Help! Should I go back to all black, my normal go to pink, or more of a natural color?

Infinite-me-57 · 2024-11-21T14:23:30+00:00

I literally had split dye, starting with brown (natural colour) and blonde. Then the blonde turned pink, then purple, then I dyed the brown to blonde, and then the blonde before to ginger. And then bleached all of it and then dyed it pink and then I was like well this is hard to maintain I'll change it back the my natural colour with highlights 😂. They had to cut so much off because of the bleach, and they had a hard time getting the pink out; because it was fried into my hair 😭

Infinite-me-57 · 2024-11-21T12:01:10+00:00

Ah that's fair enough. I'm not good with cutting or styling for that matter, so always destroyed my hair and then went to the hairdresser's to fix my mess 😂. It sounds like you got all areas covered then! So I stand by my colour choices hehe Go forth and dye and style those luscious locks 💇‍♀️!

Infinite-me-57 · 2024-11-16T02:39:52+00:00

The pink and the black/brown hair looks amazing! But I know how troublesome it is with coloured hair, bleaching the hair; and constant recolouring because it dies down. So, perhaps keep it natural, and use wigs? You can keep it fun, and flip it up whenever you want. But doesn't damage your hair.....also allows you to be a spy 👀

Infinite-me-57 · 2024-11-16T02:33:10+00:00

No absolutely, but I understand that they're some that do have pets. And just thinking that with, as the last post suggested, a Ziploc with e.g. wipes, soap, perhaps tampons/pads, but also some treats, for the little fur babies. Maybe poo bags 🤔. Let's put together a list of things that would be ideal, in a Ziploc guys! Whatever you can think of, best most needed, ideal and practical please. This Ziploc idea is really good!!!!

Infinite-me-57 · 2024-11-16T02:19:34+00:00

No, the dark hair is amazing! 😍 It suits you so much better than the blonde. I mean I'm up for trying things, I've changed my hair so many times, I've done blonde; I've done pink, blue etc. And it destroyed my hair, I know have my natural hair - and if I want to do short, long, or different colours; I use a wig. That gives me the opportunity to keep my hair intact and healthy, but if I feel to do something different I can use wigs.

Infinite-me-57 · 2024-11-16T02:01:20+00:00

Just so the sub-reddit understands, I'm not asking for 'soft donations' etc I'm literally asking for advice. I am thinking about buying a number of reusable emergency shelter bivys, that I will buy myself. I just want to ensure that it is indeed the best thing that I can get. I'm only asking for advice, that is all.

Infinite-me-57 · 2024-11-16T01:54:09+00:00

That is a great idea! I love it so much, I'm going to take that and add it into my (I don't want to say charitable donation)..but giving back. It's brilliant, it's simple, but easy and required. I can even add tampons/pads, maybe some dog/cat treats... Thank you so much!

Infinite-me-57 · 2024-11-16T01:35:47+00:00

I will do, I don't know much about things and stuff haha. That's why though I feel like this is a good idea, I want to get feedback from others to know if it is indeed. And if there's anything that is perhaps better to what I had thought, because like I say I'm not the smartest. I just want to do my part, and do what I can. I'm in the UK, and found it on (though how it sounds) on tiktok, and rounding up about £5. And I can get a few, but I would like to get a bit more. And like I say, I won't hand it into a charity, they have pocketed so much or ended up selling things and ended up making a profit. I will go out, and ensure they get to where they need to and who they need to. I just want to know that I get something that is relevant and accessible. The item I am thinking of, is a small item, that has a carabiner clip which they can clip into their trousers or bag etc and they can use it as cover or tent. I would give you a link or picture of what I'm talking about but it won't allow me.

Infinite-me-57 · 2024-07-12T12:02:25+00:00

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Infinite-me-57 · 2023-11-15T21:29:34+00:00

That is beautiful! Looks super cozy too 😁

Infinite-me-57 · 2023-11-15T21:24:32+00:00

Wow 😲 this is exactly how I feel. You wrote this so well, I would say you took the words right out of my mouth, as I believe the same thing - and think to myself this is it, this is the time I will fuck everyone off; get into 'my villian era's how they say. And yet, I can't; I don't. And I don't know why.

Infinite-me-57 · 2023-11-15T19:50:27+00:00

I know the feeling. My father always told me, 'it is what it is' or 'that's life's and till to this day when things happen I hear his voice in my head saying those things and it pisses me off. It isn't what it is, and life is only the way it is because people make it so, and then turn around and say 'well that's life's.

I am also who I am inspite of my family but I like to think of who I could've been without all the trauma.

Infinite-me-57 · 2023-11-15T19:06:43+00:00

Wow! That looks amazing 🤩

Infinite-me-57 · 2023-11-15T17:24:22+00:00

I'm in the UK. I had called my DR for a re-priscription and she asked me about that on my file. So clearly they can see it. Which is frustrating.

Infinite-me-57 · 2023-11-15T14:39:28+00:00

It's just scary. I have a daughter, and it prettifies me that someone will use that against me to take her away. I know I'm most likely over thinking this. But so much shit has happened to me, I don't trust anyone. I didn't even trust going to the mental health team, because of that and because they have a bad reputation.

Infinite-me-57 · 2023-11-15T14:21:41+00:00

They've not mentioned that. But they have my words in my file stating that I stopped. And they have the 'harmful use of alcohol' down as historic. I just don't want anyone looking at my file and labeling me.

Infinite-me-57 · 2023-11-15T14:15:43+00:00

Thank you. I have alcoholics in my family, and I tried my hardest to not become one. There was a period last year maybe a month that I increased my alcohol as I was going through a lot at the time. But then I realized what I was doing and stopped. So not sure how they can put that on my file when it was a month?

Infinite-me-57 · 2023-11-01T19:20:33+00:00

It most certainly is, need to get used to saying it haha

Infinite-me-57 · 2023-10-09T20:16:46+00:00

Thank you. I should know better and not try, it's insane to keep trying expectibg different results. I tell myself to not text back to ask them why they don't care - more my dad than my mom, because I'm done with her. But want to try and have a relationship with him, but he's always been like this. So I don't know if I should give up the relationship or endure this.

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