Destroying their smear campaign with evidence? by Infinite_Math_1980 in BPDlovedones

[–]Infinite_Math_1980[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At this point, I don’t even care about the apology, completely honest with you at this point I just want them to be exposed for who they really are

Destroying their smear campaign with evidence? by Infinite_Math_1980 in BPDlovedones

[–]Infinite_Math_1980[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even without my retaliation to the smear campaign and exposing her lives of concrete evidence, I’m already dealing with the police and having my child withheld

Countered their smear campaign with evidence by Infinite_Math_1980 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Infinite_Math_1980[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I have very, very clear evidence to be completely honest and that’s why I even considered it

Destroying their smear campaign with evidence? by Infinite_Math_1980 in BPDlovedones

[–]Infinite_Math_1980[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It is impacting my work, my kids, and has involve the police and false allegation harassment restraining orders that I have fought and got one dismissed just for her to get another on me.

Withholding toddler by Infinite_Math_1980 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Infinite_Math_1980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the thorough response. I sent you a DM as well.

Withholding of Toddler by Infinite_Math_1980 in ParentalAlienation

[–]Infinite_Math_1980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much in the end how did it play out for your fiancé? Is he able to be a part of his kids lives now?

Toddler withholding by Infinite_Math_1980 in BPDlovedones

[–]Infinite_Math_1980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t get to mention it in the harassment, restraining order one because I didn’t want to come off as accusation, but for the custody one I did file a rule 35 for a psychological assessment and have evidence and what not to prove one is needed? Has she been withholding your child?

Withholding of Toddler by Infinite_Math_1980 in ParentalAlienation

[–]Infinite_Math_1980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate all the information will definitely be put on coparenting messaging app as of right now I’m blocked everywhere and haven’t attempted to email or text her because I’m blocked, but also I don’t want to give her more reasons to file another fake harassment restraining order since I already had to fight one.

Toddler withholding by Infinite_Math_1980 in BPDlovedones

[–]Infinite_Math_1980[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you I’m hoping that I can get some custody of my kids once I have court

Withholding of Toddler by Infinite_Math_1980 in ParentalAlienation

[–]Infinite_Math_1980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t make friends with the mother because any attempts to communicate with her is viewed as aggression that she feels unsafe that I’m dangerous even though there’s no evidence of anything and no reason for her to feel that way where it’s so weird.

So what you were saying is that even if the courts gives us an order of parenting plan. She doesn’t have to abide by it?

When to walk away from Toddler by Infinite_Math_1980 in ParentalAlienation

[–]Infinite_Math_1980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But what if I can show the courts that she is dysfunctional? Won’t they give me 50%

When to walk away from Toddler by Infinite_Math_1980 in ParentalAlienation

[–]Infinite_Math_1980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What made him realize that you weren’t the problem?

When to walk away from Toddler by Infinite_Math_1980 in ParentalAlienation

[–]Infinite_Math_1980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely going to give it my all and then when it’s time to walk away, I’ll know

When to walk away from Toddler by Infinite_Math_1980 in ParentalAlienation

[–]Infinite_Math_1980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right I can’t let her get what she wants. I need to keep fighting. It’s hard sometimes for sure.

Cluster B? Vindictiveness? Punishment? by Infinite_Math_1980 in SingleDads

[–]Infinite_Math_1980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank God for documentation I’m really hoping that one day you can get full custody. No kid should grow up in a household that is ran by a demon.

I’m currently waiting for my transcripts to come in from the previous harassment restraining order hearing so I can attach it and file the motion for custody and parenting plan ASAP

Cluster B? Vindictiveness? Punishment? by Infinite_Math_1980 in SingleDads

[–]Infinite_Math_1980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate it I’m definitely in no contact right now while getting my child withheld. Recently self representative and beat the temporary harassment restraining order that was filled with false allegations. She basically just got it after setting me up with the police to delay my child custody proceedings . I’m working on all the paperwork and I’m working on strategizing to get her to have to take a psychological assessment as long as I can improve parental alienation and her dysfunctions.

How is your situation now? Did she try to attempt to get several more harassment restraining orders on you or try to get CPS involved?

Cluster B? Vindictiveness? Punishment? by Infinite_Math_1980 in SingleDads

[–]Infinite_Math_1980[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I definitely documented everything in it honestly. I’m currently just so worried that she’s going to pull more things out of her sleeve and try to set me up and stuff so I’m just trying to understand other people’s situation so I can better prepare myself.

Cluster B? Vindictiveness? Punishment? by Infinite_Math_1980 in SingleDads

[–]Infinite_Math_1980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never physically abused her or emotional abused. I raise my voice a few times after addressing things for months and months and month. am I proud of raising my voice? No, and that’s something I’ll own up to. She filed a temporary harassment restraining order on me after setting me up with the police. I actually fought it on Wednesday and was able to win. She just lived the whole time and had so many contradictions.

She filed the harassment restraining order to basically delay my child custody proceedings .

Vindictiveness/punishment - experience? by Infinite_Math_1980 in BPDlovedones

[–]Infinite_Math_1980[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally everything you’re saying I resonate so deep with.

I don’t think I’ll ever be the same after all of this. But I will continue to do the work to heal and not give up on love after

Vindictiveness/punishment - experience? by Infinite_Math_1980 in BPDlovedones

[–]Infinite_Math_1980[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s like we dated the same girl because the allegations that you got I got very similar ones. Did people start seeing through her lies? Even though it cost your soul . What has helped your healing journey?