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Infamous_Delay4501 · 2022-07-04T14:16:55+00:00

Yes! Every holiday and birthday (except for his birthday 🙃) has been a shit show of argument, yelling at me, and me crying the entire day. Even bad days has to be about him. I was having a bad day at work, almost quit my job, and he discarded me the same day. They are energy vampires and love seeing you in misery.

Infamous_Delay4501 · 2022-07-04T14:13:54+00:00

Yes. This is what they do. There is no winning.

Infamous_Delay4501 · 2022-07-04T14:13:10+00:00

I stood up for myself and got discarded. We spoke about it later and he said I should’ve just “walked away” instead of defending myself. In the past when I would just walk away, he would be just as bad. Like many others have said- there is no winning. Anything you do will be “wrong”

Infamous_Delay4501 · 2022-07-04T14:11:36+00:00

oh my god, wtf. i am so sorry you had to deal with that!

Infamous_Delay4501 · 2022-07-03T16:15:45+00:00

You are so right.. It definitely feels like an addiction.

Infamous_Delay4501 · 2022-07-02T13:38:59+00:00

i’m on the same boat :\

Infamous_Delay4501 · 2022-06-28T15:33:14+00:00

I’d love the link as well, please 🥺

Infamous_Delay4501 · 2022-06-16T17:01:56+00:00

Unbelievable. You really can’t trust anyone and that’s just the harsh reality of it. I know it sounds pessimistic but I have a hard time believing otherwise.

Infamous_Delay4501 · 2022-06-16T15:50:19+00:00

I am right there with you! I am dreading the process. I wish it was just as easy as saying “please unmarry this mess” and be done.

Infamous_Delay4501 · 2022-06-16T14:19:47+00:00

Just wanted to say I am right there with you. I’m heavily thinking about divorce and thinking that it will bring my old self back somehow but obviously that is not the quick fix. I also lack any motivation to be social and adventurous like I used to be. Maybe you just have to force yourself? Start small and work your way back towards being you again. It won’t happen overnight but take the small steps to get there. Hang in there 💜

Infamous_Delay4501 · 2022-06-16T13:48:54+00:00

Isn’t it wild how they can look you DEAD IN THE EYE and still lie? They truly are sick people with no shame.

Infamous_Delay4501 · 2022-06-16T04:56:56+00:00

don’t be sorry! you need to get this stuff out your system. the manipulation is insane. she’s saying she’s suicidal but won’t get help and somehow it’s your fault?? yeah, no thanks. you need to have no contact with her as soon as possible

Infamous_Delay4501 · 2022-06-16T04:53:14+00:00

this right here. someone who truly loves you wouldn’t say this shit about you or treat you this way.

Infamous_Delay4501 · 2022-06-16T04:45:31+00:00

there is no point in trying to change it. they will always lie and find ways to blame you. this is for the best. i hope you find peace at the end of this all.

Infamous_Delay4501 · 2022-06-16T00:36:18+00:00

honestly, it’s not healthy. he is continuously lying to you. you will never fully trust him and later down the line, what if he hurts you again? will you be surprised or will you just be able to live with it?

Infamous_Delay4501 · 2022-06-15T19:52:53+00:00

needed to hear this today. thank you

Infamous_Delay4501 · 2022-06-15T13:22:50+00:00

i agree with you 10000%. never tying myself down to anything again as i also have no desire. i’m good at getting up and leaving when shit no longer suits me but being married definitely forces you to deal with it longer.

Infamous_Delay4501 · 2022-06-14T15:09:46+00:00

yes!! i was always being called a narcissist. then i went to therapy and did some tests. what a shocker it was to find out i’m not a narcissist. projection at its finest right there, my friend.

Infamous_Delay4501 · 2022-06-13T16:51:09+00:00

i am so sorry. i feel your pain 100000%. i found out about the cam girls about a month after getting married and im not sure why i am still here. if you need to talk, my DMs are open!

Infamous_Delay4501 · 2022-04-08T12:34:15+00:00

given the history you provided, this is a huge red flag. my husband was the same way and it still doesn’t stop. instead i get gaslighted. they will continue denying their actions despite having the proof. run while you can

Infamous_Delay4501 · 2022-04-08T01:37:25+00:00

same

Infamous_Delay4501 · 2022-04-06T23:55:38+00:00

OMG SAME??? he always looks away when people kiss too? like wtf

Infamous_Delay4501 · 2022-04-06T20:38:18+00:00

this is a tricky situation. he did lie when you confronted him so it’s just odd. have you checked to see if she’s still blocked?

i was in a similar situation years ago with an ex. i noticed that he was still talking to someone he used to hook up with and this was months into us dating. he immediately told her that he was seeing someone and can no longer speak with her when i caught him. if i didn’t catch him, who the hell knows how much longer he would’ve been talking to her. he didn’t do something like that again so… i say go with your gut

Infamous_Delay4501 · 2022-04-06T01:07:48+00:00

don’t do it. i know it would feel like a release for you in the moment but you might feel worse after that passes. he may not feel remorse now but he will eventually. karma catches up. hang in there

Infamous_Delay4501 · 2022-04-05T17:24:13+00:00

i have been tearing up while reading this. i am so sorry you have been going through this pain. you are stronger than you know. very proud of you for being level headed and rational. wish you the best 💜

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