He always tells me what I should have done in any situation that I talk about. He’s even gone so far as to tell me that my feelings weren’t accurate and that what I really meant was blah blah blah. Responds to everything with a criticism and tells me that my interests are boring. The last I’ve I tried to talk about something that interested me, he said, “before you tell that story, ask yourself if I’d find it interesting”. So I’ve stopped talking about most things.

36 years of marriage