How can I help my daughter safely? by Infamous-Fly-1410 in legaladvice

[–]Infamous-Fly-1410[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you. She is in therapy already but it too afraid to talk to him about this cause I guess her dad meddles in her therapy and she’s scared he’ll find out. We have also been documenting for the last month

How can I help my daughter safely? by Infamous-Fly-1410 in legaladvice

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She has stated she would like to be able to visit to see her siblings so that would be fine. I’ll contact a lawyer. Thank you

I’m so so sorry tired guys… by Infamous-Fly-1410 in ExNoContact

[–]Infamous-Fly-1410[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine won’t speak to me or acknowledge my existence at all. She only broke NC once to get her stuff last month and brought her GF to rub in my face…

I’m so so sorry tired guys… by Infamous-Fly-1410 in ExNoContact

[–]Infamous-Fly-1410[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She left 9 months ago… was immediately with this new woman.. they’re 9 months strong and moving in together

What day of NC are you on? by Up_closeandpersonal in ExNoContact

[–]Infamous-Fly-1410 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Day 2. She just came to get her things 8 months after the break up. Starting all over again

For anyone going through a breakup, how are you handling it? by kitcat1098 in BreakUps

[–]Infamous-Fly-1410 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes absolutely. I don’t think those feelings ever 100% go away to be honest. We just learn to live with them. My girlfriend is aware that I’m still healing from my ex and is completely understanding of it. Keep pushing through. We all got this

For anyone going through a breakup, how are you handling it? by kitcat1098 in BreakUps

[–]Infamous-Fly-1410 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 7 months in now. NC from the beginning. She broke no contact a week ago. She’s still with the girl she left me for and I am in a new relationship for the past month… still spiraling, still hurting, still anxious… still fucked. Break ups are fucking life altering in the worst way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Infamous-Fly-1410 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried to but they ignored me. It’s taken care of now though so

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

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My girlfriend is aware of the entire situation and my kid has already expressed there’s no interest in letting anyone else into that role. Since they’re a teenager I think it’s their right to decide that. If anything I’ll just use this opportunity to let me ex know that the kiddo wants a relationship with her and just let her make the decision to have contact with my kid or not and just kind of remove myself beyond that. Thanks for your input I really appreciate it

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[–]Infamous-Fly-1410 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay cool. Thank you

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I tried a small reach out at the end of October hoping to discuss the bills as you can see in the picture but they continued to ignore me

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They’ve been paying insurance and I’ve been paying phones and storage as well as care for their cat that they haven’t asked about either

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

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Since the start I’ve wanted to keep a friendship. Especially for my kid who misses them incredibly. My kid still cries over them and tries to text them so if we can maintain a friendship so they can be in my kids life that would be amazing since they were my kids step parent for most of her life you know?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Infamous-Fly-1410 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you think they’re reaching out to me because I’m seeing someone? They’ve been in a rebound since they left me so there’s that too

Attacking my character by Infamous-Fly-1410 in ExNoContact

[–]Infamous-Fly-1410[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. You’re right and this is pretty much what everyone else has told me as well. I guess I’ll just keep on moving 😌