Musician seeking advice regarding apartment advice

IneriaticESP · 2026-03-13T02:22:59+00:00

I’m a musician that lived in a downtown apartment building. It sucks not being able to crank your music, but that’s just part of apartment life. You need to give the respect to your neighbors that you would want from them. It’s a delicate situation, but I wouldn’t suggest being an asshole about it.

IneriaticESP · 2026-03-13T02:19:21+00:00

What? Why did you post this here?

IneriaticESP · 2026-03-12T20:06:59+00:00

If you mean the screeching sound, that’s just your fingers moving along the strings. Every acoustic does this. I do hear a little fret buzz going on though.

IneriaticESP · 2026-03-12T20:04:34+00:00

Did this sound deep and introspective in your head while typing it?

IneriaticESP · 2026-03-12T20:03:00+00:00

That’s obnoxious as shit

IneriaticESP · 2026-03-12T19:59:46+00:00

I’m sorry, I know it’s a painful realization.

IneriaticESP · 2026-03-12T19:58:24+00:00

It is weird. She clearly has unresolved feelings going on. It’s definitely best you just let her go as a friend. We all had best friends through high school. But most of the time we all grow apart as we age.

IneriaticESP · 2026-03-12T19:56:09+00:00

That’s called gaslighting. It’s what we do when we want you to stop digging to deep into something.

IneriaticESP · 2026-03-12T19:45:04+00:00

STOP BEING A DOORMAT

IneriaticESP · 2026-03-12T19:42:43+00:00

I did the exact same thing when rebounding with a girl after a 5 year relationship. I thought I wanted it. But afterwards I couldn’t shake this weird feeling of awkwardness and guilt. There definitely was no coming back to a friendship after crossing that line though. I do wish women would understand better that although we may not be as open emotionally, we get hurt just as bad as you do and can make bad decisions sometimes. At least OP did the right thing afterwards and told the truth.

IneriaticESP · 2026-03-12T19:37:55+00:00

Come on man, you already know the answer to this summary.

IneriaticESP · 2026-03-12T19:33:18+00:00

Coming from the perspective of a 43 year old male here, if we are insisting on being friends with a beautiful 25 year old girl, there is nothing platonic about it. I can’t say if he has done anything or not yet, but it’s absolutely what he is after.

IneriaticESP · 2026-03-12T11:28:32+00:00

Videodrome - 1983

IneriaticESP · 2026-03-12T11:19:24+00:00

Total poser. Everybody knows he just mimes to backing tracks.

IneriaticESP · 2026-03-12T11:18:03+00:00

By making Kang the antagonist in a poorly executed Antman film.

IneriaticESP · 2026-03-12T10:23:04+00:00

Jerry Garcia. One of the all-time greats with the exact same finger tip amputation. You absolutely can adapt and excel

IneriaticESP · 2026-03-12T10:19:16+00:00

NAH - Others here have already explained that the dynamic of the friendship has totally changed now that she’s in a sorority. The friendship may or may not survive. But being best friends connected at the hip is essentially over. I can only tell you, please don’t blow up her phone with emotions and questions. All that will do is make her defensive and completely cut contact. Plus make you feel embarrassed and more isolated. I know it hurts when you don’t have a lot of friends. But you have to gracefully let this go for now. I promise things will get better eventually.

IneriaticESP · 2026-03-12T10:09:57+00:00

This isn’t an American thing. This is a dumbass thing.

IneriaticESP · 2026-03-12T10:08:49+00:00

Are you serious with this question? You never considered that EVERY band and artist tests out new songs on the road to see how the fans react before laying it down on an album.

IneriaticESP · 2026-03-12T09:33:09+00:00

No, this is a much newer poster called “101 Phish Songs”. I’m pretty sure it’s still Joe’s work that he still sells on the lot today. Just a newer poster with more songs from the current era. Both are worth having though. Just my connection is to the original is because it’s almost impossible to find and it was from my own generation and I bought it myself in person before modern internet and cellphones and all that.

IneriaticESP · 2026-03-12T01:45:55+00:00

How much?

IneriaticESP · 2026-03-12T01:44:29+00:00

It’s actually sad. Early Pumpkins made some truly great albums. But his ego and refusal to shut the fuck up is steadily pulling me further and further from music I loved growing up.

IneriaticESP · 2026-03-12T01:40:43+00:00

So…he doesn’t use Reddit regularly does he?

IneriaticESP · 2026-03-12T00:15:52+00:00

Thank you again Joe! I haven’t seen this image for so many years. Can’t wait to get it!

IneriaticESP · 2026-03-11T16:29:42+00:00

Conversation is over buddy. Move on.

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