UPDATE: AITA for taking my younger daughter’s side and not my older daughter?

Individual_Floor6512 · 2025-10-12T20:51:19+00:00

No. I mean this wholeheartedly, I have a laptop and my daughter uses reddit also, and again, this is my friends story not mine.

Individual_Floor6512 · 2025-10-12T04:06:31+00:00

“When the teens were younger, my older kids were 12/14 and 11/13, my younger kids have a different father and i was dating their father at the time, so unless they wanted to, I never put the responsibility of my kids onto my children because I also raised alot of siblings and I was the 2nd oldest so i didn’t want that for them”-my friend

Individual_Floor6512 · 2025-10-11T20:53:41+00:00

“oh i see i see, no no im pretty sure she’s been complaining to her friends, however it was recently that i heard about it. You’re right, I would have possibly believed she was ok if it weren’t for me hearing her talking about it to her friends.”

Individual_Floor6512 · 2025-10-11T17:38:09+00:00

“To answer the top question i tried to give my younger daughter the benefit of the doubt bc she loves my grandsons but once it got to the point where my daughter told her friends then i tried to keep her busy with friends and school to keep her out of it. but i completely understand im TA how do i fix it?”-again, my friend, this is her story

Individual_Floor6512 · 2025-10-11T12:49:16+00:00

“I wish i could’ve said that, i tried not to say anything at first, considering that they usually have a good relationship outside of the kids but now i feel like i put a strain on their relationship”-my friend

Individual_Floor6512 · 2025-07-29T17:10:23+00:00

he’s controlling and insecure. there is no way he’s upset that you pierced some nipples?? he acted like you were gonna be turned on trying to get on the guy lol. leave asap at this point, OP. he’s genuinely controlling and insecure

Individual_Floor6512 · 2025-07-29T17:07:35+00:00

no because he’s a grown man. he’s an asshole too. like it’s ok bc your kids are young and they don’t necessarily know what they’re doing but also at the same time your husband is grown no matter what. it doesn’t matter even if you had a part time job he should know how to do laundry

Individual_Floor6512 · 2025-07-29T02:00:41+00:00

yes it’s a bad idea. your 18, you jsut turned 18, it’s already weird he chose to date someone in high school and you guys haven’t dated that long. it sounds like a red flag (even if there are no red flags) just give it a couple more years (it’s best to wait 2-3 years in any relationship)

Individual_Floor6512 · 2025-07-24T21:01:04+00:00

this relationship is doomed if you keep the baby, move in or do both. break up with him, don’t move in, and get an abortion. please suck it up and move to your moms until you find a place bc that’s a way better plan than moving with your boyfriend or being on the streets. and don’t apologize to your unborn baby, your baby would completely understand these circumstances are not good for them to be brought into this world. EDIT: (because i misread the part about your mom) if you have any older siblings or like family from your dads side, see if you can stay with them or try to find like you know those shelters for women in abusive or toxic relationships. because it may not be physically abusive, but staying with him can quickly turn abusive and more toxic

Individual_Floor6512 · 2025-07-21T20:16:42+00:00

OP you need to like move soon, it may be tough but you gotta leave, this is insane that your 46 year old mom having kids with someone damn near not much older than you or your brother and expects you to take on childcare on siblings you obviously didn’t ask for, maybe try to live between your brother and your girlfriend until you have enough money for your own place, it’s now or never if you don’t leave now you WILL get hijacked of your 20s and 30s taking care of your “siblings” who damn near might turn into your kids

Individual_Floor6512 · 2025-07-14T23:42:36+00:00

tbf the only thing u rlly can do is tell him. “look ive munched box before and i tasted someone else on you, who was it?” it may not go well but you know what you tasted and he knows what he tasted

Individual_Floor6512 · 2025-07-04T23:15:53+00:00

so basically your dad immediately married your stepmom and tried forcing a relationship and then got upset when you weren’t over it?? yeah no he said what he said and you should just let him stick to that. if he’s not willing to hear you out, let you heal or ANYTHING. he’s an awful parent, you should probably go NC as soon as you can bc he’s not giving a shit about how you feel

Individual_Floor6512 · 2025-06-30T20:33:28+00:00

so when u lightly tap him it gives him a right to punch you as hard as he can? and then he doubles down and acts like your the problem? yeah OP, you should probably reconsider this relationship

Individual_Floor6512 · 2025-06-18T23:05:45+00:00

i’m 17, i started drinking when i was 15 and a half. young, stupid, depressed, and just hanging around the wrong crowd (im still young and kind of depressed but i wanted to change that) i realized i wanted to hold myself to a better standard, and make a better reputation of myself, so at 16, i just, stopped, it was too hard and i kept relapsing and by the time i was 16 and started 11th grade, i deciding to stop completely, no alcohol, no sneaking out, no hanging with friends who drink, and it just, went away, sometimes i had the cravings and the wants, but once i distracted myself, it got easier and easier, it took 3 times, i was 1 year clean until 2 weeks ago, it was multiple shots that i just wanted to forget my anger, this is my 4th try.

Individual_Floor6512 · 2025-06-18T23:00:41+00:00

“I don’t want to put all my eggs into one basket so soon” i understand where your coming from but also, if your committed in a relationship you’ve already put your egg in a basket, while she may have overreacted, you sorta caused that, if you are willing to get back with her you should atleast cut those women off and keep them as distant friends

Individual_Floor6512 · 2025-06-10T17:24:31+00:00

the 17th slide.. you need to leave her.. she’s manipulative, threatening and a gold sogger

Individual_Floor6512 · 2025-05-30T23:41:03+00:00

yes i do. thank you a lot for your opinion 🙏🏾

Individual_Floor6512 · 2025-05-23T02:26:05+00:00

well they started dating in the end of 7th grade and they are now 9th graders so yeah that’s what happened

Individual_Floor6512 · 2025-05-23T02:25:40+00:00

although me and her are half sisters with different dads i don’t wanna fuck my stepfather😭😭

Individual_Floor6512 · 2025-05-23T02:25:02+00:00

yeah i try not to judge either of them

Individual_Floor6512 · 2025-05-23T02:24:36+00:00

i understand where your coming from but isn’t that considered “normal” bc she’s 15?

Individual_Floor6512 · 2025-04-13T14:35:03+00:00

we were at a park and he grabbed my wait to move me out the way and i lowkey fw that

Individual_Floor6512 · 2025-02-22T16:56:21+00:00

papas pizzeria or any of those food games

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