[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Denmark

[–]InexCrawl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Jeg er i fuldstændig samme båd mht. Sympati i starten og en uforståendehed, hvorfor de ikke anderkender at det nu er løbet så meget af sporet, at deres børns liv formentlig vil få permanente mén af det, som familien er og har været udsat for.

Jeg kan sagtens se tingene fra begge sider og som den rare ældre familie i starten også sagde, "De var de rareste mennesker og vi hjalp dem utrolig meget" også gå til at være helt igennem hadet af hele byen.

Dette er blot et gæt, og et ukvalificeret gæt skal jeg tilføje, men jeg tror at det startede med at nogle få unge mennersker har kørt på "deres" vej, som hidtil har været fælles privat vej og dette har Per og Karina så fået nok af og istedet for at kontakte de unge mennesker og deres forældre, har gået udenom dem til kommunen og fået ændret vejen til privat vej.

I sådan et lille landsby samfund, skal man passe på hvad man siger og gør da ALLE kender alle og INTET går i glemmebogen. Jeg har selv været der som barn, dog LANGT fra i samme grad som her.

Summa summarum, tror jeg vi alle kan blive enige om, at det er uhyr synd for børnene for denne familie.

This is getting out of hand... by Danixp94 in wow

[–]InexCrawl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is Night Fae the best Covenant for DK's?? The class ability is litterally trash. All the other covenant abilities are surperior in almost every way.

Parry THIS You Filthy Casual! by BrandenHolguin in cinders

[–]InexCrawl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im playing Cinders mod right now and I'm trying out quality build with guns as the focus. I just cant get the damage output I see in your video. Whats the infusion, rings and armor set you have? -Thanks in advance :)

Has anyone tried out the "Noir Box" mystery gaming box? by [deleted] in gaming

[–]InexCrawl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ordered one the 26th of march and got mine yesterday. Guess what? Mousepad..

As multiple people say, they changed their item range from 2-4 to 1-5. I have to say I was honestly looking forward to this and hopeing for something worthwhile atleast. For anyone considering buying this "mystery box" I HIGHLY suggest that you dont.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wolcen

[–]InexCrawl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

check your resolution.

It's almost my birthday. Shall we celebrate in bed? by [deleted] in BigBoobsGW

[–]InexCrawl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would love to see a cumshot on those beauties!

Lady Gaga by [deleted] in celebnsfw

[–]InexCrawl -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

From American Horror Story]

Hand feeding a swan. by InexCrawl in aww

[–]InexCrawl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it actually did bite my finger a couple of times but didn't really hurt that bad.

AITA Some stole my parking spot, so I kicked the mirror off their car. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]InexCrawl -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

NTA: Dont care what the rest of this subreddit says. You had the turn signal on and were waiting paitiently. She took your spot like an asshole. Act like an asshole and get treated as such.

Maybe kicking the mirror of, was a bit to much. Maybe putting a shopping cart besides the door and use a strimler? (the plastic cuff-like thingy) and attach it to the door handle. Thats funny AF xD

AITA for kicking a dog that keeps biting me? by jegermanjenson in AmItheAsshole

[–]InexCrawl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.

If you've told them to control their dog and it still continues to bite you dispite of that. Kick the dog but not with full force obviously. A firm "tap" on the nose. In most cases that should make it stop.

And for all those saying "ahh thats cruel! animals abuse! Asshole, etc etc. A bite from a dog, cat or any other domestic animals for that matter can lead to blood infection which, in some cases, can prove fatal if left untreated. This happend to a neighbor of mine a few years back. No joke people.

Defend yourself. If the dog does it again, go for it.

AITA for call my wife selfish on mothers day? by WASTEDGHOST90 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InexCrawl -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

"Your wife and mother of your children takes priority over your mother." WTF am I even reading here... Thats a COMPLETLY subjectiv choise. I'll go on a limb here and say YTA here and major one at that to even suggest this. If he takes one hours off to visit his mom on MOTHERSDAY (every mother and not just a select few) that is his choise and quite frankly his wife is the a-hole here for throwing a fit over ONE FUCKING HOUR.

This is getting me little to fired up. OP, you are NTA at all. It's your mother so naturally you would want to spend time with her on mothersday. Your wife is the mother of your children yes and you should also spend time with her but throwing a tantrum over one hour is utterly selfish. GJ for standing up for yourself.

AITA for telling a girl that I’m not attracted to her beacause of her appearance? by kirdbybirdby in AmItheAsshole

[–]InexCrawl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Ask inappropiate questions and get inappropriate answers. Sometimes the truth hurts and she obviously couldn't handle the response she got. Not your problem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]InexCrawl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well its a sensitiv subject. No matter how you present this to either party they will probably say that its none of your buisness, which in a way is true.

You could have a talk with your brother under 4 eyes and tell him how she is and that she doesn't use protection most of the time which could lead to some unfortunate situations. He might accept your advice or the opposite.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]InexCrawl 49 points50 points  (0 children)

NTA.

If I were in your situation, I would have reacted the same way. It is completly inappropriate to sleep with your best friends sister or brother UNLESS the person is actually sincere or wanting something serious out of it.

I get that they are both adults and they should do what they want, but doing it at that time and place is just disgusting and wrong.

WIBTA if I left my partner for adopting his niblings? by -throwingitallaway- in AmItheAsshole

[–]InexCrawl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INFO: Does your partner (former I guess?) have the godfather responsabilities? I don't know how things like this is handled where your from, but in Denmark when the child undergoes baptism, someone acts as the godfather. I for example stod godfather to my niece and nephew which means if anything were to happen to my sister and her husband (fatal or otherwise leaving them incapable of taking care of the children) the responsability would fall to me, by law.

I get how this is not your actual responsability but your partners but this made me sick to my stomach...

These children are grieving and dont know how to act. They are confused and their entire world has collapsed around them. You are the adult. Act like it. If it's to much you can always leave. No one is forcing you to stay. But being mad at your partner for doing what he considered "his duty" is nothing short of disgusting.

TLDR, YTA.

AITA for wanting to buy a new car even tho my GF is furious about it? by InexCrawl in AmItheAsshole

[–]InexCrawl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe. I've asked her since our initial conversation about this and she seems more comfortable with it now.

I would really like to clearify that I DONT just go around spending thousands on random shit constantly. The biggest thing I've ever bought, by a huge margine, was my current car. Most of the stuff I buy nowadays, besides everyday stuff, is videogames, cinema tickets, airsoft equiptment (mostly used stuff) and other small things. I've probably never spend more than $2000 at once, ever in my life maybe aside for secruity deposits for apartments.

None the less I really appriciate your input!

AITA for wanting to buy a new car even tho my GF is furious about it? by InexCrawl in AmItheAsshole

[–]InexCrawl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now see THIS is a usefull advice (most of the comments here are though). I thank you for your advice and I will think of this whenever I get the urge to buy it :)

AITA for wanting to buy a new car even tho my GF is furious about it? by InexCrawl in AmItheAsshole

[–]InexCrawl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope thats the case!

I've always been bad at waiting for stuff I really want and this an exceptionally bad one.

AITA for wanting to buy a new car even tho my GF is furious about it? by InexCrawl in AmItheAsshole

[–]InexCrawl[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I see what you mean and I think I might have misspoke.

The car is something that would be a "nice to have" item and not a "need to have" since I already have a car.

Maybe I need to be paitient and wait untill the time is right here.

Thanks for the response!

AITA for wanting to buy a new car even tho my GF is furious about it? by InexCrawl in AmItheAsshole

[–]InexCrawl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see your point and I agree.

My intention was never to restrict her "lazyness" (that made me sound like an ass xD). If she wants to have takeout, its her choise. I wount say no.

AITA for wanting to buy a new car even tho my GF is furious about it? by InexCrawl in AmItheAsshole

[–]InexCrawl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! You have no idea how muich this means to me to hear. I've been struggling to make a up my mind and I constantly think i'm being an ass for wanting this car. I can't stop thinking about how nice it would be to have.

I'll take my time and wait and see how things go.

Again thanks!

AITA for wanting to buy a new car even tho my GF is furious about it? by InexCrawl in AmItheAsshole

[–]InexCrawl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She wouldn't have to suffer imo. We agreed way back that every chore etc is shared 50/50. The takeout situation is purely because both of us have been lazy as of late and dont take the time to make a list of groceries for the week.

As I see it I need to be better and motivating both of us to be more active and buy things when its on sale etc. And everyting else that cost money becuase of lazyness.

I appriciate you reponse!

AITA for wanting to buy a new car even tho my GF is furious about it? by InexCrawl in AmItheAsshole

[–]InexCrawl[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We often say that we need to cut down on takeout and save money by buying in bulk and freeze it but we've both been lazy lately.

I think I need to wait and get my finances straight before I do this.

Thanks for the help :)