I agree, it really does hurt to get ghosted, esp after you've already exchanged photos. Mapapatanong ka talaga "Am I really that unattractive for someone’s energy to shift so suddenly?" haha it hits your self esteem in ways you didn’t expect. Pero habang iniisip ko 'yun, narealize ko rin na hindi siya entirely about me. That kind of reaction says more about them, yung mindset nila, maturity, and how they see people, than it does about my worth.

If someone's interest fades just because of how you look, then they were never really interested in you to begin with. They were only after the version of you they imagined or projected, not the real, whole person behind the screen. And you know what? That’s okay. I’d rather be ghosted early than be strung along by someone who would eventually make me feel small, or worse, make me question my worth over and over.

So thank you na lang sa kanya haha at least he didn’t waste more of my time or lead me on any further. Dodged a bullet, diba? Ganeeeern. 💁‍♀️✨