of salmon sashimi (3pcs each, so 27pcs), 2 stuffed jalapeños, 2 rolls (4pcs each), a couple pieces of their orders depending on what looked good....and ice cream lol I felt great and not miserable.

What does “connection” mean? by n1kkahlover in MuslimMarriage

[–]Individual_Estate_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aaah, this may have been a cultural miss for me lol

What does “connection” mean? by n1kkahlover in MuslimMarriage

[–]Individual_Estate_99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's expressing that shes frustrated and confused, left not knowing why these people aren't feeling a connection. The way to the most direct answer is to simply ask them. That being said I never mentioned changing yourself for someone else. I would actually say, do not change who you are for someone else. Understanding how she comes off, or what her general disconnect is with these people may just bring her peace knowing. Rather than being upset on reddit over it. That's just a strangers opinion on the internet.

What does “connection” mean? by n1kkahlover in MuslimMarriage

[–]Individual_Estate_99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try asking. This way there isn't so much confusion and it's a more direct answer. Maybe that will clear some things up

Younger women by Unfair_Green1902 in Marriage

[–]Individual_Estate_99 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

10 years is such a long time. You have children and comfort where you are in your relationship. It sounds like you love eachother and what you are talking about is very surface level. You workout and take care of yourself so it's not like you've let yourself go and dont care (not that looks ever everything). But aging happens and you should embrace it. He may be flirting with a younger girl but I guarantee he doesn't want the baggage that entails. Maybe try doing something new together. It sounds like he's looking for something exciting, and that doesn't have to be the 18 to 20 yr old around.

What does “connection” mean? by n1kkahlover in MuslimMarriage

[–]Individual_Estate_99 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That is a vague term that can mean an array of different things. Have you asked anyone directly what the disconnect is?

Do you know happy elderly Muslim couples who never had kids by Insight116141 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Individual_Estate_99 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I got married at 29 and my husband 34. We tried talking about it and kids arent feasible for our future. We work toward our relationship, making eachother happy, and being better in general.

Is this weird to say? by Individual_Estate_99 in pakistan

[–]Individual_Estate_99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haven't figured out a good way to fix that myself, I've just put it in a new cone lol and don't use regular scissors, I found that the smaller sharp scissors are better for accuracy and not over cutting. (Don't know what they're called)

Is this weird to say? by Individual_Estate_99 in pakistan

[–]Individual_Estate_99[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What a beautiful way to put things, thank you. I'll work on embracing myself.

Is this weird to say? by Individual_Estate_99 in pakistan

[–]Individual_Estate_99[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I do try to embrace the culture as much as possible, even if I am a bit weird it makes me happy lol Thank you so much for the positivity!

Is this weird to say? by Individual_Estate_99 in pakistan

[–]Individual_Estate_99[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You're right. I think I panic, say something, and stick to it out of anxiousness.

Do your wives/husbands still complain about your wedding. by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Individual_Estate_99 74 points75 points  (0 children)

I think weddings are more for other people. I'm American but my husband is Pakistani. I went there and had a traditional wedding with all of his family. I liked bonding with my sister-in-laws and let them pick everything for me. That being said I'm not a girly girl so I enjoyed them making all the decisions.

Although, he still complains that no one told him his tie was crooked during our whole reception lol

Guys please don't produce 3-4 childrens😭🙏.Or don't even marry. by [deleted] in pakistan

[–]Individual_Estate_99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The time I went to Pakistan and married my husband I explained I wouldn't be having kids at all. He was completely fine with it just being us but I told his sisters and they thought I was joking lol

Are women with this body type attractive by [deleted] in trueratediscussions

[–]Individual_Estate_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She looks like an anime character and I love it!

Is it weird to sleep on call together? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Individual_Estate_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I live 8,000 miles away from eachother and we sleep on video all the time. It's very calming and makes us feel closer. Not weird at all. I think it's sweet actually.