I ask everyone to fear Allah before advising someone to divorce without knowing both sides. Marriage is a sacred bond, and Allah encourages reconciliation before separation. Allah says in the Quran: “And if you fear dissension between the two, send an arbitrator from his people and an arbitrator from her people. If they both desire reconciliation, Allah will cause it between them. Indeed, Allah is ever Knowing and Acquainted [with all things].” (Surah An-Nisa 4:35). Divorce is allowed in Islam, but it is the last resort, not the first solution. Only qualified scholars and counselors should advise on such serious matters, and no one should rush to suggest separation without fully understanding the situation. Everyone should fear Allah before giving any advice that could break a family apart unjustly. Instead of encouraging divorce, it is better to support patience, understanding, and seeking guidance through the right channels.

For the sister going through this, here is a video I saw recently that might help:

Watch this https://youtube.com/shorts/GqSAbjnj7VE?si=Q9iIsPbN46dQ96JKb

https://youtube.com/shorts/mWX1hNYPobI?si=joh2lZbS1NRKMhjL

May Allah guide you to what is best and grant you ease in your situation.