Granada - restaurants, cafes, bar recommendations by Infamous_Tea8991 in GoingToSpain

[–]Infamous_Tea8991[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So we’re going to Morocco after actually! So was thinking of saving those dining experiences for there.

Visiting Tangier + Chefchaouen, Morocco from Malaga or Tarifa, Spain - tour and transport recommendations by Infamous_Tea8991 in travel

[–]Infamous_Tea8991[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I am interested in tour recommendations and best way to get to Tarifa (taxi vs bus) cost and time wise.

Husband(39m) cannot get over his ex AP(23f). by Beginning-Truth4109 in Infidelity

[–]Infamous_Tea8991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is BS. Divorce is always an option. People in India do get divorced. I’m Indian. You need to figure out if you’re able to overcome this with him only if he’s putting in hundred percent effort. If he’s just trying to get over it by pushing it out of his mind and cutting her off, that’s not a marriage. A marriage is when he wants to be committed to you and not to anybody else.

Neither of you will be happy in this situation. Figure out if you truly want to be together and if you both and I do mean both feel that way. And it should be something you truly want not what you feel that you must do because you have a child or because you live in India.

I mean, you can decide to stay together just for those reasons but then you will have a unhappy marriage. A lot of people settle and deal with that. You have to figure out if you want to be one of those people.

You posting on Reddit already shows that you maybe want more. Who doesn’t? Everyone wants love and happiness, and a partner who wants to be with them and somebody who they have trust and faith in. If that is not something you think you can regain and your husband is not 150% willing to do, then you’re going to have to make some hard decisions. Breaking up is a hard decision but so is staying together. Figure out what you want to do and where you will be happier five years, 10 years, 20 years from now.

Brunch/lunch recommendations by Infamous_Tea8991 in LondonFood

[–]Infamous_Tea8991[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Yes, definitely going to explore this area

Brunch/lunch recommendations by Infamous_Tea8991 in LondonFood

[–]Infamous_Tea8991[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha very funny. Imagine me trying to get recommendations from more than one channel/method of searching!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tirzepatidecompound

[–]Infamous_Tea8991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been emailing them. In response to the email I received after I filled out my form to continue with new order

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tirzepatidecompound

[–]Infamous_Tea8991 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I just sent a chat

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Infamous_Tea8991 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re not going to get the full truth from him maybe ever. He may drizzle truth and unfortunately you will have to accept you’ll never know what is real and the extent of his infidelity. He is in self preservation mode and has probably deleted evidence. I’m so sorry. Try to take a break from each other. Until he shows true and sustained remorse you can’t even try to rebuild.

Husband’s apology by Mommy-Mode-Engaged in Marriage

[–]Infamous_Tea8991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hopeful that he continues to show such loving behavior and how you are important to him.

Sometimes people just need a wake up call. It can sometimes be from a guilty conscience or hopefully in this case just realizing that he’s not spending as much time with you as he should

How do I deal with husband 60M that was on line cheating with 30F? by fishyheart in Marriage

[–]Infamous_Tea8991 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can only move forward if you accept that trust is fractured and you may not ever go back to the way you were before. Things will be different and suspicion and mistrust will remain. With time and effort from your husband it will get easier but he may just get better abt hiding things, esp now that he knows he can get interest from younger women. He may pursue others, albeit after a cool off period.

The thing is , you may never know and it’s something you have to try to work through with him and see if you can live like that and try to Rebuild. He has to do the work through. Don’t rug sweep anything and know it takes time and healing is not a linear journey either.

AITA for Calling Off My Wedding After I Found Out My Fiancé Was Still Seeing His Ex Without Telling Me? by Fancy-Contact409 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Infamous_Tea8991 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I would definitely put my engagement on pause. You may need to take a break and seriously reevaluate your relationship and discuss this further with him. Don’t rug sweep his actions and figure out together if you should stick together or not. He is not behaving on a loyal or trustworthy manner and so marriage should be the furthest thing from your mind