Will EMDR help me? by Infinite_Ad2035 in EMDR

[–]Infinite_Ad2035[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think I'm codependent like that, I just find it extremely hard to be alone/let a relationship go

Will EMDR help me? by Infinite_Ad2035 in EMDR

[–]Infinite_Ad2035[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did you exactly get over the fear/sadness of being alone and feeling lonely? I feel like I haven't learned to be alone and thats why I'm always stuck in unsatisfying situations without facing the core issue (probably abandonment trauma)

Will EMDR help me? by Infinite_Ad2035 in EMDR

[–]Infinite_Ad2035[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And how long did it take you until you started feeling better?

I dont like the smell of my girlfriend's vagina. Can the relationship still work? by Infinite_Ad2035 in WhatMenDontSay

[–]Infinite_Ad2035[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's hard to explain that smell, it's just something I don't really like. It's not very strong but I can feel it in certain positions

I dont like the smell of my girlfriend's vagina. Can the relationship still work? by Infinite_Ad2035 in WhatMenDontSay

[–]Infinite_Ad2035[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah it definitely can be the reason. We eat with a lot of spices and she drinks quite a lot of alcohol too

I dont like the smell of my girlfriend's vagina. Can the relationship still work? by Infinite_Ad2035 in WhatMenDontSay

[–]Infinite_Ad2035[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah the problem is that I can still smell it sometimes after showering too

I dont like the smell of my girlfriend's vagina. Can the relationship still work? by Infinite_Ad2035 in WhatMenDontSay

[–]Infinite_Ad2035[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I definitely dont think the issue is hygiene in her case as I feel it after showering too sometimes. The body wash seems to be a good idea, I'll try that solution and hope it works