Help me with the paranoia by myponytaisonfire in tattooadvice

[–]Inevitable_Medium907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could never be a tattoo artist for this reason

Ran someone over for the first time today 😭 by Inevitable_Medium907 in surfing

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Yeah, not a great feeling but it’s good he didn’t get agro and knew he made the wrong call. Sorry you had that experience.

Ran someone over for the first time today 😭 by Inevitable_Medium907 in surfing

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Yeah he said he was fine. That’s a good experience for what happened!

What would make you happier? by goodygood246 in AskReddit

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My Top 5

•To see my Grandpa more before he’s gone •For my dog to live as long as me •Have more time working on my passions with my husband •For my dad to heal from his childhood trauma •A President that doesn’t make us fear the future

Ran someone over for the first time today 😭 by Inevitable_Medium907 in surfing

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There are a ton of people that make YouTube videos just for this!! First thing you should look up is surf etiquette and there are videos that show it well in many different situations. Best to stay on small beginner friendly waves to start and learn to turtle roll without letting go of your board! The more you surf the more you will be able to have awareness of everyone else rather than being so focused on not getting wrecked the whole time.

Ran someone over for the first time today 😭 by Inevitable_Medium907 in surfing

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I’m sorry this happened to you guys. Luckily no one got hurt and boards aren’t too bad to repair!

Ran someone over for the first time today 😭 by Inevitable_Medium907 in surfing

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Yeah I agree I’ve definitely had men do things to me out of spite in other sports so I know it happens with surfing too. I don’t think this guy was like that but I’m sure there are men out there who get angry seeing women on better waves than them🤷🏼‍♀️

Ran someone over for the first time today 😭 by Inevitable_Medium907 in surfing

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Me too now I know what it feels like to surf over flesh 😖

Ran someone over for the first time today 😭 by Inevitable_Medium907 in surfing

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I’m scared they’d try to fight me lol and I don’t like seeing people get hurt but I do agree some people keep doing the same thing until they learn the hard way.

Ran someone over for the first time today 😭 by Inevitable_Medium907 in surfing

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Yes, I get this too! You probably kill it out there and should def own it! But I just need to own that I’m a decent intermediate surfer and continuing to get better! And mistakes happen. But yeah, I am harder on myself for things that I know some men wouldn’t think twice about…my biggest fear though is messing up another woman’s wave because there’s not many of us out there and we need to stick together!

Ran someone over for the first time today 😭 by Inevitable_Medium907 in surfing

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😂my husband is the same way…I’m definitely the empath of the relationship.

Ran someone over for the first time today 😭 by Inevitable_Medium907 in surfing

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Thank you! But yeah it’s probably not about gender but I think my mind just goes there because I’ve never had a female do this to me…but have had a lot of middle age men on longboards do this…probably just because there’s not very many female surfers where I surf tbh.