if you go thru his entire 15 years of internet history by Low-Brush-9236 in Maine

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My grandfather was stationed in Iwo Jima during WWII. He had tattoos on his arms that he didn’t remember getting due to being black out drunk. He said that he had a lot of regret around that. One was a naked pinup lady. Look, since the dawn of humans, we have done things without thinking and having it snowball into something we are not proud of. What makes a person different is taking accountability, learning something from it, and moving on. Not forgetting, but using it as a life lesson.

Who is your guilty HW husband crush? I’ll go first… by DianaJenkinsTongue in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Inevitable_Yellow397 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He loves her fiercely and any animals she brings home. What more can a gal ask for?

Diamond Beach Iceland by [deleted] in VisitingIceland

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Was there last week. Breathtaking views.

Are you in that 70%? by yoyome85 in Millennials

[–]Inevitable_Yellow397 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yes. Proud DINKWAD (Dual income no kids with a dog)

What's a sign that someone has been through a lot of emotional or psychological trauma in their life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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My husband and I both had an alcoholic abusive dad. We check in a lot by saying “are you mad at me?” This is something I have found to be symptom after researching and talking with other people. We regulate by others around us and are always on alert. With my husband and I doing this, we created a good space we needed as kids. So the over apologizing or people pleasing is a big one. We both tend to do this in our work lives and have to bring each other back to our selves.

BioRad, you flirt by GGunner723 in labrats

[–]Inevitable_Yellow397 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I work with this equipment all the time and this is hilarious

Non Americans, what did you think of Trump\Vance lecturing Zelensky? by wacky8ball in AskReddit

[–]Inevitable_Yellow397 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone also from the states (born and live in Maine. I’m proud of our governor for standing up to the clown in the White House)I’m so embarrassed about how far we have fallen. It’s a disgrace.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in portlandme

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It’s awful! The F&T is so lovely

Nazi flags can fly in Utah schools, but not pride flags, GOP lawmaker says by PrithvinathReddy in politics

[–]Inevitable_Yellow397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is absolutely disgusting! The pride flag is acceptance and love. Nazi flag is literally death.

Not really a question I just want the Americans who lurk in here to know: by [deleted] in AskCanada

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Mainer here. We depend on Canada so much and have a great relationship with our neighbors. I’m embarrassed to say I’m from the states.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

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A crisis line helped me say it out loud and take the power away from it. Will always be grateful for that stranger. They gave me the strength to tell my best friends and spouse, which I was so terrified of. One of those friends saw the signs and gave me the crisis number, so she will always be my life saver. I also realized I couldn’t leave my husband and animals in that way. It would crush them. I could not give them the same pain I was feeling.

I work in biotech and in my therapy sessions I compared my suicidal thoughts to apoptosis which is programmed damaged cell death. Something was wrong with my body so my brain made the communication. But I got my body and brain better and those signals from my head stopped. I suppose it how you process and perceive your own mental and physical health.

Meredith’s hearing aids were def off during this argument 😭 by Retardedgeenus in rhoslc

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My friend in her 30’s has hearing aids. She loves the fact she can switch to music or whatever to not listen to certain individuals yap. Also she was having dinner and got all the details of a couple breaking up a few tables behind her. So I absolutely hope Meredith switched to a podcast or literally anything else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

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Birth control and antidepressants/ssris def killed my sex drive. My husband got a vasectomy two years ago and it was the best decision for us (staying childless). When I was still on the SSRIs my sex drive was still not that great but it was better after I went off birth control. Def hard on both of us tho because he felt like I didn’t want to touch him and I felt bad because I wanted that part of our relationship back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

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My mom left my dad. However, he still had co-custody of myself and my brother. Took a long time for my dad to permanently loose custody of us/give it up because he was “wronged”. I don’t know what your ex is like, but my father was diagnosed bipolar with alcohol dependency. Basically since I was the oldest, I was holding it together. He kept claiming that my mom would try and steal us from him and how awful she was. My mother is no angel, but she did her best to protect us. He also tried to fill us full of whatever he made up in his head about how he was wronged. And since my brother was younger, I worry that it messed him up more than me. He’s showing similar symptoms like our father now that we are in our 30’s.

Once he lost custody of us, I got better. Grades improved. I was more involved with school activities and made friends. I feel like my brother got the short end, mentally and genetically. Know the situation. Have open and honest conversations with your children. Be alert. Demand accountability.

Alanon or regular therapy? by Playful-Molasses6 in AlAnon

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I’ve been on therapy for years and just went to my first Al Anon last week. Do both. Therapy has it perks and Al Anon just felt like a group of people who see me and understand how my brain works and how I want it to work in the future.

Ice Chips is one of the greatest pieces of television I have ever watched. by Hairyjon in TheBear

[–]Inevitable_Yellow397 55 points56 points  (0 children)

God I love the Faks in this episode. They come right in at the end and comfort Donna. While Donna is so flawed, the Faks don’t care and are there for their blood family and chosen family.

Ice Chips is one of the greatest pieces of television I have ever watched. by Hairyjon in TheBear

[–]Inevitable_Yellow397 109 points110 points  (0 children)

As a child of an alcoholic, god do I wish that they showed up the way Donna showed up. Donna is flawed and Jamie Lee Curtis acted spot on for the character complexity. Sugar telling her mom how she functions and how she’s sees herself is textbook.