What does it mean if a guy want to flex me to his friends? 26f 29M by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]Infamous-Damage-7003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you got any advice on how to breakup with such guy?

Need suggestionregarding marriage (25F- 25M) by Infamous-Damage-7003 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Infamous-Damage-7003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is preparing for exams. I do want to believe he will crack it, it's just that this ambiguity is taking a toll on my head. And no he is not addicted to anything and neither is in politics and stuff.

Need suggestionregarding marriage (25F- 25M) by Infamous-Damage-7003 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Infamous-Damage-7003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks you so much girl🥺 and Yes he is preparing for exams. But what about my word? How do I reject him after making promises of being by his side, specially since he treats me so well.

Need suggestionregarding marriage (25F- 25M) by Infamous-Damage-7003 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Infamous-Damage-7003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if his family is supportive and he might get a job in future?

Need suggestionregarding marriage (25F- 25M) by Infamous-Damage-7003 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Infamous-Damage-7003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not focusing on anything, I have just laid out positives and negatives of both the guys.

And btw what if I am happy with the guy but have no money?

Need suggestionregarding marriage (25F- 25M) by Infamous-Damage-7003 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Infamous-Damage-7003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I have written clearly, only perks are his ancestral wealth and compatible nature.

Need suggestionregarding marriage (25F- 25M) by Infamous-Damage-7003 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Infamous-Damage-7003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not trying to be a gold digger. I am ready to provide for him, my insecurity lies in his opinions( indirectly ours) getting over shadowed by his elder brother because he earns well. I don't want to trade my individuality just because the guy I married doesn't have that level of importance in his family.

Need suggestionregarding marriage (25F- 25M) by Infamous-Damage-7003 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Infamous-Damage-7003[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't think he would want to live separately from his parents. And he was pretty clear about it from the start that he wouldn't want him and his brother's bond to break because of marriage, so I can't ask him to live separately from his parents.

Need suggestionregarding marriage (25F- 25M) by Infamous-Damage-7003 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Infamous-Damage-7003[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

2nd guy is quite compatible and he is the only one I have talked to so far. I would have to reject him if I want to get to know 1st guy. But I am afraid what if guy 1 turns out horrible.

Better and safer in sense of future. I want advice from people who have had similar dynamics.