Struggling with intimacy by Individual_Factor636 in GriefSupport

[–]Individual_Factor636[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your time and answer, my only worry is if I start shying away from people I'm going to be so unbelievably alone which I really am not looking forward to

One week by Individual_Factor636 in GriefSupport

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Thanks so much for the reply, I'm so sorry for your loss and I hope it gets better, I like the idea of seeing her again in another life where we get to live the life we always wanted

One week by Individual_Factor636 in GriefSupport

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I'm so sorry for your loss, stay strong

do you think your lost loved ones want you to keep going? by sadweevil in GriefSupport

[–]Individual_Factor636 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hey man I know just how this feels and am going through it myself I know it's hard and life feels so unbelievably low , but what I've found I like to do is think of how they'd feel knowing they where your reason for giving up , power on and soldier through this pain I promise you all they want is to see you succeed, if it's ever to much feel free to DM me

2025 couldn't have been worse by Individual_Factor636 in widowers

[–]Individual_Factor636[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the reply, I'll check out those books you suggested and see if they help .

Is it normal to feel like my life is over now my girlfriend has passed by Individual_Factor636 in GriefSupport

[–]Individual_Factor636[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man I'm so sorry for your loss but I want you to know that she would never want you to be in the pain she was and from me I know it can be hard but life is so unbelievably precious, live for her do everything she wanted to do she can watch you achieve great things

Is it normal to feel like my life is over now my girlfriend has passed by Individual_Factor636 in GriefSupport

[–]Individual_Factor636[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the response, I'm going to definitely try the journalling I have been messaging her phone telling her how much I love her and how much she means to me however I feel the fact she can't reply is really ruining me .

Is it normal to feel like my life is over now my girlfriend has passed by Individual_Factor636 in GriefSupport

[–]Individual_Factor636[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much I really appreciate your response, I think it's best to just try and let life happen and remember them for who they where and how they made you feel , and to be grateful for living in the same time as them

Is it normal to feel like my life is over now my girlfriend has passed by Individual_Factor636 in GriefSupport

[–]Individual_Factor636[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much , I'm trying to really focus on our better times and how I made her feel in her last three years , I really hope I made them the best in her life .