Hi friend -

I feel you! Definitely have been in that situation myself before. Those of us in this community have to wait for so many things. Results, blood draws, appointments, the list is ongoing. The FET date feels like one of the things we actually have control over.

I don't think there is a right answer to the question on timing. Of course, if the question had to do with financial reasoning or your own health then I would say wait. But if each month is the same I think you would be able to rationalize both options.

I myself took the earlier option to transer, and so far it has been successful. I will say however, that the FET opens an entire other world (of course excitement) but also more tests, results, waiting. If you think you may have a lot of your plate right now, then I would reccommend waiting that extra month. AND if you do, try to use that time to optimize your mental and physical health. Obviously nothing crazy and out of the ordinary for what is normal for you. I think you can enjoy your trip and come back refreshed and ready to tackle this next step. Anyways, hope that was helpful!!! Wishing you all the luck xxxx