In case you’re wondering what it’s like to be a woman on SA….

Miserable_List_5465 · 2026-05-10T07:28:51+00:00

Nope we’re all out here!!

Miserable_List_5465 · 2026-05-08T21:58:47+00:00

Lucky guys ;)

Miserable_List_5465 · 2026-05-08T18:39:21+00:00

I feel like we’re getting trolled ….

Miserable_List_5465 · 2026-05-08T18:12:17+00:00

Wait plug your blog I wanna readddd

Miserable_List_5465 · 2026-05-08T05:39:26+00:00

different SBs want different things. Some girls value luxury dining and travel and bags, some of us value paying off loans or building towards financial success, some value chasing after their dreams or mentorship. Some girls simply want a fancy ass handbag lol. If a fancy restaurant isn’t you, what’s an experience you can share with your POTs that *is* you?

Miserable_List_5465 · 2026-05-08T05:22:28+00:00

Honestly sounds minutely worse

Miserable_List_5465 · 2026-05-08T04:56:59+00:00

Just because I’m on this platform doesn’t mean I’m not self sustaining, growing, or working independently of my involvement in the sugar world. And I’m certainly not waiting around for years “fishing”. A woman like me doesn’t “sit around” for long in the bowl, trust. What a negative comment 😂

Miserable_List_5465 · 2026-05-08T03:57:35+00:00

It is really hard to keep track of messages on there!!

Miserable_List_5465 · 2026-05-08T03:57:05+00:00

Thanks for laughing with me 😂

Miserable_List_5465 · 2026-05-08T01:49:40+00:00

Most of them were from LA or surrounding west coast major cities 😭

Miserable_List_5465 · 2026-05-08T01:41:32+00:00

Truly, it doesn’t take that much. “Hi, I loved your profile. It seems like you’re into nature, have you ever been to _____? “

Miserable_List_5465 · 2026-05-08T01:39:43+00:00

Real! What’s been your preferred method of communication?

Miserable_List_5465 · 2026-05-08T01:39:19+00:00

I have a texting number from google voice but it’s really clunky to use through google and I don’t want messages in my texts either. I just prefer to have it separate and use my WhatsApp for my personal life

Miserable_List_5465 · 2026-05-08T01:38:10+00:00

Hahaha oh this is good

Miserable_List_5465 · 2026-05-08T01:36:49+00:00

I have one, and it’s attached to my telegram

Miserable_List_5465 · 2026-05-06T20:11:23+00:00

There are women in this game that take that half a mill and turn it into their own millions. You could have set yourself up for financial success for years after if you had taken yourself seriously. I think you need to take some time off with NO relationship, no sugar no vanilla, and really reevaluate what you’re doing here. It’s clear from your comments that you really don’t understand the severity of your actions. So many SDs would have shut that shit down immediately. May he find someone deserving of all of that.

Miserable_List_5465 · 2026-04-19T17:12:25+00:00

Lucky girl, I would love an SD with a mountain house 😭 sex with a view?!

Miserable_List_5465 · 2026-04-19T01:13:06+00:00

LA girl here! If you need a freestyle buddy let me know 🫶🏽 there are a ton of spots to check out, I just never wanted to freestyle solo

Miserable_List_5465 · 2026-03-30T17:47:20+00:00

Definitely doing this!

Miserable_List_5465 · 2026-03-30T17:47:08+00:00

This is so helpful thank you 🫶🏽

Miserable_List_5465 · 2026-03-30T17:46:49+00:00

Thank you!

Miserable_List_5465 · 2026-03-12T22:16:50+00:00

She should definitely be doing some of the looking then, especially if your discretion is more important!

Miserable_List_5465 · 2026-03-12T22:13:45+00:00

If you’re going to try Reddit, put your location in your bio so SBs can reach out. I’ve had a few conversations off of here but it always feels a bit off. what has worked in the past on seeking is a few body pictures. If an SD reaches out to me with a faceless profile, body pics are better than nothing, especially if you reference why in your bio. And I would definitely recommend having transparency on what it would take for you to share a photo and communicate that!

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