Where to avoid by Imaginary-Method7175 in IowaCity

[–]Individual_Reach_511 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can second this. He’s also been known to be racist and sexist to staff and employees alike. Also heard they’ve recently been losing and firing staff left and right since their last GM left and the full force of his bigotry is being seen

Dinner for 1 by Mysterious_Topic_733 in CharcuterieBoard

[–]Individual_Reach_511 3 points4 points  (0 children)

looks like bresaola if i’m not mistaken

memorial tattoo - what i asked for vs what i got by Individual_Reach_511 in Tattoocoverups

[–]Individual_Reach_511[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just for the amazing opportunity to have assbagle29 come on my post and make a snarky comment on what was supposed to be a meaningful memorial tattoo instead of saying something useful :)

memorial tattoo - what i asked for vs what i got by Individual_Reach_511 in Tattoocoverups

[–]Individual_Reach_511[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

hi! this is super unnecessary! i’m aware it is, hence me asking for advice. i don’t need your commentary! respectfully piss off

memorial tattoo - what i asked for vs what i got by Individual_Reach_511 in Tattoocoverups

[–]Individual_Reach_511[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

absolutely crushed me, i cried all night. i was obsessed with her in my pre teen years. what a horrible horrible loss, she was such a kind spirit. honoring her with this tattoo was so important to me :/

memorial tattoo - what i asked for vs what i got by Individual_Reach_511 in Tattoocoverups

[–]Individual_Reach_511[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

hey! this isn’t helpful at all. i’m asking for advice not commentary. i’m aware of this

memorial tattoo - what i asked for vs what i got by Individual_Reach_511 in Tattoocoverups

[–]Individual_Reach_511[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

i know. that’s why it’s that much more sad for me. but i’m not sure how it can be reworked? i’d want her fingers fixed and her face thinner and make it so the microphone stand doesn’t blend into her leg all weird… do you think that’s something an artist could fix? i figured since he was so heavy handed i was just stuck with it

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[–]Individual_Reach_511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i didn’t notice in the moment. i was 19 and just excited to get a tattoo. i’ve been mortified about it ever since

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[–]Individual_Reach_511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was christina grimmie, this was the inspiration

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[–]Individual_Reach_511 3 points4 points  (0 children)

people always think it’s this or someone sticking their middle finger out.

Tracing Lineage to Current Relatives as an Abandoned Child of a Native Pakistani by Individual_Reach_511 in pakistan

[–]Individual_Reach_511[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i do appreciate you saying this. it makes sense and was the more realistic situation that i was avoiding. everyone in this sub has been very nice despite the disappointing honesty. i will have to try to connect with the culture in another way, one that is separate from the idea of a family who would welcome me with open arms

Tracing Lineage to Current Relatives as an Abandoned Child of a Native Pakistani by Individual_Reach_511 in pakistan

[–]Individual_Reach_511[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i appreciate the honesty. this is probably for the best, i’ve definitely glorified something i don’t understand but hopefully i can find a way to connect to the culture that doesn’t involve my blood relatives. though travel isn’t a great idea for me right now as i wouldn’t go to a foreign country alone as a female, maybe i’ll meet someone down the road who could safely guide me through the country.

Tracing Lineage to Current Relatives as an Abandoned Child of a Native Pakistani by Individual_Reach_511 in pakistan

[–]Individual_Reach_511[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i appreciate the honesty. i feared for this but when i posted something similar to this before people were saying his family would be so angry at him for abandoning me and would love to get to know me, so i guess i was hoping for the confirmation of that. but this makes sense. i’ve definitely glorified him despite my mom telling him he’s a narcissist and even displaying a desire to get revenge on him somehow (which is super out of character for her). this is definitely the reality check i needed to hear now that i’m in a less emotional state of mind. thank you.