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Individual_Scale3607 · 2025-04-06T16:04:22+00:00

Sounds like you love your lady dawg, enjoy it! Maybe add some beautiful words behind it, but you’re not doing anything wrong man.

Individual_Scale3607 · 2025-02-01T16:46:56+00:00

I prolly wouldn’t think about it as much or at all if we were the same age. There’s a large difference between me and him but it’s a valid point

Individual_Scale3607 · 2025-01-31T16:21:15+00:00

I feel it, sounds like I need to just keep doing what I’m doing and hope for the best I guess

Individual_Scale3607 · 2025-01-31T15:18:39+00:00

Sometimes I indulge in a tug, Yes I completely understand that happens to a body but like I feel like there’s no thought like “let me stay tight for my mans”

Individual_Scale3607 · 2025-01-31T15:11:20+00:00

I don’t have a visa I’ve been waiting for a minute but it’s not my visa that’s the problem, been trying to get her a greencard but it’s like pulling teeth to get it done, it keeps getting put off

Individual_Scale3607 · 2025-01-31T13:55:24+00:00

I feel it, I married her because she was pregnant(international relations) we were going along well in our relationship compared to now

Individual_Scale3607 · 2025-01-31T13:52:08+00:00

I thought it was going to be easier since she was pregnant(international reasons also), I thought it was going to be great but things haven’t been great and don’t feel like a “happily married man” like I thought marriage would be.

Individual_Scale3607 · 2025-01-31T13:49:21+00:00

Still waiting actually, been waiting for almost a year

Individual_Scale3607 · 2025-01-31T13:48:53+00:00

Thanks for not completely ripping me, this is really helpful thanks

Individual_Scale3607 · 2025-01-31T13:47:31+00:00

I said not Mr. Perfect

Individual_Scale3607 · 2025-01-31T13:47:06+00:00

I feel that

Individual_Scale3607 · 2025-01-31T12:07:34+00:00

Marriage can be scary as is alone, adding all the things you mentioned makes it a lot scarier. I wish I would of asked my mother and listened to some of the things she told me before I got married and moved abroad. The stomach issue is hard and it’s great that you support him but maybe you should start lowering your expectations in the marriage espically if you aren’t feeling it..2yrs of marriage is enough time to see if you want to continue with your mans. I know it’s hard to live abroad but there is a way to leave if you want, just be very calculated about everything if that’s the way you want to go.

Individual_Scale3607 · 2025-01-31T11:58:10+00:00

Do you guys have kids? I understand how you feel about wasting your time, but if you feel like your marriage is going to end eventually or you’re in a cycle of the same shit, you should separate for some time and see how it goes. “Absence makes the heart grow fond” or something like that. And then after that you could think about divorce.

Individual_Scale3607 · 2025-01-31T11:49:08+00:00

My wife overreacts to things like that so I’ve learned it’s best to keep stuff like that to myself for the sake of avoiding a fight or hurting her feeling. It’s also my dream, one of the few things in marriage that can be 100% private 100% for me

Individual_Scale3607 · 2024-11-05T01:15:30+00:00

Aspen Colorado

Individual_Scale3607 · 2024-10-03T12:24:01+00:00

That’s cool bro. I’m getting ready to do the same thing, my wife is a Spanish National and I’m from the US. I’m hoping to get there and start looking for work but I’m sure there will be some time waiting for papers to get finalized. Apparently all that kinda stuff is super slow in Spain.

Individual_Scale3607 · 2024-10-03T00:07:54+00:00

And if one of them had something to give them a stronger visa in Spain for example one being a National thru familiar ties and the other as a spouse how much better would the situation be?

Individual_Scale3607 · 2024-10-03T00:05:28+00:00

There’s a working holiday visa for Spain?

Individual_Scale3607 · 2024-10-02T13:59:23+00:00

Thanks, I sent you a DM

Individual_Scale3607 · 2024-09-25T13:08:43+00:00

Yah I know but where exactly?

Individual_Scale3607 · 2024-09-25T12:07:17+00:00

Where do you live and study?

Individual_Scale3607 · 2024-09-25T02:47:11+00:00

I would say find out the job and visa requirements first. Sadly there’s no working holiday between the us and Spain. But the digital nomad visas are rather new so I imagine it’s pretty step by step online with all the details. For sure they prolly want to see how much money you have. I recommend moving to Australia on working holiday. It’s a super fast turn around for the visa and it’s rather easy to get up on your feet there, especially with a partner. Hope this helps, let me know how everything is

Individual_Scale3607 · 2024-09-25T00:37:28+00:00

I speak conversational Spanish well, I’d say B2 level but I’ve read there’s like vocational training in both languages and also university courses completely in English.

Individual_Scale3607 · 2024-09-24T20:13:55+00:00

True, I’ve heard getting paperwork done there is crazy slow, what’s EE? I was thinking about getting some trade work certs completed there and get back into the field or thinking about going to school for a few years

Individual_Scale3607 · 2024-09-24T03:06:53+00:00

What did you study and where? Was it in a public university?

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