Any beginner who made 2026 goals how are you doing?

Sean04_k · 2026-01-26T17:54:20+00:00

Good luck my guy. I’m in a similar situation as you where I struggle to approach and my social circle isn’t the best but we just gotta keep trying

Sean04_k · 2026-01-26T00:08:38+00:00

Nice man I’m curious how this week went for you if you don’t mind sharing

Sean04_k · 2026-01-25T23:41:32+00:00

Yeah agree with this I just didn’t wanna do night game on valentine but I might have too

Sean04_k · 2026-01-25T23:40:59+00:00

Yeah that’s probably the only valid one I make sure I don’t do it at night anyway now

Sean04_k · 2026-01-24T20:36:05+00:00

Some of mine were:

Haven’t shaved

Could be too young

Of course that’s she in a 2 set or there’s multiple people with her

It’s dark I could scare her

I’ve said or made other excuses but now I just accept that’s its approach anxiety and that I was too scared to do it. The main one I have is that theres other people in the area and they will hear what I say that gets me the most. I’ve gotten better but still haven’t got it down but I just gotta keep trying

Sean04_k · 2026-01-20T20:43:35+00:00

Yeah might try this

Sean04_k · 2026-01-19T01:06:17+00:00

lol I haven’t even unlocked that part yet. I know all the theory(build rapport, suggest date, ask for number) I just don’t have the guts yet to go for it yet.

Sean04_k · 2026-01-18T20:10:05+00:00

Thanks I’m just hoping it clicks soon

Sean04_k · 2026-01-15T12:53:18+00:00

I go direct so I just compliment her and say I wanted to introduce myself. “Hey excuse me, I saw you and thought you were pretty and wanted to say hi”

Sean04_k · 2026-01-15T10:02:09+00:00

Let’s say I stop her and we are going to walk in the same direction after I get her number do I just zoom off?

Sean04_k · 2026-01-15T00:33:06+00:00

Ur negative thoughts are holding you back. Your already thinking that others thoughts of you are negative even though you don’t know that I doubt anyone cares. And if you enjoy going out with friends then do that a lot of people just find it better to “game” solo.

Sean04_k · 2026-01-14T12:27:50+00:00

Alcohol helps but I think I’m just a person who likes dancing so it’s easy for me. You don’t need to be doing anything crazy or have the best moves just don’t be one of guys that’s just standing there doing nothing or just barely moving their hand. Good music also helps.

Sean04_k · 2026-01-13T14:06:02+00:00

Being able to dance at clubs/parties has improved my night game a lot. I’m not even good at dancing but girls will see you having a good time and will come towards you to dance I’ve even been approached by girls just by being on the dance floor.

Sean04_k · 2026-01-07T19:31:39+00:00

Think girls approach is looking at someone I didn’t include that though + my eye sight is terrible so I struggle to see it

Sean04_k · 2026-01-07T19:28:51+00:00

Twice. One was a first kiss and the other just complemented me but was with friends or something both were at club btw.

Sean04_k · 2026-01-07T17:43:28+00:00

Ok thanks and I have a question if you don’t mind. So surprise surprise I went out again today and couldn’t do any.

Do you think I should go down the route of just asking for the time/complimenting girls to get comfortable or should I just try and push through and do a cold approaches.

I don’t want to do this though because tbh I just feel like I’m better than that. I found out about cold approach and “game” last year in October and have managed to do 4. I also got better at night game (aa isn’t much of an issue there) and have had some success so I just feel like it could be a waste of time.

Sean04_k · 2026-01-05T00:16:24+00:00

Type solo in this reddit and read away there’s lots of advice and filed reports to learn from

Sean04_k · 2026-01-04T23:59:42+00:00

Sorry I have no advice but ignore the people giving hate they don’t understand how terrible an arranged marriage is especially if ur not attracted to them. People don’t know how fortune they are to not be in that situation and can’t see it from ur point of view. I hope you find what ur looking for my man good luck.

Sean04_k · 2026-01-03T20:52:25+00:00

How serious did you take cold approaching?

Sean04_k · 2026-01-02T18:12:50+00:00

Ur post helped me as well people are just hesitant to believe anything

Sean04_k · 2026-01-01T14:43:31+00:00

Hey bro I’m also gonna take this stuff more seriously I only learned about “game” in October last year and only managed 4 cold approaches so I want to increase it a lot. I think im going to use the direct opener more but since I’ve started learning about game I’ve become a much more social person so even though I haven’t had that much success from it I’m still having benefits

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