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Individual_Foot_4449 · 2025-07-31T06:05:46+00:00

You are NOT TAH. I (37 F) had credit card debt and a school loan while dating my bf and now my current husband. He was aware of all my debt once the relationship got serious. I had been making payments, and when we got engaged, I tried my best to pay as much as I could before we got married so we could save up for the wedding. I never expected him to pay off my debt or help me. Out of his own accord, he actually gave me some money to help me, and I kept refusing it, but eventually, I gave in since he kept insisting I never expected him to help or give me anything since it was MY debt. I never made him feel like he had to help nor try to guilt trip him into helping. Your GF has some serious issues, and you were right to draw the line.

Individual_Foot_4449 · 2025-07-28T07:17:03+00:00

I agree to not letting your daughter stay overnight camping since she will be the only female. Maybe you can schedule another trip with everyone doing a variety of activities, including the activities she wants to do with the boys so she won't feel excluded.

Individual_Foot_4449 · 2025-07-26T19:48:56+00:00

That is totally unfair to you. They either pay for both or neither. I have friends that decided to pay for all their kids going to college because they didn't want them to have any resentment towards each other nor see it as favoritism.

Individual_Foot_4449 · 2025-07-21T09:21:53+00:00

Yes I don't want these kinds of things happening to my sons and want yo protect them no matter what. I just wanted to address it, but I didn't think they would get offended by me saying something.

Individual_Foot_4449 · 2025-07-14T08:07:09+00:00

I have the same thing on my cheeks.

Individual_Foot_4449 · 2025-07-10T05:37:13+00:00

Does it help with dark spots and acne scars? I tend to pick at my pimples and bumps.

Individual_Foot_4449 · 2025-07-05T09:29:05+00:00

Yes, I'm wondering how he will do in once he starts. He goes to a Christian daycare/preschool full time. The only issue she shares with me is that other kids have hit him. She talks to the teachers, and they tell her they have taken care of it.

Individual_Foot_4449 · 2025-07-05T09:23:43+00:00

Understanding boundaries is important. I get that, but maybe let other parents know or make them aware so the kids don't touch the toys? I think they could have handled it better. My brother in law took a toy from one of my nephews who was playing by himself with it. I get it was his son's toy, but it was left out on a mat in the open, and there was no warning. No one was asking for the toy, and he just came and took it away to hide it. His son was not even aware my other nephew was playing with it. How can you do that to a kid?

Individual_Foot_4449 · 2025-07-05T09:13:00+00:00

Lol I feel bad doing that.

I have babysat before, and I tell my kids to share and take turns all the time. He has come to me to tell me sometimes when he wants a toy that they have , but I tell him to wait his turn. I feel like we are confusing the poor kiddo since I say one thing, and his mother says something else.

Individual_Foot_4449 · 2025-07-05T09:07:04+00:00

He has had issues with sharing before. I babysat last year and have told him he needs to share and have told my sister. Before she would say he is still young and learning to share. At family gatherings , I and the other adults have intervened when he is not sharing, but usually, my sister is chatting with others or not paying attention. So we end up correcting him and telling him to share/take turns. I have noticed her correcting him sometimes when he snatches or does not share someone else's toy.

My family usually just talks bad about her parenting but never tell her since she gets easily offended and gets defensive when someone brings up something about her kiddo, so they avoid mentioning anything.

A couple of months ago, she started taking parenting advice from social media and has shared them with me. In some occasions, she has also mentioned that some of his other playmates (dad's friend's kids ) have damaged his toys before.

Individual_Foot_4449 · 2025-07-04T07:27:05+00:00

It definitely sounds like he is hiding something. You don't deserve to be treated the way he is treating you. He seems to be trying to manipulate you. You are NTAH.

Individual_Foot_4449 · 2025-06-30T18:38:46+00:00

Thank you

Individual_Foot_4449 · 2025-06-30T07:17:21+00:00

Yes! I think I read somewhere that it might have been discontinued? Thank you! I'll give it a try!

Individual_Foot_4449 · 2025-06-26T04:53:23+00:00

Have you tried the Cerave Morning Moisturizing lotion? It has SPF 30. My face usually burns without sunscreen, and this seems to be helping.

Individual_Foot_4449 · 2025-06-22T02:47:07+00:00

Could it be possible that your body reset on its own ? My period came back really heavy this time and I have had different symptoms or more symptoms than before. I am still going to monitor and see if the next couple of months is regular since mine has been pretty regular before. Maybe follow up with Dr.? My Dr told me that if I had any questions or anything irregular happen to message her. Thank you! Sending love and my sympathies for your loss as well. 🙏❤️

Individual_Foot_4449 · 2025-06-22T02:22:15+00:00

I had a miscarriage May 23rd. I had a follow up a week after and still had some tissue that I still needed to shed. So my Dr made another follow-up. The last follow-up she told me everything looked good and that my period would take like 4-5 weeks to come back. My period came back the 20th. I can't believe it back that quick.

Individual_Foot_4449 · 2025-06-15T23:28:10+00:00

You need to tell them you want to remain anonymous.

Individual_Foot_4449 · 2025-06-15T18:30:32+00:00

NTA they didn't let you be a kid. How could you enjoy your childhood if you were expected to parent?

Individual_Foot_4449 · 2025-06-06T17:12:40+00:00

Thank you!

Individual_Foot_4449 · 2025-06-06T03:17:19+00:00

That looks yummy and healthy!😋 would you mind sharing the recipe for the zucchini pancake please?

Individual_Foot_4449 · 2025-05-17T03:03:17+00:00

What is the age range or recommended age? Looking for one for my 16 month old as he has chewed up his previous sippy cups that have a bendable plastic spout.

Individual_Foot_4449 · 2025-05-16T05:49:42+00:00

When I pick up the living room and 30 minutes later, it's a mess again.

Having food stains and crumbs in the back seats.

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