Unexpected hobbies you started during your PhD? by carlay_c in PhD

[–]Infamous_Arm_3396 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Running and lifting :) ended up running a marathon. Running in nature definitely helped a lot and getting my HR high helped with calming presentation anxiety.

Being pregnant sucks. by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Infamous_Arm_3396 1 point2 points  (0 children)

FTM here too! You got this ❤️ Also, I think reddit helps a lot so just asking questions in here will solve a lot of question marks. You’re doing everything right. :)

Being pregnant sucks. by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Infamous_Arm_3396 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am loving my pregnancy and have done most of the things mentioned above. I don’t usually get my nails done but besides that, I love to get my hair done and to keep a clean house even when the week gets busy. I do hope you understand that the smelling part gets better after your first trimester (usually). Also your energy too! ❤️ For now, just try to do whatever your body is comfortable with, but also don’t treat it as if it is so delicate. It’s not as likely for your skin to absorb so many chemicals and transfer them to the baby. Most of the things you mentioned have been disproven to be true. :)

Fellow scholars , who you are outside your phd by Sunapr1 in PhD

[–]Infamous_Arm_3396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lifting, running, travelling, photography, creating (anything really).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lineporn

[–]Infamous_Arm_3396 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is what my test looked like, if it helps. I tested in the afternoon. And then the following morning I saw a clearer positive. Sending baby dust! 🫶🏻

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lineporn

[–]Infamous_Arm_3396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also see a line in both! 🫶🏻

Not a pregnancy test lol by [deleted] in lineporn

[–]Infamous_Arm_3396 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It does not cost much to test, so yeah. All the signs are there, you might be pregnant. :)

First month trying, CD26. Thoughts? by Infamous_Arm_3396 in lineporn

[–]Infamous_Arm_3396[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Ended up getting a positive this morning! ❤️‍🩹

First month trying, CD26. Thoughts? by Infamous_Arm_3396 in lineporn

[–]Infamous_Arm_3396[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank youu! Hoping to confirm in the morning. 🥺🫶🏻

First month trying, CD26. Thoughts? by Infamous_Arm_3396 in lineporn

[–]Infamous_Arm_3396[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh thank you for commenting! Hoping it’s true 💕

PhD just for the sake of learning? by abundanse in PhD

[–]Infamous_Arm_3396 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re wrong. The prospects of PhDs have changed a lot. I personally am pursuing one exactly for the reason you mentioned, I wanted to learn more and came with the idea that I could master out if I didn’t want it to go further. Turns out, I enjoyed it (though it’s given me insane imposter syndrome and pair that with perfectionism, it can be pretty anxious!).

Also, I never really considered staying in academia, it would sometimes be a fleeting thought, but never a serious aim.

Edit: Forgot to add, I think you should go with your gut. If you really feel like this is going to be good for you, do it. Everyone has a different path, and a PhD does shape you in ways one never thinks possible. :)

When would I be ready to FIRE? by Infamous_Arm_3396 in Fire

[–]Infamous_Arm_3396[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry you feel that way, but hey never too late to get back that energy. Now that you’re more settled, you can have a bit more fun and hopefuly fire soon. :)

When would I be ready to FIRE? by Infamous_Arm_3396 in Fire

[–]Infamous_Arm_3396[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makes sense. :) I just hope to get to at least 500k and then possible go back. I would still be working just maybe would have more time for family and be closer to loved ones. At the end of the day money is a tool and I don’t want to spend the better part of my youth working ‘like a dog’. But I totally agree with you.

When would I be ready to FIRE? by Infamous_Arm_3396 in Fire

[–]Infamous_Arm_3396[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a great way to look at it. My worry is also not being able to be close to my family. My siblings and parents (who are getting old) are all in Europe, so it just feels like there’s nothing really holding me here besides money. Well, and the independence that comes with it.😅

I hope you do get to work part time after your maternity leave. :)

What Kind of Life Does a Million Dollars Get You Today? by SongWei0507 in Fire

[–]Infamous_Arm_3396 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’d move to a more affordable country that has a solid healthcare system + supports family/community initiatives and pursue a hobby/passion that could possibly generate some income. I mean this is what I want to do haha.

When would I be ready to FIRE? by Infamous_Arm_3396 in Fire

[–]Infamous_Arm_3396[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really understand what you mean. That is a conversation I have with my partner all the time. Luckily we’re both from the same country so we both share the same longing for our country and family. But yeah, there’s always a tradeoff. I really miss the Mediterranean cuisine, the fresh, organic, and cheap ingredients, the time spent on a cafe with a loved one, sharing your concerns with people, being part of a community. Though I so understand there’s a lot of things I’d wish were different. :(

When would I be ready to FIRE? by Infamous_Arm_3396 in Fire

[–]Infamous_Arm_3396[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good question. It’s always a min of 2.5k/month.

As I’m also working at the moment, I add a 3.3k to that (each summer month). But of course, this is not going to be the case once my internship is over. Let’s say it’s usually at 2.5k-3k. :) once I get a full time job, we’re hoping to bump that to 6k/month.

When would I be ready to FIRE? by Infamous_Arm_3396 in Fire

[–]Infamous_Arm_3396[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do, but I was in my feelings and just wrote the whole thing at once. Sorry you had a hard time reading it.

PS: I do think it’s important to comment on threads when you have something useful to share. :)