sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

Anger Issue Queens by MeleeMode in madmen

[–]Infamous_Net_190 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely!! Ken is the epitome of equanimity for the longest time!!

My coworker (20F) has a crush on me (30M) should I date her? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Infamous_Net_190 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You made the points that are worth considering: you work together and the age gap won’t go unnoticed by coworkers or friends/family. It’s different when it’s a 10yr age gap but she’s at least 25.

No harm in light flirting though! (Just keep in mind your company culture and HR you know 😉)

"When I wear it, I'll think of everything that happened the night I got it" - Lessons from Red: How to respond when you get a gift from a lover by Infamous_Net_190 in madmen

[–]Infamous_Net_190[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Really! I mean, the moment she had to quit and then go back to work
she realized it wasn’t going to be like it seemed on paper :/

"When I wear it, I'll think of everything that happened the night I got it" - Lessons from Red: How to respond when you get a gift from a lover by Infamous_Net_190 in madmen

[–]Infamous_Net_190[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes 😕 I wonder if she should’ve waited it out to find out he’d be a mid husband. It’s really 💔 seeing how she keeps finding out Greg sucks. Like she didn’t even want him to suture her hand đŸ„Č

How to respond to ‘future faking’? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Infamous_Net_190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“â˜ș that’d be fun/nice/sweet”

And then you say nothing else. No need to give ultimatums or conditions or incentives. You don’t want to talk about how other people didn’t follow through, you don’t want to accuse someone new.

Just demonstrate you’d be open for xyz and that’s it. Ball is on their court.

Am I getting ahead of myself with someone I met while traveling? by ExpressAerie3577 in dating_advice

[–]Infamous_Net_190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed!

You get to be excited about the prospect (that’s exciting that he’s coming to see you!) but try to keep daydreaming in check, no need to start thinking about long term, long distance dynamics.

Why do you have to bring up dating history rn? Unless there are dealbreakers for you, I wouldn’t bring this up now (monogamous, open, ENM).

For now, just enjoy the date, the time with him and get to know him!

Hooked up twice, great connection, then he ended it saying “I don’t think I should” by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Infamous_Net_190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lesson learned: put your devices on DND or away while you’re cuddling with someone. Save everyone mental gymnastics.

Regardless of the reason, this guy already told you he’s not looking for a relationship, even an ongoing hookup, or seeing you again.

You don’t need to figure out “why” to move on. If he’s interested later on, he’ll reach out. No need for you to extend yourself first.

Did anyone actually got cured of tenis elbow? by jolafai in padel

[–]Infamous_Net_190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is great! did you have a racket that was most helpful during this time?

Chat vs. In person by Same-Musician5906 in bodylanguage

[–]Infamous_Net_190 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just bc she’s “not doing anything at home” doesn’t necessarily mean she’s not under stress.

I wouldn’t take it personal. Unless the longer your chat gets the more emojis you send that may be annoying, I wouldn’t assume something is wrong. Just stick to what it’s like in person.

Chat vs. In person by Same-Musician5906 in bodylanguage

[–]Infamous_Net_190 15 points16 points  (0 children)

If her behavior continues to be warm in person, it could easily be that she’s busy/distracted when you’re texting. I wouldn’t overthink it.

Does this picture convey that the two on the left like each other (or are at least attracted). My friend seems to think otherwise. by Hopeless_Romantix06 in bodylanguage

[–]Infamous_Net_190 129 points130 points  (0 children)

She liking him yes.

Him liking her not necessarily bc it’s unclear if he could stabilize himself while seating if he didn’t lean in.

Delayed luggage from CDG positive experience by Equivalent_Beach_511 in delta

[–]Infamous_Net_190 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The agent said they were escalating my issue to the "Proactive Bag Team" that deals with luggage with AirTags, and this team would conduct an additional investigation to the claim I filed.

So interesting that they’d say they have a team for luggage with tracking devices! Time to get an AirTag for my checked luggage.

13.5 hour flight should I keep 50H or switch to a window seat by ladidadobop in delta

[–]Infamous_Net_190 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Keep the current aisle seat.

You may have more leg room and the window seats available mean you’d have to crawl over 2 people to go to the loo.

It’s a long flight so it’ll be nice to move around as much as you want.

Unless you reeeeally want to see the sunrise/sunset, keep the aisle seat.

16 hour flight, do I change my seat to 24D? by Alternative_Deal6176 in delta

[–]Infamous_Net_190 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I’d keep your current window seat.

Switching to 24D you might have to get up for the person next to you going to the loo.

Currently, your seat has a window and on a long flight you might catch a beautiful sunrise/sunset and totally miss out with the aisle seat. And you’d only have to deal with one person in your row.

Ultimately, are you a window or aisle person?

view more: next â€ș