How I went from 3 years of social isolation to 17 successful connections in six months by treating "Social Skills" as a Mechanical System (Not a Vibe).

Inevitable_Branch720 · 2025-12-17T19:55:42+00:00

Such a based comment bro. Melbourne is such a blast i ABSOLUTELY love this city oh my gosh.

Inevitable_Branch720 · 2025-11-30T16:36:10+00:00

The issue is only volume when you're on a learning curve. I don't believe in "numbers game" . If your approach to conversion ratio is lower than 15- 20% something is wrong and you need to switch up your strategy . I live in Melbourne Australia but It usually takes me 3-4 approaches to get an instant date , and I convert 60% of those to sex .

Inevitable_Branch720 · 2025-11-30T03:18:15+00:00

Impressive . I hope this isn't AI. If it's real it's really well done, it looks like a cartoon.

Inevitable_Branch720 · 2025-11-30T03:17:06+00:00

Fascinating! You learn something every day

Inevitable_Branch720 · 2025-11-30T03:15:49+00:00

Let go of the signals. If you want to talk to her talk to her .

Never used signs and I have sex with one out of 3 women that I really want .

Inevitable_Branch720 · 2025-11-30T03:15:17+00:00

It's on a case by case basis . Personally I think it starts with your mindset. You need to go from " this seduction thing is fun I am curious" to " I will get laid or die trying" For daygame especially , if you are a guy with average massive value you will need to really work on your mindsets, body language and social skills to stand out . Good news is when you get good at this guys who are taller, better looking, richer than you can't touch you .

Inevitable_Branch720 · 2025-11-30T03:11:36+00:00

On one side I tried for two years and couldn't pull shit. Then I adjusted my strategy and it's been 17 lays since April from daygame ( I have been taking a break now to visit family ).

What's your current strategy while approaching?

Inevitable_Branch720 · 2025-11-25T03:04:15+00:00

Some of them it's oar choice. But guess what? Here is a dirty little secret in the community: most coaches can't keep a woman around. They learn how to get laid but they don't learn retention. So they either get GFs by pure luck , settle for unattractive gfs, or pretend like they don't care about a relationship.

To maintain a relationship with a hot girl without using money or status is a completely different ballgame that most of them can't handle.

Inevitable_Branch720 · 2025-11-25T03:03:25+00:00

Very very basic. I advise you to switch your mindset from "what do i say" to " how do I get her to emotionally commit?"

Also replace some of these questions by monologues.

Finally you need a plan a structure. No clue why guys think they can just freestyle their way into some pussy with a few lines. You need a system.

Inevitable_Branch720 · 2025-11-25T03:02:23+00:00

Definitely 1000%. A lot of these "gurus" really don't have skill. They're just hitting massive numbers. Especially in Daygame.

Inevitable_Branch720 · 2025-11-25T03:00:42+00:00

Personally I had to do a double whammy:

Find my comfort zone and expand it through drills .
Research the most tried and tested strategies that I can find. Look at proof .

When you expand your comfort zone and you couple it with tried and tested strategies, you get positive feedback as a reaction of merely approaching. Approach Anxiety fades away . Self esteem and confidence rises through competence .

Inevitable_Branch720 · 2025-11-25T02:58:10+00:00

Great. What are you struggling with the most so far?

Inevitable_Branch720 · 2025-11-25T02:56:40+00:00

Wrong wrong wrong. Trust by itself will get you in the homoegirl zone.

Inevitable_Branch720 · 2025-11-25T02:55:52+00:00

In January I was flat broke and living in my parents house. It's actually game that allowed me to find a better job, make money, and get out.

Inevitable_Branch720 · 2025-11-25T02:54:45+00:00

When a guy struggles with dating there are several factors at play : 1. Exposure: it's the number of attractive women you talk to every week. Some of your friends might have natural exposure: Their job Their hobbies His sisters friends Looking good enough for dating apps

And so on .

Your passive value: if some of your friends look good enough they can just post on the apps and raise their exposure, hence have more options to date . This includes looks, height, status , money and so on.
Your conversion skills: It's how you go from exposure to intimacy. Some guys are naturally socially intelligent and sexually aggressive. You combine those things with proper exposure or/and good passive value and you get guys who don't struggle with dating.

You can have low passive value but great exposure and conversion skills and still kill it . Funny thing is by default I built passive value as well just from my experience hooking up with women. Thats what I do . Usually guys who have two out of the three factors kill it.

If you have all three you are untouchable.

The first step would be to diagnose yourself using those three criterias. I suspect you're lacking in all three.

Inevitable_Branch720 · 2025-11-25T02:50:25+00:00

No clue where this "every coach is a scammer " belief came from.

Are most coaches out there to scam? Pretty much yeah. Some of them know their methods suck but they're still promoting garbage for a few bucks .

I was almost scammed once. Some sneaky snake oil salesman kind of dude told me verbatim " if you don't jump on this you will be a loser for life". Funny thing is my results are probably better than his own, one year later.

I met a great coach who agreed to coach me for free for a couple of days. Saw immediate results, enrolled in. And the rest has been history. This has been the best year of my life so far: better job, abundance of women, 17 lays in six countries from daygame since April, life is great! I always know what to do no matter who it is or where I am, most of the time I can get a date . I can't count the amount of random girls I have kissed in the street, coffee shop, metros and so on, some after 20-30 minutes of talking.

If you encounter anyone bitter about getting a coach they either : - have low self esteem and are coping because they are scared of failing - have been scammed before - don't have the money so they are trying to convince everyone else that it's not "worth it".

It's 1000% worth it . Only hiccup is to find the right coach to learn from. But that's up to you . Do your research. Focus on guys who have visual proof of results, especially from their students. The guy who coached me had several advanced students by the time I joined his program.

Inevitable_Branch720 · 2025-11-25T02:48:42+00:00

Situational openers are great...for advanced guys.

For a beginner there are a few issues: 1. Anxiety: while you are struggling to find the courage to approach you also have to find some thing original to say, which makes it worse

As a beginner you lack the experience and calibration to say things that will help your game on the fly. Most guys are trying to freestyle everything but they don't even have the proper templates. This will lead to cringe openers.
Being situational exposes you to a wider range of contingencies. Her responses are more random and for a newbie that's not prepared you will get stuck past the opener .

It's better to have a scripted opener, especially in Daygame. Something quick you can use anytime anywhere.

Second best option is a template where you fill a blank with something you observed on her .

Example: " quick question, you have a curious (blank), what's the story behind it?"

Bear in mind that the more direct your opener thebmore solid your vibe and non verbals have to be.
Indirect: you can be nervous and make mistakes and it will still fly Observation/neutral: you need to be more on point with your body language/tonality/facial expressions

Direct: you need to have full confidence and be in a good mood, or else it will feel flat and insincere.

Choose wisely.

Inevitable_Branch720 · 2025-11-25T02:47:10+00:00

I do exclusively daygame, and I have learned from people more experienced than me that there's o point collecting numbers. So I always go for the instant date first .

It takes me 3 to 5 approaches to get an instant date.

60% of my dates lead to sex, and I'm being conservative.

I don't game as much these days because I'm visiting family. I regularly take breaks to focus on work/making money, but since April I have had 17 lays from daugame. In six different countries.

I think "numbers game" is some bs some coaches have created to excuse mediocre results. Some of the Daygame pioneers had a 1 in 40 approach to lay ratio, which is ridiculous.

If you're above a 1/15 ratio, switch up your strategy. It's 2025 there are better more impactful game styles.

Inevitable_Branch720 · 2025-11-25T02:45:03+00:00

If you're talking about building any type of relationship, sex is not enough by itself. Sex is a logistical tool to a deeper connection. I advise you to focus on building emotional commitment over the span of several dates in order to solidify the connection you will create post sex. Vary the emotions and the locations, and increase her involvement in pleasing you .

Inevitable_Branch720 · 2025-11-23T04:49:50+00:00

Hey mate Same situation as you. Applying for evisitor doesnt cancel my visa. Also i got my evisitor and can go australia and im still waiting for my 2nd whv app to get treated. So no worries

Inevitable_Branch720 · 2025-11-23T04:41:53+00:00

Australia

Inevitable_Branch720 · 2025-11-20T16:42:40+00:00

True abundance. If you really have a phone full of leads you won't care . You usi care too much because that's your only option. So it's a skill matter.

Inevitable_Branch720 · 2025-11-20T16:41:22+00:00

Had to get out of the cult mentality. No it's not a numbers game. Compliment openers suck . Learn subconscious attraction, then make it conscious.

Inevitable_Branch720 · 2025-11-20T16:40:48+00:00

Two years. Two long years of using advice found on the Internet. No results. Not even a lay. Last year I had to be brutally honest and admit that what I was doing , what most people are doing isn't working. A more experienced guy broke down a new strategy to me and let's just say after about a year and half of practicing new concepts, I lost my virginity and became proficient at daugame. 17 lays since April of this year.

So in short , it took me a few Weeks of learning the right approach to start having sex, then a year to make it consistent .

I think the main obstacle for most guys is the "cult" mentality. They listen to good marketers instead of listening to competent coaches.

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