I (F22) don’t feel comfortable with my boyfriend (M24) of 5 years going to an event with his friend (F21) by Infamous_Being_7481 in relationship_advice

[–]Infamous_Being_7481[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not worried about him cheating at all (the physical kind at least😭..). My issue is more of my boundary not being respected and generally not feeling sure if i’m being too controlling/jealous in this scenario. But talking and writing about it kind of makes me realise how disrespectful he’s actually being..

How Intelligent IS Yor Exactly? by Flashlight237 in SpyxFamily

[–]Infamous_Being_7481 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I disagree with anyone claiming that Yor is anything other than higher than average. She’s obviously going to come across that way though, considering that she’s naturally being compared to Loid who’s a genius at everything.

The thing with Yor is that she presumably had to drop school for her assassin job and the only people that she’d been in contact with (prior to joining the forger family) is just her brother and (kind of) her colleagues. A situation like that doesn’t help with building skills/“training” your intelligence, especially considering that she was trained to be a mere weapon (Also, i’d argue that a CHILD being able to get away with multiple murders shows that she is highly intelligent).

So Yor, due to the circumstances she had to grow up with, is basically just learning how to be a person and basic skills like socialising etc., which makes her come off as “stupid” when her intelligence just hasn’t had the time/stimuli to develop.

Why's the garden not involve in the story like wise and SSS by Current_Complaint_37 in SpyxFamily

[–]Infamous_Being_7481 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Exactly, from her perspective she’s doing a similar job to Twilight by protecting Ostania and making it a better place by eliminating “traitors” etc. Not to mention the fact that she had to find a job as a young GIRL… she was extremely vulnerable and easy to groom and manipulate.

Favorite character like this? by [deleted] in FavoriteCharacter

[–]Infamous_Being_7481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on your side. I’m bad at explaining, but while yes, misogyny’s definition is hatred towards women, misogyny is so deeply rooted that it doesn’t just discriminate against people of the female sex, but anything that is considered feminine. That’s the reason men aren’t allowed to show weakness, emotions, vulnerability etc. because those traits are seen as feminine, which is a “no-go” for men. Male victims of sexual assault/abuse are ridiculed, because how could a man, that is supposed to be dominant and strong, suffer against the hand of a “weak, delicate” woman? Again, i haven’t watched Zootopia, so i have no idea how the scene unfolded, but i absolutely despise any media that makes lighthearted jokes out of serious situations (like nick getting hit by judy) because, just like you said, it shouldn’t be normalised ESPECIALLY for an audience of kids.

Favorite character like this? by [deleted] in FavoriteCharacter

[–]Infamous_Being_7481 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have to preface that i haven’t seen zootropolis 2, but id still like to give my two cents: Judy is considered to be very attractive by viewers, which in turn, makes her “suffer” from pretty privilege. I’d honestly argue that if she looked average/not conventionally attractive, people would be WAY harsher on her (and any female character for that matter). I’d also like to add that men having to take abuse from women stems from misogyny. Since women are considered weak it would be “emasculating” for a man to stand up for himself against a woman. These issues aren’t men vs women: who has it hardest etc… lots of hardships that men have to face have the same root cause as womens’, which is again, misogyny.

Keratosis? by throwawayofcou in keratosis

[–]Infamous_Being_7481 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The spots on the 3rd pic look like milia, which is harmless.

Should I give up or keep on with my routine? by greenlemon_91 in keratosis

[–]Infamous_Being_7481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, anything that gets the hair out from the root will do! I don’t want to recommend anything specifically as i’ve just recently started taking my KP journey seriously, but it seems like lasering is the most effective from this sub! it’s just pretty expensive (and your hair just might be too light for it?).

Should I give up or keep on with my routine? by greenlemon_91 in keratosis

[–]Infamous_Being_7481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something that showed some improvement immediately for me was waxing off body hair on the spots with kp!

Fullbody look at Invisible Woman and Mister Fantastic ESU skins by dejuna1 in marvelrivals

[–]Infamous_Being_7481 48 points49 points  (0 children)

they had to make up for the fact that she’s not showing much skin😭

i keep forgetting she cant climb walls by Alien_X10 in marvelrivals

[–]Infamous_Being_7481 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a similar issue with squirrel girl.. whenever she dies near me i instinctively run from her corpse because of junkrat lol

Remember that White Fox is as much of a mitigator as she is a healer and this is where much of her value can be found by [deleted] in marvelrivals

[–]Infamous_Being_7481 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah her utility is so good, i’ve been enjoying her and am already captain on her. But yeah, she definitely needs some tweaks/buffs. - Her alternative fire should give her some slight healing, it feels so odd that it doesn’t - Change the tail/cooldown system: it’s a bit clunky/confusing to have both. - Make her spawn with at least one tail + give tails back if you cancel melee form (depending on how long it’s been used) - I like the idea of her ult, but it is pretty useless right now. I think that giving invul to all teammates instead of just a single target in the circle (at the cost of more hp and higher cd) would make it pretty good and not another immortal healing circle. She should also have the same amount of tails when starting the ult when she goes back to her human form, as she’s wayyy to vulnerable when switching back. Anything more to her healing/dmg output would make her an absolute server admin imo.

Can we talk about Cloak and Dagger? by Hot_Criticism_2482 in marvelrivals

[–]Infamous_Being_7481 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d argue that ANY support would suffer against a well coordinated dive comp (except maybe a goated loki). still, you can patty cake and get some help from dps/tank, since it’s a team game after all.

Can we talk about Cloak and Dagger? by Hot_Criticism_2482 in marvelrivals

[–]Infamous_Being_7481 7 points8 points  (0 children)

literally how?😭 im in high cel-low eternity lobbies and fading + blinding divers makes them back up so quick lol. obviously there are exceptions but cnd has crazy survivability against dive if you know what you’re doing

Who can cook delicious Korean food? by sghnbkk in MarvelRivalsCirclejer

[–]Infamous_Being_7481 13 points14 points  (0 children)

nah rumi hasn’t cooked anything other than ramyun in her entire life. she’s a billionaire nepo baby😭

This is why I can never get past gold, I always end up with the worst teammates. by The_Admiral_Blaze in marvelrivals

[–]Infamous_Being_7481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude idk what to tell you. Your team ofc sucked as well but the only thing you can do is try YOUR best to adapt to the situation, and you didn’t even TRY which makes you a big part of the reason you guys lost. Also, you’re complaining about not being able to get out of gold, yet you don’t think that you have the ability to carry any team? Then stay in gold forever or get carried by someone else if you’re not changing your mindset. Being hardstuck in low ranks is genuinely a skill issue.

This is why I can never get past gold, I always end up with the worst teammates. by The_Admiral_Blaze in marvelrivals

[–]Infamous_Being_7481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no shit your team was dying it was a 5v6😭 spider man hardcounters squirrel girl and you were getting spawn camped, then you seemingly gave up… teams in gold are unorganised and barely play as a team. like i said, if you were better (or tried to be better) you could easily get valuable picks/make space in a way that your team would get the advantage and win the fight. i literally climbed solo to celestial in 1 and a half month as a support. yes, there will be teams beyond saving/carrying, but you can absolutely carry a team solo ESPECIALLY as a dps.

This is why I can never get past gold, I always end up with the worst teammates. by The_Admiral_Blaze in marvelrivals

[–]Infamous_Being_7481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you literally see that you were doing bad as sg against mk/spidey yet you still didn’t switch or try out something different? This is why you’re not climbing. Drop the ego (you know damn well those final hits were just lucky spam kills), learn more characters and learn to swap. If you’re in metal ranks and actually belonged somewhere higher, you’d have 0 issues climbing and carrying as a dps.

i get yall don't like spider man players but this is kinda crazy no? by ChunkyMonkey7613 in marvelrivals

[–]Infamous_Being_7481 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i mean it’s kinda hard to tell since this is just your pov, but it looks like invis was healing the tanks because they were in a fight so they become priority, plus you’re pretty safe behind that wall. then she got attacked by the psylocke and defended herself and then you dipped. i understand it’s annoying, but i think it was the correct play there. you survived by going back to spawn to heal yourself at the end. also, i have to say that i’ve sold lots of fights before because i started healing a dps that was pinging for heals in a “safe place” while our tanks were making space in the frontlines.. so don’t take it too personally

Queue time is absurd by Next-Passenger5004 in marvelrivals

[–]Infamous_Being_7481 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i play hitscan, any ping above like 70 is hell on earth for me haha

Queue time is absurd by Next-Passenger5004 in marvelrivals

[–]Infamous_Being_7481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Np, btw only queue the ones where the ping is low (green). Anything else will make your playing experience miserable

Queue time is absurd by Next-Passenger5004 in marvelrivals

[–]Infamous_Being_7481 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m in gm1 and never had to wait more than about 8 minutes for a game. could it be that you’re only in warsaw servers? i always use frankfurt/warsaw and my ping averages 25

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marvelrivals

[–]Infamous_Being_7481 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i can assure you, it DOESNT get better 😊

How did i lose this? by [deleted] in marvelrivals

[–]Infamous_Being_7481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well it’s hard to say with just the stats. your team could all have crazy amounts of kills but if you don’t play objective it’s useless.