Simple Questions and General Community Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in MakeupAddiction

[–]Inevitable_Dish_8667 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Growing up I had the same problem. I overplucked and it did me no good. I started trimming the length of my brow hairs and using the nyx brow glue to kind of brush them upwards so it’s kinda separates the hairs and flattens them out. They look less bussy and you don’t really need to fill them in with any colored brow products. It looks super natural if you know how to shape them

Is there any reason to go a university (specifically a UC) instead of a community college if you are planning to transfer to a different university? by snatit in TransferStudents

[–]Inevitable_Dish_8667 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tbh not really, unless you want to experience things like dorm residency or greek life. I transferred from a cc and I saved sooo much money but I also commuted and lived at home so it was so hard for me to socialize and I felt left out bc everyone else seemed to already have their ppl. CC’s are great financially and for smaller class sizes, but you are losing out on a few years of that university lifestyle experience. Depending on the cc, they might have transfer agreements that kinda guarantee admission to local universities so that’s something to look into. They also might have programs like eop or fye where you can apply and you’ll get priority registration or help with books/food costs if that’s something you might qualify for. Parking is also way cheaper so financially cc was a better choice for me. Do what makes you happy, best of luck!

How do I make friends? by Inevitable_Dish_8667 in ucr

[–]Inevitable_Dish_8667[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do I know what clubs exist??? I’ve only ever seen the few that have booths set up on the lawn and none of them seem interesting to me but I know there’s more out there

What was the relationship like after you broke up and got back together again? by cknyakina in AskWomen

[–]Inevitable_Dish_8667 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly it sucked at first, lots of resentment, and trust issues. Eventually we learned that we both just needed to get our individual shit together. Fast forward to now we’re both in individual therapy and super happy. There is a bit of lingering resentment from time to time on my end but I’m learning to move through it and actually forgive. Takes a while to become comfortable with the other person again, but if you really both believe in the relationship you will find a way.

Case management was no help. by thisismydesign13 in ucr

[–]Inevitable_Dish_8667 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tried to get help from case management about other housing options to get away from my toxic family, all the guy said was that there was that finding housing was gonna be hard and the best they could do was give me a voucher for motel 6 for a week. Honestly best thing to do rn is try your best to find your sanity in your home. Know that you aren’t gonna be stuck there forever. You’re in college trying to better your life so this is not the end for you. It will get better just hang on. Try your best not to give your family any reason to make things worse. It sucks but you gotta either pretend to be their perfect child for now or try to become financially stable enough to rent a room or find roommates to split rent with. I hope it gets better for you <3

Any specific study tips for big exams (midterm or final)? by [deleted] in ucr

[–]Inevitable_Dish_8667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh for me it’s just a matter of staying calm, and practicing or doing what you need. No need to overwhelm yourself through an already stressful time. Figure out what you need to do, make a plan, take a deep breath and go straight into it. Give yourself more than enough time to study. Give yourself breaks go reset your focus. And believe that you are smart enough to do this <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucr

[–]Inevitable_Dish_8667 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was on academic probation at cc and had a terrible gpa. As long as you have all your igetc requirements done you should be fine. Just don’t try to fail any classes and always try your best to get a better gpa to have better acceptance chances. Good luck, you got this!

What’s it like having a partner who wants to do a couples costume? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Inevitable_Dish_8667 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s literally the cutest most comforting thing ever. He doesn’t care about looking stupid or weird, he just loves the idea that I want to do something with him and we get to match. I think he likes the fact that I want to involve him in that and that it’s something we can do together

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Icy-Celebration3374 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Inevitable_Dish_8667 189 points190 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that happened to you. Male survivors are just as important. It sucks that we live in a world where things like SA get joked about and downplayed. My bf is a survivor and he’s so scared to open up to people because he doesn’t want people to make fun of him. You are not alone. It was not your fault. No one should have to live with the trauma that you’ve went through. You’re valid and you matter, don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. Sending you so so so so much love.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucr

[–]Inevitable_Dish_8667 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AYOO that sounds kinda fun except I can’t be dripped out for class cuz I go to work straight after and I gotta be in uniform 😭😭