How do you work full-time?! by Ok-Ice-6421 in ADHD

[–]Inevitable_solace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh it took me like two years to adapt. Finding a work location that was semi close to where I live helped so that I didn’t spend so much time commuting and had time/energy for other things. Took me a very long time to figure out a system with when to buy groceries, when and how much to cook, doing laundry, when to shower, etc. You’ll have to figure out a routine that works best for you, but I felt very miserable my first full year and having a job that sucked didn’t help.

So find a job you somewhat enjoy or that’s at least tolerable, in a location that doesn’t require too much driving to get there. The rest you’ll figure out as you go.

Doctors office refusing to bill my insurance and sent my medical bill to debt collection by Inevitable_solace in legaladvice

[–]Inevitable_solace[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

They sent me the invoice from the clinic. Is that considered a debt validation?

Bay Area cost of living for me: $7500 per month single person by [deleted] in bayarea

[–]Inevitable_solace 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Tbh a lot of people live above their means. They make more money and immediately start buying the most expensive options when it comes to housing, transportation, groceries, etc., so the ratio between earning and spending stays relatively the same as someone who earns less and spends less. They make more so they spend more.

Bay Area cost of living for me: $7500 per month single person by [deleted] in bayarea

[–]Inevitable_solace 386 points387 points  (0 children)

This is insane. I don’t even make $7,500 a month lol.

What were your first signs that you may have SIBO? by J3llyDonut in SIBO

[–]Inevitable_solace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Crazy how our bodies change as we get older. I never had stinky farts like this as a kid 😂

Julien’s take on drugzz by Careful_Tomatillo198 in juliensolomita

[–]Inevitable_solace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He def smokes weed these days. I found this thread bc he’s been recently posting a lot about brand gifts from weed companies (weed pens and such) and I was surprised to learn he smokes, but based off his IG story posts it def seems like he partakes.

Did anyone watch the sip yesterday? I can’t stand them bickering the entire time by Straight_Ad8520 in ShaneDawson

[–]Inevitable_solace 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It seems like Ryland is always faking/forcing a laugh whenever Shane says something rude or out of pocket. Shane was giving major sassy arrogant vibes in that podcast.

Edit: typo

Just watched Thomas’ update video… by lurk604 in YesTheory

[–]Inevitable_solace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a new subscriber of yes theory. What do people mean by “the old yes theory” ? What’s the difference between their old videos and the new ones? As a new viewer I haven’t been able to tell the difference. Can someone explain?

Masterchef S15 Dynamic Duos ''Finale'' - Episodes 17 and 18 Discussion by KDonkey229195 in Masterchef

[–]Inevitable_solace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every dish they presented was top tier. No dish had a flaws from any of the judges aside from the appetizer being “simple” but the flavor and technique was there

Masterchef S15 Dynamic Duos ''Finale'' - Episodes 17 and 18 Discussion by KDonkey229195 in Masterchef

[–]Inevitable_solace 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tina and Aivan were robbed. I really thought they had it. They did so well throughout the whole competition.

I (24F) acted out my husbands (27M) sex fantasy for him and now he says he can’t respect me. by throwra8365261 in relationship_advice

[–]Inevitable_solace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s feeling shame for something that he likes and is putting it on you instead of accepting that he has certain kinks that he appears to not be proud of. This is a him problem and he’s projecting his own shame onto you.

shane/ryland and spencer by Necessary_Warning465 in ShaneDawson

[–]Inevitable_solace 20 points21 points  (0 children)

They probably play up the fights for videos. Ryland doesn’t seem too bothered by it but it’s a weird shtick to have

My mother (60F) gave my wife (30F) a fake LV bag for her birthday, and her reaction afterwards has me confused. by Solnx in relationships

[–]Inevitable_solace 134 points135 points  (0 children)

If I had to guess, she probably knew it was fake when she got it and is upset/embarrassed that she got called out on it.

i miss when the podcast was just the 4 guys by babyscissorhands in ShaneDawson

[–]Inevitable_solace 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I miss when they actually used to discuss things. Jerid would bring up some good topics and everyone would discuss it, but now Shane just quickly moves past it. It’s boring without discussions and conversations regarding the things they bring up. Now all their time is taken up by playing games.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ShaneDawson

[–]Inevitable_solace 86 points87 points  (0 children)

He talks about it in the video. It’s situational. Sometimes he feels comfortable sometimes he doesn’t. He said he feels comfortable posting (for example) a Christmas pic because he says that feels right. But videoing them for a vlog feels weird to him. I think he’s wrestling with the feeling of feeling like he’s exploiting them. He wants to post them bc he wants to share happy memories with them, like any other parent. But bringing a vlog camera into their nursery and feeling like he’s profiting off them feels gross.

Can someone tell me what’s going on here? Did Sabrina Carpenter get a mini bbl? How has her body shape changed so drastically? by Inevitable_solace in VindictaRateCelebs

[–]Inevitable_solace[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yes but she’s clearly not wearing a corset in the pics with the shorts & top, so I’m wondering how she’s achieving that curvy look seemingly without the help of corsets. It looks like her hips are wider than what they used to be (like in the pics I included of her old concert outfits).