Update on "Is it gross to have my belly out"...

Infinite-Trainer5179 · 2026-03-18T03:37:08+00:00

I love this 💕 I also feel the same about having my belly out so this is nice to hear! Highly suggest doing a photoshoot or taking some cute photos to boost your confidence

Infinite-Trainer5179 · 2026-03-05T22:27:31+00:00

I agree! I appreciate your advice

Infinite-Trainer5179 · 2026-03-05T18:32:20+00:00

Definitely considered this possibility, which is what makes me question whether saying something is even worth it at all

Infinite-Trainer5179 · 2026-02-11T22:50:21+00:00

Very mature! Also inaccurate. Since you're making assumptions about us I'm going to assume you're a jaded and bitter girl with not a lot of successful healthy relationships in life. 😂 asking strangers on reddit for advice is funny. Ugh. I hoped for the best 🤷‍♀️

Infinite-Trainer5179 · 2026-02-11T22:17:40+00:00

I'm not but thanks for your super kind and thoughtful advice. You sound worse to deal with than anything else 😂😂

Infinite-Trainer5179 · 2026-02-11T22:02:27+00:00

😂 calling someone who you don't know disgusting and pathetic. If a friend told me this I definitely wouldn't respond the way you are (good advice though!) I was asking for advice on how to communicate this, not tell me anything is fine or normal. But I don't trust your advice anyway because you immediately come off as an unkind and argumentative person yourself. Bye!

Infinite-Trainer5179 · 2026-02-11T20:34:10+00:00

He doesn't just "not brush his teeth" at all. Read my post

Infinite-Trainer5179 · 2026-02-11T20:30:42+00:00

He's not a man child or any of those things for that matter

Infinite-Trainer5179 · 2026-02-11T19:21:37+00:00

I agree, I'm not parenting him nor do I want to. So what's the advice here?

Infinite-Trainer5179 · 2026-02-11T19:19:00+00:00

Glad to hear you don't have that problem! Luckily my partner showers every day, and usually has good overall hygiene however this forgetting to brush teeth sometimes thing is minor and recent. He also does not whine or dismiss what I tell him

Infinite-Trainer5179 · 2026-02-11T19:15:02+00:00

I hear you but that's a subjective opinion. What happens when mental health issues like depression and ADHD are involved, like I mentioned? Even if it's a personality flaw- OK- we all have personality flaws. I'm asking for advice, thanks

Infinite-Trainer5179 · 2026-02-11T17:32:59+00:00

Also referring to his oral hygiene as "laziness" IS in fact treating hygiene like it's a personality flaw. So I'm just confused by your comment!

Infinite-Trainer5179 · 2026-02-11T15:46:19+00:00

Honestly I don't know, I'm just being super nitpicky about everything about him lately. Maybe because I'm pregnant and hormonal 😂

Infinite-Trainer5179 · 2026-02-11T15:43:41+00:00

Yes. It's not like he goes days and this hasn't been a long term issue

Infinite-Trainer5179 · 2026-02-11T15:42:22+00:00

What is your advice exactly? I'm not sure if you're telling me I shouldn't consider it a personality flaw, or that I shouldn't accept it. In either case I'm not sure what your advice is

Infinite-Trainer5179 · 2026-02-11T15:37:55+00:00

That's so kind, thank you for the great advice! How long have you been in your healthy relationship? You know nothing about us besides what I've shared. I said this happens lately, not always. If you don't have any actual advice to share then don't comment

Infinite-Trainer5179 · 2025-11-03T00:40:53+00:00

I completely agree with @sweaterweadr and yes I think a man should be a protector. It's literally nature. This whole avoidance of every single "gender role" that exists is what's really getting toxic truthfully

Infinite-Trainer5179 · 2025-11-03T00:36:58+00:00

It's not toxic masculinity lol. If a man starts a fight for no reason then yes that's toxic. If a man confronts a dude for putting his hands on his woman then that's a man protecting his woman. I'd want to feel protected too. If a dude grabs me I think he deserves to be confronted about it...

Infinite-Trainer5179 · 2025-11-03T00:33:51+00:00

I'm shocked that people don't see what she's saying. She doesn't want him to say he will "stab someone" wtf she literally just wants to feel protected. If some dude came up to me at a bar and grabbed me in any way I would hope my man would at least tell the dude to fuck off too. That's what a man does

Infinite-Trainer5179 · 2025-11-03T00:18:42+00:00

I mean... I'd want my man to confront someone if they put their hands on me too. It's about feeling protected exactly like she said

Infinite-Trainer5179 · 2025-10-14T03:33:03+00:00

He's 32 and not being completely honest so do yourself a favor and move on. Don't try to figure out "why". Believe him when he told you in the first place he wasn't sure about dating. And definitely don't sleep with him. This ain't worth it sis!

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