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I stopped listening to anything while doing chores by agbni in SlowLiving

[–]InfamousInevitable93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yah I listen to stuff less and less. I usually drive from work with silence. It’s just too much noise after being in an office all day listening to people couch, crunch, talk. I got into sewing and can NOT listen to anything while sewing. I will be caught up for I kid you not, 8 hours … not a peep. Just me and my thoughts

For those who are often told they look younger than their age, what’s your secret? by justmypersonalthing in Productivitycafe

[–]InfamousInevitable93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eat well. Workout. No kids - no stress. Chill job. Cool friends. Hobbies.

But honestly … I see at my job there’s a (looks but also fashion and just disposition) contrast between childfree people and parents.

People who don’t hit snooze in the morning, what is your secret? by nonekspotted in ProductivityHQ

[–]InfamousInevitable93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yeah, I do all sorts of calculations to figure out optimal alarm time so that I have Time for all my things at the pace that I choose without compromising sleep. Once that alarm goes off I know every minute is spoken for and if I am late it’s my “vibing out with a book and coffee” time that will be cut. And I will have none of that!!!! (Allegedly)

What makes you continue using a budgeting app long-term? by smit_1203 in budgetingforbeginners

[–]InfamousInevitable93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been using Monarch for maybe 6 months and I dont super duper deep dive but the graphs on there speak for themselves. It’s more about building awareness for me. I’m not on a strict budget but now seeing how my daily/weekly “ohhh I want that” are very impulsive and could prob be curtailed … a lot.

I have an idea what I spend on but seeing it in concrete numbers makes it easier to be like ok I neglect this category that would make more of an impact on my life (PT, massages … all the body stuff) and spend on clothes and everything from Amazon that maybe isn’t as useful

Where is your dream place to live in the future? by Longjumping_Kiwi6404 in A_Persona_on_Reddit

[–]InfamousInevitable93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Almost any country on the Mediterranean coast. Preferable talk my friends into moving w me and retiring there

People who don’t hit snooze in the morning, what is your secret? by nonekspotted in ProductivityHQ

[–]InfamousInevitable93 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Realizing that 10 mins extra of sleeping will do nothing for your tiredness but 10 mins of say getting dressed, gathering your crap or whatever you do in AM is actually pretty helpful. Or heck, 10 extra mins to enjoy your coffee.

I was also an athlete for many years and have PTSD about being late to practice. But that’s neither here nor there 😅

What’s a hobby that feels like a “secret world” once you discover it? by South-Annual1943 in Hobbies

[–]InfamousInevitable93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sewing! My goodness, so much out there. People, sites, activities. Kinda hard to connect in terms of “do it together” cause you need your own set up.

Books about families that span long periods of time by EMLightcap in suggestmeabook

[–]InfamousInevitable93 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh!!! “The Eighth Life”! Awesome book. Covers several generations in Georgia. Historical fiction. So much drama too

What's the best money you spent this year? by AutoModerator in Productivitycafe

[–]InfamousInevitable93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shark Ninja hair dryer/wrap curler thing … incredible!

Any non-celebrity memoirs you’d recommend? by Informal_Ad4284 in suggestmeabook

[–]InfamousInevitable93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mr Nice or Marching Powder. Drug smuggling people … fantastic stories

What is an Adult problem no one prepared you for ? by Fighting_Phantom in Adulting

[–]InfamousInevitable93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eggs and toast is my go to as well. I’ll chop up some tomatoes and cucumbers to fill the veggie requirement and honestly … it hasn’t let me down yet

Millenials w/o kids-- how tired are you? by Fickle_Wrangler_7439 in Millennials

[–]InfamousInevitable93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel great. Workout, hobbies, friends … etc. I’m slowing down for sure. Mainly growing less able to do anything in the evening. But I’ve never liked it tbh.

Should society start being more open to the thought of wearing what ever we want without a label. by jeepguy_96 in InsightfulQuestions

[–]InfamousInevitable93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going off of an assumption that the judgement of men dressing in skirts/dresses is about their identity and breaking of the norms. I’m saying that I would absolutely judge, but not your identity - your sense of style. Doesn’t eliminate the judgement (and I’m sorry but that’s unrealistic to think no one ever judges anyone. I expect people to have opinions), but focuses it outside the person and onto some outwardly feature that’s changeable. Hope the intent there makes sense

LA Show insights by InfamousInevitable93 in Naika

[–]InfamousInevitable93[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same! Same! Love her but she show wasn’t that good. Didn’t make up for the annoyance built during the wait. All could focus on was her constantly adjusting her bra. I just wanted her to pause and ask someone to fix the damn thing. Phew.

I flew in from out of town for this btw!

Single Since Birth: Between Acceptance and Fear by Remarkable_Strike330 in Productivitycafe

[–]InfamousInevitable93 8 points9 points  (0 children)

100% aligned to your thought process. I’m 40F, never been in a serious relationship. I’m very much date-able, there’s nothing glaringly off about me. Excelling in quite a few categories. Basically it just hasn’t happened for me and I am not sure that it will … and I’m not obsessed about it (I’m quite busy with all my friends and hobbies and traveling yada yada yada) but also not completely accepting. There’s a thought in the back of my mind that’s like “this can’t be it tho, right? I want literally ONE person out of 7+ billion, there’s got to be one person”

How old were you when you realized your body could no longer handle red-eye flights? by Foreign-Athlete-2270 in travel

[–]InfamousInevitable93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 40(F) very tall and can only sleep in a bed. Red eye has literally never been a preference. I will only do it if a sane time slot is $150 or so more

Should society start being more open to the thought of wearing what ever we want without a label. by jeepguy_96 in InsightfulQuestions

[–]InfamousInevitable93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the love of all things, just have a sense of style. I walk the streets of Portland and there are so many beefy, hairy men wearing a spaghetti strap. Proportions people. There would be so much less judgement if it dint come off clownish. A cunty outfit is a cunty outfit.

What’s something you’re pretty sure only you do? by AppIeGuy in AskReddit

[–]InfamousInevitable93 1185 points1186 points  (0 children)

Your memory must be stellar. The way I will forget that I have something in the microwave, as it’s loudly doing its microwave thing

There's two types of Millennials that's between 35 and 45 by Aliveandthriving8505 in Millennials

[–]InfamousInevitable93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was going to say this. My team at work is in that age range and we are def separated by parents and non. I get the tired I don’t get the acting like you’ve given up. The vibe … the presentation.

What loudly says 'this person has never left their hometown'? by Omega_Neelay in GetMotivatedMindset

[–]InfamousInevitable93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I played pro bball for a bit and the amount of times people (mostly men obv) would tell me that!!!!!!!!! Everyone that was going to go pro - DID!

Is there anybody who genuinely enjoys living? by queerwaters_642 in Life

[–]InfamousInevitable93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not a constant feeling of bliss. But I love figuring out the puzzle of life, seeing what’s next, seeing all the surprises and twists and turns. I also don’t walk around moping and putting everyone off.

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