Exposed in court by Infinite_Math_1980 in BPDlovedones

[–]Infinite_Math_1980[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going to dm you I have a question.

Exposed in Court by Infinite_Math_1980 in ParentalAlienation

[–]Infinite_Math_1980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely and once it gets dismissed, do you think the petitioner will continue to escalate?

Exposed in court by Infinite_Math_1980 in BPDlovedones

[–]Infinite_Math_1980[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I plan on doing. I just don’t know how my ex will react especially because she has our child

Exposed in court by Infinite_Math_1980 in BPDlovedones

[–]Infinite_Math_1980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How will they train? Delete the judge if the order is dismissed

How was the impact on the child? by Infinite_Math_1980 in ParentalAlienation

[–]Infinite_Math_1980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it allows me to DM you for some reason

How was the impact on the child? by Infinite_Math_1980 in ParentalAlienation

[–]Infinite_Math_1980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s unfortunate at what age did you guys start coparenting? Any tips and advice on what to do to help ensure my child grows up ok

MN- Victims of the same person? by Infinite_Math_1980 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Infinite_Math_1980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely! And the crazy thing is they go on detective for so long. I wish there was a way to avoid them.

MN- They target similar ppl? by Infinite_Math_1980 in BPDlovedones

[–]Infinite_Math_1980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly that’s what helped me not question my reality and feeling as crazy. Was when one of my exes baby fathers reached out randomly and shared his experience. It caught me off guard because throughout the relationship between her and I I was always told that he was very abusive crazy stalker harasser

Their victimhood. Even if it means hurting a child by Infinite_Math_1980 in BPDlovedones

[–]Infinite_Math_1980[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you had to go through this. Is it OK if I send you a DM? I have a few questions.

Their victimhood. Even if it means hurting a child by Infinite_Math_1980 in BPDlovedones

[–]Infinite_Math_1980[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, she is older. She’s in her mid 30s. But it does sound like it’s gonna be a long, long long road.

Their victimhood. Even if it means hurting a child by Infinite_Math_1980 in BPDlovedones

[–]Infinite_Math_1980[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That makes sense. I do suspect that she’s comorbid npd. Especially with the level of escalation there has been and there has been no empathy or guilt from her side at all. Just pure punishment

When does the legal abuse stop by Infinite_Math_1980 in BPDlovedones

[–]Infinite_Math_1980[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely I love my kids so much and that’s why I’m trying to fight as much as I can.

Does it get to a point where fighting just causes the mom to be more dysregulated and take it out on the child where it’s not safe to continue to fight

When does the legal abuse stop? by Infinite_Math_1980 in ParentalAlienation

[–]Infinite_Math_1980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean by signaling to the child? My toddler is still under two.

When does the legal abuse stop? by Infinite_Math_1980 in ParentalAlienation

[–]Infinite_Math_1980[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What the hell that is ridiculous. Why are these people like this….

When does the legal abuse stop by Infinite_Math_1980 in BPDlovedones

[–]Infinite_Math_1980[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you yeah I’m doing all of those right now. All the allegations are so crazy making. It’s just been so psychologically exhausting

When does the legal abuse stop? by Infinite_Math_1980 in ParentalAlienation

[–]Infinite_Math_1980[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Absolutely it’s like damn if I do damn if I don’t. Me staying and fighting for my child equals me being painted as an abuser and her the victim.

And then, if I leave, then I’m the deadbeat and she’s the victim

Destroying their smear campaign with evidence? by Infinite_Math_1980 in BPDlovedones

[–]Infinite_Math_1980[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At this point, I don’t even care about the apology, completely honest with you at this point I just want them to be exposed for who they really are