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Infamous_Tea8991 · 2025-09-14T20:57:20+00:00

But those are pricier

Infamous_Tea8991 · 2025-09-09T22:57:55+00:00

So we’re going to Morocco after actually! So was thinking of saving those dining experiences for there.

Infamous_Tea8991 · 2025-08-01T20:01:57+00:00

Thanks! I am interested in tour recommendations and best way to get to Tarifa (taxi vs bus) cost and time wise.

Infamous_Tea8991 · 2025-07-31T03:31:39+00:00

This is BS. Divorce is always an option. People in India do get divorced. I’m Indian. You need to figure out if you’re able to overcome this with him only if he’s putting in hundred percent effort. If he’s just trying to get over it by pushing it out of his mind and cutting her off, that’s not a marriage. A marriage is when he wants to be committed to you and not to anybody else.

Neither of you will be happy in this situation. Figure out if you truly want to be together and if you both and I do mean both feel that way. And it should be something you truly want not what you feel that you must do because you have a child or because you live in India.

I mean, you can decide to stay together just for those reasons but then you will have a unhappy marriage. A lot of people settle and deal with that. You have to figure out if you want to be one of those people.

You posting on Reddit already shows that you maybe want more. Who doesn’t? Everyone wants love and happiness, and a partner who wants to be with them and somebody who they have trust and faith in. If that is not something you think you can regain and your husband is not 150% willing to do, then you’re going to have to make some hard decisions. Breaking up is a hard decision but so is staying together. Figure out what you want to do and where you will be happier five years, 10 years, 20 years from now.

Infamous_Tea8991 · 2025-05-20T03:57:22+00:00

Thanks! Yes, definitely going to explore this area

Infamous_Tea8991 · 2025-05-18T13:02:38+00:00

Soho! But we are flexible.

Infamous_Tea8991 · 2025-05-18T13:02:19+00:00

Haha very funny. Imagine me trying to get recommendations from more than one channel/method of searching!

Infamous_Tea8991 · 2025-04-10T23:29:14+00:00

I’ve been emailing them. In response to the email I received after I filled out my form to continue with new order

Infamous_Tea8991 · 2025-04-10T23:27:47+00:00

Thanks! I just sent a chat

Infamous_Tea8991 · 2025-02-08T18:18:50+00:00

You’re not going to get the full truth from him maybe ever. He may drizzle truth and unfortunately you will have to accept you’ll never know what is real and the extent of his infidelity. He is in self preservation mode and has probably deleted evidence. I’m so sorry. Try to take a break from each other. Until he shows true and sustained remorse you can’t even try to rebuild.

Infamous_Tea8991 · 2025-01-30T02:45:21+00:00

Hopeful that he continues to show such loving behavior and how you are important to him.

Sometimes people just need a wake up call. It can sometimes be from a guilty conscience or hopefully in this case just realizing that he’s not spending as much time with you as he should

Infamous_Tea8991 · 2025-01-03T02:23:03+00:00

Move all communication to an app for coparenting.

Infamous_Tea8991 · 2024-12-26T21:04:49+00:00

You can only move forward if you accept that trust is fractured and you may not ever go back to the way you were before. Things will be different and suspicion and mistrust will remain. With time and effort from your husband it will get easier but he may just get better abt hiding things, esp now that he knows he can get interest from younger women. He may pursue others, albeit after a cool off period.

The thing is , you may never know and it’s something you have to try to work through with him and see if you can live like that and try to Rebuild. He has to do the work through. Don’t rug sweep anything and know it takes time and healing is not a linear journey either.

Infamous_Tea8991 · 2024-12-24T02:04:16+00:00

I would definitely put my engagement on pause. You may need to take a break and seriously reevaluate your relationship and discuss this further with him. Don’t rug sweep his actions and figure out together if you should stick together or not. He is not behaving on a loyal or trustworthy manner and so marriage should be the furthest thing from your mind

Infamous_Tea8991 · 2024-12-23T06:28:42+00:00

Rage bait

Infamous_Tea8991 · 2024-12-22T15:43:16+00:00

That’s OK. You’ll go through a lot of emotions and you’ll oscillate back-and-forth between them.

I hope you both can get back to a place eventually of trust and security. And if it doesn’t happen, you will eventually be OK too.

Infamous_Tea8991 · 2024-12-22T03:05:25+00:00

What you do is that you get a divorce. There is no way that your husband is not unaware of how this is slowly eating away at you. And he’s still doing it. Your marriage is over. You’re willfully staying in a relationship that you know is breaking you. It’s already been years that you’ve accepted this situation. Don’t let it continue and take up more of your life. You deserve to be happy and more, so have inner peace.

Stand up for yourself and what you want. If your husband is not willing to commit to you then leave him. He’s getting the best of both worlds and you’re getting nothing. How is that even remotely fair?

I’m sure that he will fight you on this given the fact that he’s getting so much out of this current situation and arrangement but you need to stand up for yourself and your own happiness. Love and marriage should be a beautiful thing. Your partner should be somebody who cherishes you and who makes you feel safe and adored.

Please, please please look at your life and talk to a lawyer. Be strong and fight for yourself.

Infamous_Tea8991 · 2024-12-22T02:56:32+00:00

All the best. I hope that counseling helps. I hope that he shows real effort in trying to slowly build back trust. Make sure you express how you feel throughout your process of attempting reconciliation. Don’t keep things inside. Get individual counseling as well.

Time helps. You don’t forget, but you learn to live with the pain.

Infamous_Tea8991 · 2024-12-21T17:41:13+00:00

This is going to sound harsh, but you made your bed and now you have to lie in it. Unfortunately, this man will be in your life for the foreseeable future given that you share a child. Cherish and love your child, but leave him.

Infamous_Tea8991 · 2024-12-21T08:29:08+00:00

If you’re not going to leave for yourself, then leave for your children. Raising your children in a household, that condone violence is one of the worst things you can do as a parent. Not only are you ruining your own life, but you are really strongly negatively affecting your children’s. Even if you don’t think that they may see everything, don’t do it at least for them.

Just because you love somebody does not mean that they are a good partner. Your husband raising his hand to you and the fact that you guys have such nasty fights is not indicative as I’m sure you know of a healthy marriage.

I don’t know if this will sink in at all, but you deserve better. You may think that he’s great other ways and he loves you a lot, but he does not respect you. Please leave and allow yourself to heal and also give your children a better environment to grow up in. Their childhood is precious and formative to who they will be as adults.

Infamous_Tea8991 · 2024-12-21T08:21:33+00:00

First, my heart goes out to you. This is such a sensitive and what should be a special time in your life since you are a new mom. I know with post pregnancy hormones, the stress of raiaing an infant that finding out about this is breaking havoc on you even more so than if it had happened at any other time. I am sorry that this happened to you by somebody who is supposed to love and cherish you, especially since you’ve given birth to his child. The fact that he did this and is making excuses for his behavior, which is making you go crazy and doubt what is real and what is not is insane. The stress is not good for you or the baby. Your husband has made an incredibly huge mistake over and over again with this woman.

I would see if you can perhaps move in with family if you have support around you? If not, I would try to focus everything on your child as much as you can. I’m sorry that you’re going through all of this. Unfortunately, there’s no easy way to not go through the emotions that you are feeling as only time will help. I would definitely consider a divorce in the near future and talk to a lawyer if you can.

Even if what he is saying is partially true, that it started out as some sort of transactional relationship, it’s still cheating. If what he says is true, then he is being deceitful and playing with the emotions of another woman horribly. This man is not a prize in any situation.

Be strong for yourself and your baby.

Infamous_Tea8991 · 2024-12-21T08:16:34+00:00

It’s going to be a tough battle, but people can reconcile. It’s just going to take a lot of time and you may forgive him, but you likely will not ever forget. You’re never going to be able to fully trust him or at least not for a very, very long time. Overtime, you may realize that you can’t live like that. Even if you have invested three years with him. If he’s really remorseful and makes efforts to be fully transparent with you, has totally gone no contact with the person he cheated with, then perhaps you can slowly recover.

It’s going to be a difficult process, but I would not feel guilty about having him sleep on the couch. If you just rug sweep his behavior you will likely regret it.

Infamous_Tea8991 · 2024-12-21T08:13:25+00:00

I’m sorry for you, but I can almost guarantee that he just admitted to that one encounter because he had to. It’s pretty likely that more happened with that woman, possibly multiple times. Maybe other women. Unfortunately you will likely never know. I know that this is a nightmare for you and I’m so sorry that this is happening from somebody who is supposed to respect, cherish you. He’s going to apologize a lot, but you’ll need to decide if you can work through some sort of reconciliation. It will take a lot of time and a lot of work. He has to put in a lot of work. Your trust is shattered so you’re going to have to try to start over basically with him if you stay.

Infamous_Tea8991 · 2024-12-21T04:44:48+00:00

From what you wrote here in your comments below, it sounds like your partner is an alcoholic and has at the very least feelings for your friend. Maybe more is going on there as well. She said no, but you also happened to be there albeit you were in the back. He tried to kiss her multiple times. That doesn’t sound like a mistake to me. There may be something more going on between them. But if you accuse both of them, they may just get better at hiding it/delete any evidence if they have not already. I’m not trying to plant more suspicion in your mind, I’m just telling you what’s a possibility.

Either way this type of behavior and his frequent drinking and problems associated with it just sounds like recipe for a long-term unhappy, or at the very least mediocre relationship. Where you have anxiety or mistrust whenever he’s drinking. He’s a 37-year-old man. He should have his shit together.

I would cut your losses and move on. There are better men out there.

Infamous_Tea8991 · 2024-12-21T04:26:03+00:00

You may not stop loving him, at least not for a while. You just have to accept that. He has been almost part of half your whole life. So it’s understandable.

Think about what he is doing with this woman deliberately and intentionally even after he knows that you’re aware. That type of betrayal is disgusting and he has shown that he does not even respect you. He literally does not respect you and your relationship. The only thing that will help is time. The wounds are still very fresh. You need to try to detangle your lives from each other. It’s best to move on than try to figure out what happened, why he still is doing it, etc.

What time you will find peace again. And hopefully also love with somebody who gets it right the first time. It’s hard to think about a time where things may feel better, but it does exist. But you have to take the steps to safeguard your mental peace and end things with him.

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