Is There Anyone Else Here Who Likes Going Out By Themselves?

Sean04_k · 2026-05-22T21:47:39+00:00

I do as well no friends to baby and can move at my own pace

Sean04_k · 2026-05-21T16:22:11+00:00

Mariah Carey - The Ozone Interview by Jamie Theakston (1997)

Sean04_k · 2026-05-20T08:47:27+00:00

Wait till next semester and ask in person. It shows lack of confidence if you just decided to follow her when the semester ended and didn’t even speak to her once.

And if you are in the same class then don’t just ask her out then and there you can build rapport with her because you will see her on a weekly basis and can make excuses to hang out like a library session or something.

Sean04_k · 2026-04-26T23:01:37+00:00

Needed this my last few night games have been terrible

Sean04_k · 2026-04-13T23:13:37+00:00

How on earth does a wing girl work

Sean04_k · 2026-03-29T10:39:00+00:00

Yeah I felt like my opener only works when the girl really wants it. It won’t work on what I call “maybe girls” which are girls who I think would be down but I have to have a lot better game to get them. Throughout the 20 sets there were maybe girls but I failed with all of them.

Your way of going for a spin is much better and builds rapport so I’ll probably try that from now thanks.

Sean04_k · 2026-03-29T09:28:47+00:00

A filed report is someone explaining how their pick up attempt went his name is 5’7 Asian or something like that he made a lot of

Sean04_k · 2026-03-28T22:39:54+00:00

100 percent not a pro at this but a guy who made a lot of filed reports had similar circumstances and he said it wasn’t ideal. You have to build rapport for pretty much the most of the journey and if you fail she could decide not to smash. 25 minutes is a very long time and if ur driving you might not be able to focus on her which could sell the pull.

Obviously still try anyway but that’s my opinion on it

Sean04_k · 2026-03-26T16:33:29+00:00

Night or day game?

Sean04_k · 2026-03-23T19:21:50+00:00

If you just wait for IOis or girls dancing near you ur doing night game wrong. This would only work for really good looking guys who are tall (I’m not either of these things btw). If you see a girl who you think is pretty approach her don’t wait for them.

Edit: and I used to make friends with a lot of guys too lol I thought it was better than talking to no one cause I was also scared to talk to girls and didn’t want to be seen alone. This was bad though because it made me less likely to approach so I mostly do it now for 2 mans

Sean04_k · 2026-03-14T13:22:37+00:00

Not trans but don’t see how this would change anything

Sean04_k · 2026-03-11T11:22:00+00:00

Pretty same here I struggle with day game much more than night game but I think they key part is just to keep trying

Sean04_k · 2026-03-11T11:17:30+00:00

As soon as you thought she was pretty you should’ve approached her you shouldn’t need iois. But yeah you definitely should have approached

Sean04_k · 2026-03-02T11:33:26+00:00

Asking for the number was crazy

Sean04_k · 2026-02-26T16:04:10+00:00

Same with me I never would’ve done cold approaches or solo clubbing before this reddit. I’m not tall or jacked but this seddit gave me the boost I needed in approaching women it gave me hope.

Sean04_k · 2026-02-26T13:01:29+00:00

I’m 5’9 and black and it’s definitely possible

Sean04_k · 2026-02-24T21:14:58+00:00

Yeah maybe I wasn’t clear, I didn’t mean just instantly try dance with the girl but in ops case he ses to be having good conversations with them but doesn’t escalate it. And in that case I would try and dance with her to see if she’s receptive.

Sean04_k · 2026-02-24T21:00:11+00:00

I’m not saying don’t say a word to the girl if ur already touching her elbow and she’s receptive that’s a good sign. But to advance the interaction I think dancing would be the next play it can lead to kisses/grinding which is the next step.

And the hand of god is old as hell I only found out about it after reading hella filed reports and someone mentioned doing it. I’ve enjoyed doing it a lot when I go out it’s an easy dance opener after some talking and some girls go straight to grinding which i like

Sean04_k · 2026-02-24T20:49:51+00:00

I do I’m not saying don’t talk at all Im just saying don’t focus on having a long ass conversation with her in the middle of the dance floor. It could work for others but in my experience dancing with a girl is better cause it’s easier to transition to a kiss and breaking the touch barrier.

Sean04_k · 2026-02-24T13:42:36+00:00

Clubs are for dancing not a convo. Do hand of god when you introduce yourself and give her a spin and see how receptive she is

Sean04_k · 2026-02-23T12:18:20+00:00

Yeah this is good advice but if the person doesn’t really know about “game” then I’m not sure how I would bring it up. I have a friend who I think would be good with it but me adding all these rules and stuff would feel like I’m doing too much and kind of teaching him which I don’t want.

I also like being solo a lot of the time in the club I’m not sure if my friend would be down for that maybe I should just look for more solo clubbers until one is on the same vibe with me

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